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It's Thursday!

I'll start. I think everyone should stop freaking out about ebola and be more concerned with the enterovirus. Maybe because I have a baby, but still.

Also, CDC - you are not helping to calm anyone down.


Bonus fftc - when the cdc director first spoke from the headquarters in Atlanta, my first thought was "Oh, like in The Walking Dead." Seriously?

 

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  • augustusgooseaugustusgoose member
    KatCameBack said:

    I don't miss the newborn stage…at all.

    I strongly second that, infact it being more difficult then I remember and my 'advanced' age is our birth control.
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  • augustusgooseaugustusgoose member
    augustusgoose said:

    KatCameBack said:

    I don't miss the newborn stage…at all.

    I strongly second that, infact it being more difficult then I remember and my 'advanced' age is our birth control.
    Although he is still cute and I love love love the gummy smiles! And him, that little stinker.
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  • lest12lest12 member
    @BrightEyes112‌ - that's what I'm talking about.. Everyone chill and get a flu shot.

     

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  • MarciP83MarciP83 member
    My husband and I sleep in seperate rooms most nights, and I'm okay with that. In fact, I prefer it. We both sleep better, and since I'm the one who gets up with the baby when needed, I don't wake him, and when he has to get up for work, he doesn't wake me (even though I'm typically already awake.) We still watch tv in bed together, cuddle, talk, and do other things :) but when it's sleepy time we usually go our seperate ways.
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  • augustusgooseaugustusgoose member
    JulieSmiles said:

    I think people use the ER for way too many things. You broke your arm? ER. You have a tummy ache that is kind of bothering you? Suck it up or call your doctor. And don't use the fact that you don't have a primary doctor to justify going to the ER for every little thing.

    I 100% agree. I think that they just shouldn't have those services available in the ER. However I'm sure that the hospitals love those types of cases, can change a premium for easy work.
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  • amackattackamackattack member
    This one might be bad. But I think everyone should have sex of some kind with their partner 2-3 times a week on average in normal circumstances even if you might not want to/are tired/it's not your "favorite thing" (Louis ck anyone? ) as long as your partner has the drive. It helps with intimacy and I think guys especially need it and will be more likely to do all (or some) of the things we are nagging them about during the day.
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  • FAWKES81FAWKES81 member

    I refuse to watch the news.  I have a vague understanding of what Ebola is.  I think the news is too damn depressing to watch and not watching it helps me to not worry about things un-necessarily.

    RE: having some kind of sex with your partner 2/3 times a week my DH is not interested if I'm not into it.  I'm not one to "fake" it either.  He tends to get frustrated if I just lay there/don't actively participate/seem too tired to care.  Because of this our frequency/week has gone down since LO arrived but I'm trying to improve my willingness because he is getting whiney.  I think you are right though, it does greatly improve our intimacy and communication with other things when we are more sexually attentive to each other.

     

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  • JNerdJNerd member
    These UOs are lame
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    I think most babies don't get enough time in unconfined play. Confined meaning car seats, rnp, bouncy chairs, playgyms etc.
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  • JNerdJNerd member
    FFTC: I'm letting DS watch cartoons so when he is spending time with other toddlers and they sing the songs from the shows he can join in.
    I don't want him ostracized because of me providing play instead of screen time.
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  • JmeJoLee83JmeJoLee83 member
    I think the protesters that hold signs and what not in front of Planned Parenthood are ridiculous. Do they think they are going to prevent an abortion with those grisly signs? How do parents explain to their children as they drive by and ask what those signs mean? IMO this is freedom of speech gone too far.
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  • steprozzsteprozz member
    ^ whyyyyy would you protest building a Hobby Lobby? have they ever been to Hobby Lobby? I'm going to guess no because otherwise they would be unable to contain their excitement about a year round Christmas shop and delightful crafts. just sayin...
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  • steprozzsteprozz member
    I didn't know all that. but then I guess my UO is that I'm not going to stop shopping somewhere because they won't pay for birth control for employees or whatever the problem is. I also didn't stop eating Chick Fil A even though they don't support gay marriage. just because I may disagree with the company's beliefs or whatever, doesn't mean they don't have a good product (or products) that I want to buy/eat/enjoy.
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  • MrsRahlMrsRahl member
    FFFC: I am one of those people outside the planned parenthood. We don't hold signs. We pass out literature for resources to help new parents and adoption information. As a whole people tend to know very little about the adoption process. We are very kind and have had very positive feedback from most people.

    Now my UO: I hate when the bump gets political. I just want to keep it cool because the Internet really isn't the place to debate these things as they very quickly turn ugly because you can't read tone and no one usually really is fully open minded about these things and will already have their minds made up.
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    Sorry for the run on sentences.
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  • JmeJoLee83JmeJoLee83 member
    No Hobby Lobby in CA
    First time mommy-to-be
    E.D.D. June 1, 2014

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  • JmeJoLee83JmeJoLee83 member
    edited October 2014
    @katburdette‌ really?! Northern Bay Area! Where are you?
    First time mommy-to-be
    E.D.D. June 1, 2014

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  • KatCameBackKatCameBack member
    edited October 2014
    I refuse to go to any place that calls itself Hobby Lobby.

