Parenting after a Loss

What does "i'll call you back" mean to you?

We had a friend, c, who for many reasons, i decided wasn't worth keeping as a friend. I let her know that I did not feel our friendship was moving in a good direction, nicely.?

Today she called me and dd was puking, pooping and whining. All while the dogs were being bad. Well i said, "can i call you back?" She proceeds to ask if i'm ok and tell me i don't sound good.

Uh hello... i'll friggin call you back! Goodbye. She has since called me 2 more times. Each time saying how she's nervous. Geez..... I'll call you back when i can.?

Until today i hadn't spoken to her in months. ?

Re: What does "i'll call you back" mean to you?

  • Does she have kids?  I lost my best friend because I texted her at 6:30 a.m. to cancel plans.  This was when my DS was choking every two hours, wasn't sleeping, was vomiting, and refluxing big time.  His intestines were also raw and inflamed.  I had plans with her and canceled them via text to be nice.  She didn't call me for two months.  Finally, she sent an email telling me how selfish I was texting her at 6:30 a.m. and thank God her phone was in the other room.  GEEEZ!  She used to turn her phone on silent.  I never emailed back figuring she'd never understand.  She also left me crying on the floor after my miscarriage to go to her new boyfriend's house.  ARGH!  I should have known then...

    Sorry to hijack your post, but your post hit home.  Thanks for the vent!

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  • she has 2 kids.?

    Wow, i'm so sorry your friend was such a b!itch. ?

  • I hate when people don't listen. they may hear you but they don't listen.

  • If she has kids she should "get it."  GRRR!  Thanks for the support. 
  • with two kids she should understand, she sounds clueless
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