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shirleymaebyshirleymaeby member
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My whole story is in my signature, but basically my husband and I tried for four years to get pregnant and finally achieved success via IUI.  Unfortunately we found out today that the baby did not develop further than 6 weeks and the heart has stopped beating.  We will have the procedure on Wednesday.

I'm hurt and upset because it just seems unfair after everything we went through to get here.  I know that there's nothing I did or didn't do that made this happen.  Luckily, we were told by our doctor a week ago that this would probably happen so we had some time to deal with it before it was confirmed.  Also, DH is incredibly supportive and isn't hiding his feelings or making light of mine so I feel very lucky that if I have to experience this, at least I have some support.

Anyway, just wanted to say a quick hello and let you know I'll be hanging around for a while.  I'm sorry for all of your losses as well as mine.

-----------------------------------SIGGY WARNING-------------------------------------


Me: 31| DH: 36
TTC #1 Since 07/2010
DX: Unexplained Infertility
TX: 
IUI #1 on 7/3/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (44 million sperm, 1 dominant follie) = BFN
IUI #2: on 7/28/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (23 million sperm, 2 dominant follies) = BFN

IUI #3 on 8/22/2014 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (53 million sperm, 2 dominant follies)= BFP MMC @ 7weeks


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  • xraychick01xraychick01 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  It sounds like you've got a great DH there.  It helps to have that support.  You will find a lot of support here as well.  Hugs.
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  • hlb622hlb622 member
    ((hugs))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
     BFP #1: 3.2.13 | EDD: 10.21.13 | Born: 10.25.13
     BFP #2: 9.9.14 | EDD 5.13.15 | MC: 9.24.14
    BFP #3: 1.4.15 | EDD 8.23.15
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  • GingerPop79GingerPop79 member
    So sorry for your loss. Having a supportive partner is so very important. Hugs to you both.
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • Bel831Bel831 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. It really helps to have a supportive DH. *hugs*

    1st BFP 08/08/14 EDD 04/21/15 confirmed MMC 09/17/14 waited for natural m/c no luck, D&C 10/06/14
    2nd BFP 02/06/15 EDD 10/13/15
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  • foodie12rnfoodie12rn member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. How did your procedure go today? Sending you big, creepy Internet hugs!
    Me: 28, DH: 33
    Married 10.12.11
     BFP #1: 5.30.12- Giannna, born 1.27.13
    BFP #2: 9.18.14- due 6.1.15 -- natural m/c @ 5w6d 
    BFP #3 11.2.14- due 7.16.14 -- mmc, d&c @ 10w1d

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  • shirleymaebyshirleymaeby member
    Thanks for all the sweet thoughts everyone.  The procedure went well.  I was pretty anxious but they gave me some great drugs to get me prepared.  DH was able to come in with me and hold my hand throughout which really meant so much to me.

    I started crying at the end but not because it hurt.  I wasn't very comfortable but it wasn't necessarily painful.  I just felt like something had been taken away from me and then the realization hit that I was no longer pregnant.  But I had DH there to hold my hand and the nurse was there patting my shoulder and wiping away my tears before I could get up.  

    I've spent the rest of the day laid out on the couch eating ice cream and binge watching bad tv.  Hopefully now that it's fully over we can begin to heal and start working out when to start trying again.

    -----------------------------------SIGGY WARNING-------------------------------------


    Me: 31| DH: 36
    TTC #1 Since 07/2010
    DX: Unexplained Infertility
    TX: 
    IUI #1 on 7/3/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (44 million sperm, 1 dominant follie) = BFN
    IUI #2: on 7/28/14 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (23 million sperm, 2 dominant follies) = BFN

    IUI #3 on 8/22/2014 100 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI (53 million sperm, 2 dominant follies)= BFP MMC @ 7weeks


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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I just posted my intro before reading this but what you said is exactly how I feel right now. I hate that both of us ended up here.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • 4N6s4N6s member
    I'm so sorry :(
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