    The rhymey timey makes me icky wicky.

    ETA: Watch, I'm going to go there and love it...
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  • MrsRahlMrsRahl member
    edited October 2014
    BrightEyes112 said:

    What happens to Obamacare if he's not re -elected?

    #Canadian

    It stays unless it is repealed. Chances are if a Democrat gets in its almost guaranteed this wouldn't happen as the president gets the final say to sign things in or veto them. A republican, then they will most likely try to get it repealed through influence of the house and senate. Also he can't be reelected. The president can only run 2 terms (8 years).
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    @brighteyes112 - your #Canadian is really showing - this is his second term, he's all done in a few years. I think we're stuck with it unless someone (congress, senate, new president) proposes then passes what would have to be crazy legislature to get rid of it. Or change it. I think.

     

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  • lest12lest12 member
    Or what @mrsrahl said. My seventh grade history teacher would hate me.

     

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    nutmegs8 said:

    @MrsRahl‌ thanks for the clarification.

    @BrightEyes112‌ It's actually called the Adorable Care Act.

    QFP! Adorable care act is awesome!
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  • lest12lest12 member
    I know, it's kind of insane.

     

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  • curlylocks3curlylocks3 member
    Insurance covers condoms?
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    Lilygrace48 said:

    People should only have sex when both partners want to at the same time. Period.

    But think of the dishes to be washed! The laundry to be folded! The garbage to be taken out! How many blow jobs is each of those worth?
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    merie412 said:

    JNerd said:

    I think most babies don't get enough time in unconfined play. Confined meaning car seats, rnp, bouncy chairs, playgyms etc.

    JNerd said:

    FFTC: I'm letting DS watch cartoons so when he is spending time with other toddlers and they sing the songs from the shows he can join in.
    I don't want him ostracized because of me providing play instead of screen time.

    Pardon my confusion, but this contradicts itself, does it not? Babies need more unrestricted activity with less gadgets and toys (as you've mentioned before), but toddlers need pop culture exposure to avoid being ostracized?

    Also, I don't think your 2 year old is going to be "ostracized" for not knowing the words to the Micky Mouse theme...seems to be an extreme worry.
    Squeaker gets lots of free play on the floor. She is confined only when in the car seat and which stays in the car, or in the stroller.

    I've noticed when we go to other peoples houses and they have cartoons on and the kids are singing to the songs and talking about the characters DS goes off to play alone because he can't join in. I want him to be able to do those things too.

    Squeaker is 4months and needs play. DS is 2 and I've relaxed my stance on screen time.
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  • Savvy122Savvy122 member
    I'm about a billion years late to this, thanks to work Internet sucking all the fun out of my day...

    1. I will not give it up to my H out of obligation or to get him to do stuff around the house.  If he's in the mood and I'm not, he has a hand he can use.

    2. I think the Teal Pumpkin Project is actually a pretty cool idea.  It breaks my heart when I have to take half of DS's treats away after trick or treating (not that he needs that much candy, but it still sucks to have to take everything away).  So the idea of him being able to choose a non-candy alternative that I won't have to take away from him?  Awesome.  I intend to have candy and an alternative at our house this year. 

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  • curlylocks3curlylocks3 member
    JNerd said:

    merie412 said:

    JNerd said:

    I think most babies don't get enough time in unconfined play. Confined meaning car seats, rnp, bouncy chairs, playgyms etc.

    JNerd said:

    FFTC: I'm letting DS watch cartoons so when he is spending time with other toddlers and they sing the songs from the shows he can join in.
    I don't want him ostracized because of me providing play instead of screen time.

    Pardon my confusion, but this contradicts itself, does it not? Babies need more unrestricted activity with less gadgets and toys (as you've mentioned before), but toddlers need pop culture exposure to avoid being ostracized?

    Also, I don't think your 2 year old is going to be "ostracized" for not knowing the words to the Micky Mouse theme...seems to be an extreme worry.
    Squeaker gets lots of free play on the floor. She is confined only when in the car seat and which stays in the car, or in the stroller.

    I've noticed when we go to other peoples houses and they have cartoons on and the kids are singing to the songs and talking about the characters DS goes off to play alone because he can't join in. I want him to be able to do those things too.

    Squeaker is 4months and needs play. DS is 2 and I've relaxed my stance on screen time.
    And maybe parents that use bouncers or whatever for their kids are fine with it too? I feel like this debate has been had over and over- do you really not get that it makes it sound like you look down on people that make a different choice than you?
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