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Excited, Happy, Scared,

Well hi im new here...I was expecting early this year but lost it at 8 weeks on 8-25, i was due on 3-22-15.I found out this Saturday that im in fact pregnant again. My hubby and I was definitely not purposely trying,but it indeed happened (fast i mite add) and i have soooo many emotions going on. I honestly don't know what to feel being that ive had 2 prior m/c overall im happy...but im scared to become excited, im scared to get attached...im just really reserved. We're definetly NOT announcing until at least 5months. It was very hard and kind of embarrassing to announce my last pregnancy then had to explained that i lost it. Is anyone else feeling like this? i feel bad for not being all jolly but im scared to go thru another loss :(

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    Welcome and congrats! Just take it one day at a time.
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    Congrats and welcome!

    The way I figure it, I would be devastated (again) if I lost this baby, so I might as well be happy right now. It's so, so scary being pregnant following a loss(es). Check out First Trimester check-in when it posts later today!

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    Congratulations! I agree with pp, take it one day at a time. It can be hard to stay positive but treating each big moment as a milestone has helped me get through the tough days.



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    Congrats and welcome! I felt the same way in the beginning. The mantras on the board helped me a lot!
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    Congrats!! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months :)
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    Congratulations and welcome!!
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    thank you all...reading your comments made me feel so much better...thanks again and goodluck to each of you!
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    Welcome and congrats!
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    Congratulations and welcome 
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    Welcome and congrats! Wishing you an easy 9 months!

    As PPs have said, your feelings are completely normal and justified. PgAL brain does some crazy things to us. What I have tried to focus on that seems to work is that this LO deserves people to be excited about him/her and in no way will that jinx anything. I hope that you can find a way to get excited and comfortable in these weeks to come, though I know how hard it is.
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    Welcome and congratulations :)
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