We do it at least once a week and have determined that doing it in our armless chair is the most enjoyable. We moved I E up to our bedroom from the living room aolely5for that purpose... Miracle position. No pressure on me and the girls, no pelvis pain... Perfect...
Wait, explain this again. Are you on top? (I'm assuming so). I was on top the other night (in bed) and he hit my cervix and I bled. I freaked out. I need a comfy position because we are both frustrated right now.
Why not just have him take you from behind? (I can't believe I just typed that)
Heehee. That's my favorite (and I can't believe I just typed that). He does and will, but it's not comfortable. It is what it is, I guess.
Try husband standing next to the bed with you laying on it on your back. It's about the only way I can get through sex these days...no pressure or touching of the belly...easier to breathe. My DH is taller so we have a platform from our more adventuresome days that we use to make me a little higher.
We do DH on his side and me in my back/side with my butt facing his head. Kind of making an x shape. Like spooning but me twisted a bit. Hopefully that makes sense. That has worked well for us all three pregnancies. It is most comfortable for me and he can really only grab at my leg which prevents the awkward touching of the belly.
My fiance isn't thinking twice about hurting the baby - this doesn't stop him at all! We are probably averaging 1x/week but if it was up to him it would be more. I'm just too tired! Lol
Re: Not getting sex
Try husband standing next to the bed with you laying on it on your back. It's about the only way I can get through sex these days...no pressure or touching of the belly...easier to breathe. My DH is taller so we have a platform from our more adventuresome days that we use to make me a little higher.