June 2014 Moms
manny3773
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My Honest Opinion As A Mother!!!
manny3773
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I have a 4 month old that loves to play and cry at 2,3,4,5 in the morning and that doesn't have me suffering like most comments I have read from moms. If it was easy for us moms to go out late, drink and party, why is being a mother so exhausting for some of you lady's. Being a mother should be fun, exciting, and happy times. All it sounds is like you have so much to nug about. Honestly to me it sounds like it's boring to be a mom to some of you moms as for me It's My Life To Be A Mother. Your baby should not be making you mentally or physically dranged like some of you women say. It should be happiness and enjoyment because your child or children are still breathing. I feel extremely blessed to know my baby crys and wants to play at Midnight And Mornings. It's shows my baby is healthy and well Alive.
Enjoy being a Mother. This is just my opinion. It's so sad to read all this comments making motherhood sound so horrible when it's just AMAZING!!!!
Enjoy being a Mother. This is just my opinion. It's so sad to read all this comments making motherhood sound so horrible when it's just AMAZING!!!!
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Re: My Honest Opinion As A Mother!!!
Ps- it's 5am and I have two glass bottles suctioned to me pumping away like a cow (in fact I'm even wearing black and white) while DH, LO and my dog are sound asleep upstairs. I think I have a right to get on here and BMW with my fave J14s.
Pss- motherhood is amazing and I wouldn't change it for the world.
Perhaps you should research the very real issues like PPA, PPD and PTSD to understand why some of us are unable to see the sunshine and rainbows at every moment. Just because we come here to share and vent with each other doesn't mean we don't enjoy our children and you should be ashamed for insinuating such a thing.
But hey... this is just my opinion.
ETA: It's fucking LADIES not lady's. Jesus.
As a SAHM (FT and ST), I find this assumption incredibly offensive. I hope you think twice before you judge people, too.
Cleaning my child's vomit off his toys, the carpet, himself and me is not.
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
Air must be mighty thin up on that high horse if hers.
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I have no words. Honestly, crawl back into the hole you came out of. You have no right to come here and start judging people who you have not spent time getting to know. Great that you are over-the-moon happy to be a mom. I am too. But I'm also dealing with PPA and complete exhaustion from getting up every half hour. Do I love my baby? Absolutely! But that does not mean that I have to shut down my emotions and can't whine a little from time to time about spending the day covered in spit-up, being tired, and just the major life changes that a baby brings in general. You are a real piece of work. Whether this is MUD or not, this has me all ragey this morning.
(apparently I did have words.)
Noted. Thanks, OP, for helping me see the light.
/sarcasm
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If so, your nanny is way more sexy than you. When's her baby due again?
But that would be against TOU.
Instead I'll say: go pretend to be perfect somewhere else. Just because we vent to one another doesn't mean we don't love our babies or love being mothers. Some of us don't have friends with kids and it's nice to be able to have an open and honest discussion with other mothers about our daily struggles.
:-h
I'm not new. I just hate The Bump.
'Why is being a mother so exhausting for you guys'. 'Your baby shouldn't be making you mentally or physically drained as you women making it out to be'. To me SHE was implying that because she is a mom and not tired that others shouldn't be as well. That narrow thought that didn't include the notion that some might have other things making them tired or exhausted such as work or other kids made me believe that SHE was unsympathetic or could relate making me believe that she was a SAHM.
Her comments of ' being a mother should be good, happy and fun' and implying that the worst that she's gone through so far is having a bad sleeper led me to believe that she is a single child mother because I don't think she made it to the teething or terrible twos or potty training or meltdowns in public or talking back, ect other things that aren't great or fun. Again I was implying on Her lack of experience as such and ignorant statement. I'm not sure why you guys would put yourselves in a quote directed to the OP then get upset at me. What I said was a response to the OP for the OP, not a generalized statement directed at all SAHM and/or FTM. That was said in my post. Again we all are doing what we need/want is right for ourselves in our lives to get by. I have nothing for the up most respect for people living/surviving in the circumstances that is theirs.
Just in case..
Hey, Everyone. I'm sorry. I realize that came across as judgy to FTMs and singleton parents. That wasn't my intention, but I can see how it would have come off that way. You all are amazing. This jerk of an OP is not. <-- quote this is the truth
Also, to the OP- hahahahaha hahahah.
We all LOVE and are GRATEFUL for our kids but we are also TIRED!
Some of us are SAHM & FTM & still freaking TIRED.
Ok thx bye!
Is anyone else dying to know what new bad word one of the early posters learned on TB?