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Am I the only one?

clw0929clw0929 member
in March 2015 Moms
So everything tells me in the second trimester I'm supposed to be feeling more frisky but I feel even less horny than the first trimester. My boyfriend gets upset thinking it's something to do with him but I'm just never in the mood. I'd rather cuddle and sleep. Idk how to get myself in the mood.
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Re: Am I the only one?

  • clw0929clw0929 member
    Lol I'm glad to know it's not just me! I just am either exhausted or I feel like crap most of the time.
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  • lisap0924lisap0924 member
    Same boat here. My libido is very low. I haven't enjoyed sex since before I got pregnant :/

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  • Joon+Joon+ member
    Judging by my dreams, I seem to have a libido in my sleep, but not so much when I'm awake... I've never had much of one when not pregnant, so I was hoping for great things this tri. So far, nada. I also still haven't had sex once since conceiving this baby... Fuck you, antidepressants.

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  • ngolimentongolimento member
    Joon+ said:

    Judging by my dreams, I seem to have a libido in my sleep, but not so much when I'm awake... I've never had much of one when not pregnant, so I was hoping for great things this tri. So far, nada. I also still haven't had sex once since conceiving this baby... Fuck you, antidepressants.

    I am totally the same way. I have weird sex dreams, but wake up and be grossed out by the idea. I wish my subconscious would be more assertive.

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  • koshveilykoshveily member
    Oh yuck... I'm in this boat, too. Awesome sex dreams... Nearly zero drive IRL. With my first three pregnancies, I was all wound up for sexcapades... But this time around, I'd much rather sleep. Personally, I'm chalking it up to being in my 30s now. Everything feels harder than it did before. I just feel downright old (which has nothing to do with 30s... Just my body not enjoying this pregnancy quite as much).
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  • finallyourturn2finallyourturn2 member
    Me too, but my symptoms are all off between having twins and surgery. I can't seem to find a comfortable position to sleep, much less have sex.
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  • kcbizmekcbizme member
    I was beginning to wonder the same thing myself. I feel bad for SO but I can't do anything about it! I feel like I'm missing out on that part of pregnancy!
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  • Christina80xoxoChristina80xoxo member
    Don't feel bad! I don't want it either ! :)
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  • 071115071115 member
    I don't have a sex drive either. We had sex yesterday for my husbands birthday I wasn't in the mood but wow it was amazing sex.
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  • Lark425Lark425 member
    There is nothing wrong with just feeling cuddly and sleepy. You are under no obligation to feel like being intimate with your boyfriend. He can go take care of himself if he's so desperate. Everyone goes through phases. If it bothers you, try taking some time for yourself, pamper yourself and relax, maybe your boyfriend can cook dinner for you and give you a massage...take your time, go slow, do what you want to do. This phase will end in time.
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