December 2014 Moms

am I the only one who is sooo cranky???

Im 33+4 and I feel like everything is just annoying me. My mom just told me "you dont look happy" and I wanted to scream! Im happy, im just exhausted! I feel like the baby is tap dancing in my vag, I cant sleep because I was officially diagnosed with pelvic symphosis something or other, and Im taking care of a three year old. Someone said to me wow you really dropped and you look bigger...yes people im almost 34 weeks pregnant thats what happens!!!
But I feel bad because I know im being a crab. I hope it goes away after baby and im not so on edge. Anyone relate?

Re: am I the only one who is sooo cranky???

  • I'm a bright ray of sunshine these days.
    G 12.04 | E 11.06 | D 11.08  | H 12.09 | R 11.14 | Expecting #6 2.16.18.



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  • You're not alone. In the last week my hubby and sister have both told me i'm being mean. I honestly didn't think I was being that bad but I guess they think so. Im right there with you and prefer to be with just my husband and son. I don't think I was like this with my son, so its really weird to me. Hang in there mama, we're so close to the end
  • Completely agreeing, even when people honestly are trying to give me compliments I end up jumping down their throats.
  • All the people can suck it. Literally, all the human beings on earth. Everyone wants a piece of my time and I'm in meetings 37 times a day. No I will not tutor your kid. No I will not meet with you to discuss why your first graders report card is not all "As". No I will not show up to an ARD meeting you scheduled 30 minutes ago. NO YOU MAY NOT TALK TO ME "FOR A SEC". Everyone needs to leave me the f alone. STAT!!!!
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  • Right there with you. I am not even going to go into all the things that annoy me lately because it would take days to read. Lets just say i don't "look happy" either.
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  • Yes, you are the only one feeling cranky.



    Just kidding. Can you tell I'm feeling cranky right there with you? ;)
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  • It's funny when you know you're being a bitch and don't want or need to be but you can't stop it. DH has learned that when I walk away or say I want to change the subject that he just better let it be or else nobody will be happy. And it's always over stupid little shit like what kind of apples to buy at the grocery store.

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  • I'm a bright ray of sunshine these days.
    Please tell me this is sarcasm. Please.
    Bahahaha. Yes it is. I'm hardly a bright ray of sunshine.
    G 12.04 | E 11.06 | D 11.08  | H 12.09 | R 11.14 | Expecting #6 2.16.18.



  • The thread title made me LOL which I appreciate. I just got my 2nd "Geez, calm down" response from someone at work today. Yeah, I guess I'm a little cranky - cranky about people who keep saying "This is Apsalartoll team's responsibility."  when it's not.  Or "Hey, Apsalartoll, can you please have a look at these items and respond." Or "This is an URGENT issue, please handle ASAP!" when I know that there's a good chance tomorrow they'll come back "Sorry, forgot to add, can you please do this thing too?  It's URGENT!!!111!!!"

    None of these are new, of course, I'm just cranky now because I'm uncomfortable and my patience is extremely thin, and I'm wondering how they're going to manage when I'm on maternity leave.
    DD born December 2014!
  • No. I hate pretty much everyone and just want to be left alone.

    God forbid you ask me what I deem to be a stupid question.
    LOL /ded


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  • jlmynesjlmynes member
    edited November 2014
    I'm just happy to see I'm not alone! I'm embracing the crazy town feeling I'm having lately, it seems to keep everyone at bay and leave me the h alone! PS when can we have a bottle of wine already!!
  • Oh good gracious, yes. I am a raging bitch lately, and I feel so bad about it! I'm normally a nice person! :P  We have friends in from out of town (childless, engaged, young and energetic), and I have completely let them take over parenting my DD this weekend. I should care, but I am all out of giveafucks. I know they didn't come to spend their whole weekend with a 3-year-old, but she took to them like white on rice, and they love her too, so I've let them have at it. 
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    Losses 5/13, 8/13, and 3/14. 
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  • Seriously everytime I see this title my sarcastic and bitch self says "yes, you are."

    Then, I realize how fucking cranky I am and can totally relate. 36 weeks pregnant with a giant baby and a sleep hating toddler does not a happy person make. My mantra and only thing that gets me through the day is "4 more weeks."

     

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  • My husband got home around 1 pm Friday and mentioned he was tired and wasn't going to get a project done before I got home at 4. Apparently my response was enough to get him some energy, he got it done and mentioned it was one of those "saving our marriage things"... I think I fall in the cranky category too ;)

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  • Definitely not alone. My bff just called me hormonal yep!
  • I didn't have any cranky feelings until this past week (work related stress didn't help).  Then, I was SO WEEPY all weekend.  My poor husband.  I'm not a crier at all, but I think I cried at least 5 times this weekend.  The worst was when I cried in Barnes and Noble (because children's books give me all the feels), and then cried again when as we were leaving B&N I walked into a sign post - I didn't cry because it hurt, I cried because it surprised me.  

    I also yelled I HAVE SO MANY EMOTIONS while bawling in said parking lot.

    So what I mean by this is, yeah, you're not alone.
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  • Nope not cranky....but not sure if those around me would agree with that assessment. ;)


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  • Nope not cranky....but not sure if those around me would agree with that assessment. ;)
    Yeah, my husband always begs to differ when I say "It's not because I'm pregnant that I'm acting this way!!!" 


    He might be right, but he'll never know it.


    || BFP #1: 12-9-13 | EDD: 8-23-14 | Stopped growing 8w4d | D&C 2-7-14 ||
    || BFP #2: 4-4-14 | EDD: 12-13-14 | Betas 4-19-14 *9,800* | Betas 4-21-14 *20,000* ||
    Alina born 12-18-14



  • I feel like we are twins. I have PSD and it totally sucks. My husband tells me at least 4x a week I'm being cranky and I want to yell 'WTF DO YOU EXPECT?!'

    I'm fat, can't walk like a normal person, am exhausted, working 45 hours a week, can't put on my shoes without getting winded and pee every 30 minutes. Yeah, not exactly sunshine and rainbows.

    On a final note, whenever people complain to me about being tired I want to sucker punch them. They do not know the meaning of the word 'tired.'
  • I'm so cranky but I feel like I have to put on a happy face everyday, because I'm still working and I work with kids.  It's hard sometimes, but their optimism usually makes me feel better about how terrible I am usually feeling.
    Married my best friend 7/2/11 - Furbaby born 7/9/11 and brought into our home 9/1/11

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    BFP#2:   2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed 

    Surprise BFP#3:  4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!

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  • I am such an irrationally irritable bitch that I looked at the title of this thread and said "Aw, you're cranky? Isn't that cute?".

    I apologize.
  • Right there with you. Today being an especially cranky day. I almost blew a gasket at work, also had to deal with homeowner's association bullshit, and then actually did just lose my shit over the phone with DH because this baby doesn't have a name yet. I am home alone all week (every week) while he's working out of state, and when I started the phone conversation with, "I have been irritable all day," that should have been his first clue. I find us both to be responsible for what ensued from there. Ugh.
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  • Eora3 said:
    I am such an irrationally irritable bitch that I looked at the title of this thread and said "Aw, you're cranky? Isn't that cute?". I apologize.
    I'm also guilty of this.
    Clearly I am so so cranky.
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