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  • DH and I have not had sex in 2 weeks since I got my BFP. I'm terrified of cramping, spotting, etc. afterwards. I also have had NO energy! He is probably going through withdrawals since we were ED or EOD for the few months of trying. He's being a trooper so far though.



    EXACTLY this. Poor DH:(
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  • Budders12 said:

    I am really struggling with being overweight going into this pregnancy. I'm really bumming out about already weighing as much as I do and then having to gain weight on top of it (and can't try to lose weight, even though when I was trying pre-pregnancy it wasn't very successful). Being sick and unable to exercise recently hasn't helped. I'm planning to talk to the doctor at my appointment, but this is eating away at me a little bit in the meantime.

    I can relate. I have obsessed over my weight for as long as I can remember. I'm committed to eating healthy and exercising but it freaks me out a little to know that I NEED to gain weight. At my first appointment I'm going to talk to my Dr about not telling me what my weight is throughout the pregnancy, maybe just telling me if I'm doing good or need to cut back a little. That way I'm not haunted/stressed by a number and can do what's right for the health of my baby.
  • @Budder12, I hope you get some sort of plan from your doctor and I understand. I was trying to lose weight before the BFP, I lost a few pounds using the myfitnesspal meal tracker, but I've noticed the scale slowly going back up the last two weeks. I did read that if you're significantly overweight it's OK to diet somewhat in pregnancy, but it depends. I also recall from TTGP that you had some serious other health issues that prevented you from doing intense exercise and various other things. I dont know if it works for you, but for myself I notice that I gain weight less quickly if I make an effort to get enough sleep and drink lots of water along with eating more fruits and vegetables than anything else. I know with the nausea it's not always possible, but it's all I got.

    I still have all my pee sticks, but they're in the bathroom cupboard and I forgot about them. Then the other day I opened the door and saw them all. It was strange. Still didnt throw them away.

    My FFFC: we're visiting DH's best friend and his family this weekend. Dh is the godfather of their kids. I'm so excited to go on a trip, but I just started to realize, I'm going to be hanging out with kids. Now I'm worried it'll be boring family-stuff for three days.
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  • JoJo1111 said:
    I have absolutely no sex drive since getting pregnant. I've been trying to do *something* at least once/week for DH's sake, but man I'm just not feeling it!!
    We haven't done anything since my bfp. Between thinking I was going to miscarry for two weeks and the constant dry heaving I haven't been in the mood. Wife of the year over here :(
    I'm with you.  Poor DH. I feel "up for it" all day and always plan on it. And then when DD goes to bed...that's the last thing on my mind. 


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  • Oh, and my FFFC. I'm not feeling the best today (shocker) and am trying to use that to convince DH to order my beloved BLT pizza for dinner.
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  • I have absolutely no sex drive since getting pregnant. I've been trying to do *something* at least once/week for DH's sake, but man I'm just not feeling it!!

    I'm 8wks along today. Still haven't dtd. Basically, with all the bloating, puking, etc... I just don't feel sexy.

  • I hate the pee stick avatars and if you have one I most likely skim past anything you post.
    If your avatar is of just your face I automatically assume you are a little bit full of yourself.
  • Man all those women's dhs that have only been deprived for two weeks are lucky. Last time we dtd was in September! I haven't been nauseous or anything just have not been in the mood and have been kinda tired. Guess we better get busy tonight! Lol
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  • My FFFC: I'm so incredibly pissed that I will likely still be dealing with 24/7 nausea and having no appetite at Thanksgiving this year. Like seriously mad. I LOVE Thanksgiving food!!! And also, that I probably won't be able to go Black Friday shopping either because of it.

