It's 3 am here and I'm wide awake. And hot. And I can't breathe. And my boobs are so big I can't get comfy.
Question- I am taking my maternity leave on 10/22. I would like to think I will not end up a lounging around the house for 4 weeks. I'm hoping I can make myself get to the gym at least 5 days a week to walk the treadmill. I never seem to have the energy after work. Anyone else planning on being more active to prepare for labor? Or am I just being unrealistic??
I have a two-day week and a three-day weekend. After reading that we had two babies born last night, this weekend will be all about cleaning and nesting!
I am up early because I can't sleep. I have been applying to jobs and got an awesome lead to VC cos last night but then my husband came home and said basically, "So it looks like we should move to Houston 6 months after the baby is born, stay there for 8-10 months, and then move to Germany."
Umm...how do I make that work? I can't get a job for 3-4 months after baby, then another for 8 months, then another in a language I don't speak. And we can't afford for me not to work since our salaries are about equal, not to mention that I"m not happy if I'm not working.
I got to "sleep" in my new bed last night. It's definitely an adjustment. My old mattress was like a cloud...which, at this stage of pregnancy, wasn't easy to maneuver. This bed is firm. I think we'll get along well but I have to give it a few more nights.
I use the term "sleep" so lightly. I was up every 2 hours again to pee which I don't understand because I didn't drink anything after 4pm. Where is all this pee coming from? Then 5am, the worst leg cramp I've had this entire pregnancy. Doesn't help it's the same leg that my sciatica seems to be bothering me again. (
Thank god it's Friday and thankfully it's a 3 day weekend for me. ^:)^
I gotta give a presentation on Obamacare this morning and I have the worst gas. FI kept me up all night with his weird breathing patterns. I'm grouchy.
I have a two-day week and a three-day weekend. After reading that we had two babies born last night, this weekend will be all about cleaning and nesting!
No kidding. This place needs to be ready. Maybe I will actually clean and pack a bag just in case.
I don't have a bag started yet either. Not smart on my part.
I have a list of what to put in my bag. I feel like that is better than nothing.
@silverwings72 I am trying to be more active than my last few weeks as well. It tends to be very hard but hopefully with the time off you have you'll be able to keep up with it good luck!
RE hospital bags: yesterday at my OB appointment they told me that they would not stop LO i'm coming if she did. They also highly encourage me to get my bag ready, my husband asked if I would have it ready I told him I didn't even have the list started yet. I suppose that's what I'll be doing tonight.
Last night we went to the State Fair if Texas. I felt like I could eat all the food. However I did do a good job in containing what I didn't ate a corndog, funnel cake, and a caramel apple. It was glorious except for after the funnel cake I looked down and I was covered from boob to belly in powdered sugar.
I also have a three-day weekend and we will be car shopping all weekend. Too bad it's going to be DH's car.
@FhSTAR81 My heart is breaking for you. I would just try to find comfort in that he's going to your mom and not some stranger or a shelter. You will be able to visit with him. Addison will be able to see him. And it will probably be better done now than when baby comes because then it might seem like it's the baby's fault that the dog had to go away (to Addison). Big hugs. >:D<
Add me to team freak out! We are definitely not ready for baby to be here! Of course one of my good friends says to me last night (after I was complaining of my hip pain) that "he might not wait much longer". Gee thanks! As if I wasn't worried enough!
Also shout out to @Wildflower75 for saying DD is cute Thank you!
I tried to be productive yesterday and it was a complete fail, hoping today will be better.
It's 3 am here and I'm wide awake. And hot. And I can't breathe. And my boobs are so big I can't get comfy.
Question- I am taking my maternity leave on 10/22. I would like to think I will not end up a lounging around the house for 4 weeks. I'm hoping I can make myself get to the gym at least 5 days a week to walk the treadmill. I never seem to have the energy after work. Anyone else planning on being more active to prepare for labor? Or am I just being unrealistic??
