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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    pennynolastname said:

    Cfreymc said:

    A high school friend of mine had a baby 10 days ago, and yesterday was posting pictures of her outing with baby daddy that seemed to go on most of the day and involved a few drinks. She has two older kids as well. I am judging the shit out of her. Not to mention, who wants to be doing that 10 days PP?

    She does. As long as she's not endangering/neglecting the kid, why does it matter? I know someone who took a week old baby to an all day family reunion that involved drinking. She made everyone who wanted to touch the kid use hand sanitizer. Kid survived, so did she.

    Her life, her kid, her choice.

    Nothing wrong with having a drink or two right after having a baby. I don't think going to a pre planned family reunion or having wine at dinner in a pub is the same thing as dropping a brand new tiny baby off at grandmas while mom and dad go out for the day to tie one on just because. No, the baby isn't in danger, but I'm still going to side-eye a bit.
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
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    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    pennynolastname said:

    I still think it's a silly thing to judge, especially if it's not a common occurrence.

    It was a common occurrence, at least before this pregnancy. She's been with the father of the baby less than a year, latching on to this guy very quickly after the father of her other two kids lost/gave up his parenting rights. There's more to the story, but she could be making better decisions for herself and her family. I guess I could offer some guidance instead of being judgemental, but she doesn't take well to advice and that ship has pretty much sailed between us.
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    edited October 2014
    There were several Facebook "check-ins" from different places throughout the day. And sure, we all might say that a day out sans baby at 10 days PP would have been nice, but personally there's no way in hell I could have actually done it.
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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    MrsGiantPenis said:

    God I wish someone had thrown me out of the house and let me drink during those first few weeks. I may have been a little more sane then.

    Amen!!!
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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    Sure, I'll admit it's none of my business.

    It just saddens me to see the life her direction seems to be taking and her kids have been through a lot already. If it had been anyone but her I probably wouldn't have thought too much of it.
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • karen0477karen0477 member
    Just got home from the clinic.... Allison has yet another ear infection....fuck....

    As for the mom 10 days pp....her life, her kid, and as long as grandmas capable, who cares? I get thinking someone is making bad decisions, but they are hers to make and not yours to judge.....

    Karen - 36      DH - 39

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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    Silv3rlining said:

    There's trolls (or rather yet potential bronies) on J15 already....

    @KikiCohen‌ did you see the pee sniffing pregnancy symptom?!?

    Haha I didn't. We've been out all day and I'm just now getting on TB. Sounds like a winner!
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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    @Silv3rlining YGPM (or at least you will here in a minute)
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    pennynolastname said:
    I loathe the phrase "baby daddy."
    I use it very sparingly.  There are a few males that I know, however, that deserve nothing more than to be labeled as such.
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  • andrea0418andrea0418 member
    @Kitten80‌ oh no! Fx it's a one time occurrence!
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    @Silv3rlining Thanks and I'm sorry. That sounds awful. Really awful. :p

     

     

     

     

     

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  • karen0477karen0477 member
    @Kitten80‌ >:D<
    @KateJuly2013‌ my new shift is 10-6 so I rarely run into anyone on my 2pm lunch....except last week when a group of people came in and were bitching about my department [-X

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  • KateJuly2013KateJuly2013 member
    Karen0477 said:

    @Kitten80‌ >:D<
    @KateJuly2013‌ my new shift is 10-6 so I rarely run into anyone on my 2pm lunch....except last week when a group of people came in and were bitching about my department [-X

    @Karen0477‌ my dept gets bitched about a lot. We are widely regarded as the bitchiest nurses in the hospital. We arr one arrogant group of RN's. Hahaha

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  • coco2787coco2787 member
    KateJuly2013 said:

    There is approximately 5 people in this cafeteria right now, and some random dude/lady just sat at my fucking table. I think he/she is a phlebotomist. he/She is eating tuna noodle casserole and slurping his/her V8. Wtf? There are literally 65 open tables. Am I being punked?

    Ugh, yuck. I was at the library studying a couple days ago, and I got up to use the bathroom and when I returned there was a guy sitting at my table (no big deal there), but it was a table with four chairs and he chose the chair directly next to my stuff. Then, he was sniffling, blowing his nose, and coughing very audibly. I'm not a germaphobe or anything, but the sound alone was enough to make me have to get up and move.
    Me: 35  H: 35
    Married: 4/5/13

    "You know that place between sleep and awake, 
    that place where you can still remember dreaming?
    That's where I will always love you.  
    That's where I'll be waiting."
    ~Peter Pan 

    *TW*
    BFP #1: 11/12/12  EDD 7/25/13 Baby boy: 7/27/13
    BFP #2: 10/29/17   MMC dx @ 9 weeks
    BFP #3: 2/2/18 MC 2/7/18
    BFP #4: 3/2/18  MC 3/9/18
    RPL testing and hysteroscopy: all normal
    BFP #5: 4/1/18 MMC dx @ 14 weeks ----> genetically normal girl  :'(
    Hysteroscopy to remove scar tissue 9/28
    BFP #6 11/5/18 EDD 7/20/19  <3  Rainbow baby girl born 7/23/19 
    BFP #7 12/8/2021 EDD 8/22/2022 
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  • KateJuly2013KateJuly2013 member
    Who has the SIL on Top Chef? What's her name?

    I need to know who to root for!
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    @simone711‌ :D
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