    Damn you nausea!!! X(
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  • I had a orange push-pop for lunch today.  I plan on having another after dinner. They always seem to settle my stomach.
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  • seriously @comeongetdown?   Does me having or not having kids give me the right or the lack there of to be insulted and hurt when people lie to me? 
  • kgille921 said:
    seriously @comeongetdown?   Does me having or not having kids give me the right or the lack there of to be insulted and hurt when people lie to me? 
    You are just so not getting it.
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  • I appreciate y'alls opinion and I didn't mean to hurt your feelings.   I have an opinion about something and it's okay that you disagree. I am more than certain that as we go through the next 8 months we'll continue to disagree. 
  • abeatyrn said:

    I've been tracking my steps with a fitbit and trying to reach 10,000 steps a day. Yesterday I was so exhausted I planned on nothing but relaxing and watching tv all day but the thought of getting the email from my tracker saying "I did not meet my goal" bothered me so much that I hooked the fitbit to my dog's collar for the day X_X

    ^^^ this is amazing!!! If only I had a dog! A couple of weekends ago my family and I were doing a fitbit challenge. I was EXHAUSTED so DH offered to walk around with it, but I just decided to lose.
  • *giggles*  Now that is an amusing .gif.  
  • aimhop said:
    I'm glad to hear I'm not alone! I have a video of this one turning positive as well - from the time I dropped the pee into the window to the time the line gets good and dark :-\" It's ok to be on the crazy train, as long as you have company ;)
    @aimhop this is only crazy if you uploaded it to YouTube
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • DH has been joking (and jinxing us, and my opinion) that this is a twin pregnancy. I'm 99% sure that I'm going to send him a twin u/s after my appointment on Tuesday. Still undecided on how long I'll let him believe it.
    @mamahawk12 this is amazing. Serves him right for not going with you.
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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • abeatyrn said:
    I've been tracking my steps with a fitbit and trying to reach 10,000 steps a day. Yesterday I was so exhausted I planned on nothing but relaxing and watching tv all day but the thought of getting the email from my tracker saying "I did not meet my goal" bothered me so much that I hooked the fitbit to my dog's collar for the day X_X
    @abeatyrn seriously LOLed at this.
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    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • aimhop said:
    I'm glad to hear I'm not alone! I have a video of this one turning positive as well - from the time I dropped the pee into the window to the time the line gets good and dark :-\" It's ok to be on the crazy train, as long as you have company ;)
    @aimhop this is only crazy if you uploaded it to YouTube
    BAHAHA Im laughing because I have a youtube channel and am guilty of this @bookishmomma
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    edited October 2014
    aimhop said:
    I'm glad to hear I'm not alone! I have a video of this one turning positive as well - from the time I dropped the pee into the window to the time the line gets good and dark :-\" It's ok to be on the crazy train, as long as you have company ;)
    @aimhop this is only crazy if you uploaded it to YouTube
    BAHAHA Im laughing because I have a youtube channel and am guilty of this @bookishmomma
    @HawaiianSunset09 Ha ha, I have totally seen videos like yours--well, I admit I haven't watched any of them, but they pop up as suggestions when I'm searching for shit like "How to Use a Fetal Doppler." And I always think, "Who does this?" And now I have an answer!

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    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • catmagickcatmagick member
    edited October 2014
    Okay. I just threw out my positive pregnancy tests the other day. I have photos of them still so I think that counts. Also, I have not had sex in FOREVERRR. MH and I couldn't have any sex after transfer on Sept. 30th and before that we had only had sex twice in 6 weeks because of a stubborn yeast infection I had.  I AM SO HORNY!!!! 

    ETA: Also.........I may have been hoarding (READ: hiding) cookies from MH so I don't have to share   :-S  
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  • Last sex was just over 4 weeks ago. A day or 2 before our FET on 9/23. 2 weeks restriction and then I've been bleeding and spotting on and off since 5w6d when I raced to re's office for scan and bloodwork. 7w1d today. Saw heartbeat this am and 20 min later gushing blood and clots. This is my first tri story. I am going to be one of those women who bleeds. Awesome. I'm so excited to wear a pad every day while pregnant. Yippee. Also. My hand hurts from whacking dh. And I have sexy dreams and just want to jump him in the middle of the night every night... this sucks.
  • Glad I'm not the only one, my sex drive went out the window when the test came back positive. I'm try to keep him happy, but I'm never in the mood. Any ideas?
  • I told DH that I was going to make dinner like an hour and a half ago. I downloaded The Sims on my phone instead.
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