I've been on leave since June 19th... But the entire time on bed rest.... Aka didn't do any more walking then from the car to a store/restaurant/doctor etc & that's with DH always parking as close as possible. Now that I'm off bed rest my OB encouraged me to be active .. How do you go from 0 to 100 just like that? I have all these awesome plans of starting off easy.. Like a brisk walk around the block after dinner.. But when the time comes I would rather sit on the couch and have Ice Cream. Maybe I should walk to the ice cream place in town... At least that would give me some motivation lol.
@silverwings72 I'm hoping once I get to 36-37 weeks I can get back to walking at lunch most days with my mom. I was nervous to start that too soon becuase I didn't want to overdo it and end up in labor
As for hospital bag, mine is packed and ready to go, but I still haven't set up some of the baby furniture and haven't put the car seats in the car.
This morning while my husband was hugging me goodbye he said, "I love hugging my family." which should have been a sweet moment but instead I hormotionally got upset and said, "You've been hugging your family for 2 and a half years now..." because clearly we were a family before LO. It didn't take me long to apologize because he was just trying to say something nice, but man I am triggered so easily!
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this @FhSTAR81 - I think PPs are right though. You've already prepped Addison to be ready for the dog to go stay with your mom. She sounds like a tough little cookie and will handle it well. Good luck! Xo
I have a (stupid?) question. Can stretch marks cause a throbbing under the skin...? I had this dull throb for a few hours yesterday in my lower, right belly. When I got home and was changing, my husband pointed out what he thinks is a stretch mark. I couldn't see it without a mirror, but it seems to be in the same vicinity as the throbbing. It's also tender to the touch. Does anyone have any experience?
My boss ambushed me yesterday on our way to a lunch meeting. He asked me for my feedback on new girl and I told him everything as diplomatically as I could. I also told him that I thought it was great that he had given her such a nice welcome (flowers, breakfast, lunch at a fancy place), but that he needed to do that for those of us who have been there for a while too. He pretty much said nothing while I spoke so I have no idea what he's thinking.
In other news- I'm done work 3 weeks from today! WOOT!
DH is away for the weekend with friends. He texts me to not go into labor while he's gone. (I'm 33w5d, no signs of labor or even BH contractions.) I told him I'd keep my legs crossed.
AW real quick. So I'm a professor at a university and this morning as I walk up to my office I see the cleaning woman blocking my door and the lights on with two students inside. I'm all like what the hell?! (didn't actually say it) and our cleaning woman blocked my view and said "get out of here we need 5 minutes!" I was so confused and annoyed but I left and when I came back, the girls had decorated my office! It was two of the girls in the sorority I'm the advisor for who were in there hanging up this garland-thingy the girls made.
Each one of the little things has a message written to the baby or me from one of the sisters. I think I'm taking it to my shower this weekend to hang up there too. I love it!
AW real quick. So I'm a professor at a university and this morning as I walk up to my office I see the cleaning woman blocking my door and the lights on with two students inside. I'm all like what the hell?! (didn't actually say it) and our cleaning woman blocked my view and said "get out of here we need 5 minutes!" I was so confused and annoyed but I left and when I came back, the girls had decorated my office! It was two of the girls in the sorority I'm the advisor for who were in there hanging up this garland-thingy the girls made.
Each one of the little things has a message written to the baby or me from one of the sisters. I think I'm taking it to my shower this weekend to hang up there too. I love it!
Baby Legs are on Zulily today. Go share in my bad choices and make me feel better about it.
Not a ton of team green friendly choices but I still managed to snag 3 pair Well, I think I still want the football ones. So four pair!
This reminded me of something. I had a few pairs of baby leggings on my registry and it shows that two of them were purchased, but I never received them- isn't that weird? Either someone is holding on to them until they see me (which will likely be never!) or they decided they liked them too much and kept them.
Omg my back hurts so bad. Last night I had to break out the heating pad for my upper back. That pain combined with some weird vagina pain had me in tears... I'm afraid I'm too wimpy for labor!!
On the bright side, it's so exciting to see all these babies. The nerd in me wants to make a graph showing how far along all the mamas were when babies arrived just to see the distribution...
Omg my back hurts so bad. Last night I had to break out the heating pad for my upper back. That pain combined with some weird vagina pain had me in tears... I'm afraid I'm too wimpy for labor!!
On the bright side, it's so exciting to see all these babies. The nerd in me wants to make a graph showing how far along all the mamas were when babies arrived just to see the distribution...
@AnnieRoo13 YAY! I'm glad you had the chance/were forced to give your boss that feedback. I think we all want to collectively drop kick the new girl and your unevenly supportive boss!
Omg my back hurts so bad. Last night I had to break out the heating pad for my upper back. That pain combined with some weird vagina pain had me in tears... I'm afraid I'm too wimpy for labor!!
On the bright side, it's so exciting to see all these babies. The nerd in me wants to make a graph showing how far along all the mamas were when babies arrived just to see the distribution...
The nerd in me would enjoy that graph!
Yeah, I would enjoy that, too!!!
Sorry so many of you ladies slept crappy last night. That is the one thing i really can't complain about this pregnancy, but I remember how horrific it was for me last time.
I can't believe we had 3 babes born yesterday!!!! Insane!!!! In other news, it's totally messing with my head because many of these babes are right around 34-35 weeks, which is when my girls were born. I'm officially the "farthest" pregnant I have ever been!
I'm 37 weeks and haven't felt any Braxton hicks contractions, so I wonder if I am just going to get a big surprise one day. My son has been up since 2:30 because he didn't want to sleep anymore. He wanted to watch LILO and Stitch and once the move is over he claps his hands for the movie like he has never seen it before! It is so cute he is only 17 months!
You guys.. We have had seven, SEVEN babies born in the last 48 Hours!! Whaaaa???? Impatient little things! Luckily they're all gorgeous and doing great! I feel like a ticking timebomb of like this little guy is on a follow suit and fall outta me any second now. Eek!
I have a headache and totally want to get up and take some Tylenol. But I've tried to get up three times and failed. Now I have a cat on me. I guess the headache wins this morning.
MIL visited briefly the other day and, being helpful, she unloaded the dishwasher (even though I asked her not to). Last night, when I was trying to make dinner, I couldn't find anything
Measuring cups, glasses, storage containers, DD's dishes... nothing was where I expected it to be (so frustrating)!
This is a test, a lesson for me I think. Asking for help means giving up some control. I will need help in these next weeks / months. So... seriously, I need to say "thank you" and let the little stuff go.
Also, in two weeks I have had two dishwasher randoms. I wonder what drama will befall our dishwasher next week! Lol.
I don't ask for help nor do I know how to give up control. This having a baby and needing/accepting help thing is going to be very hard for me, I think. On the other hand, I'm hoping once the baby is here, it will be much easier for me to accept the help and not let my OCD nonsense get in the way. I've always been the "If you want something done right do it yourself" kinda gal
MIL visited briefly the other day and, being helpful, she unloaded the dishwasher (even though I asked her not to). Last night, when I was trying to make dinner, I couldn't find anything
Measuring cups, glasses, storage containers, DD's dishes... nothing was where I expected it to be (so frustrating)!
This is a test, a lesson for me I think. Asking for help means giving up some control. I will need help in these next weeks / months. So... seriously, I need to say "thank you" and let the little stuff go.
Also, in two weeks I have had two dishwasher randoms. I wonder what drama will befall our dishwasher next week! Lol.
That would kill me. Is it bad I don't want help after the baby for this reason? I'd rather my husband did it, or watched LO for me to do it. Maybe I will change my tune. But I can't visualize that...
I don't ask for help nor do I know how to give up control. This having a baby and needing/accepting help thing is going to be very hard for me, I think. On the other hand, I'm hoping once the baby is here, it will be much easier for me to accept the help and not let my OCD nonsense get in the way. I've always been the "If you want something done right do it yourself" kinda gal
Me too... though I'm learning I'm going to need to get over it, especially doing this whole thing solo! A good lesson for this was moving two weekends ago and my aunt and my brother unpacked and put away my whole kitchen without me. I knew they were doing it and my first instinct was to micromanage and it was really hard to just let it go and work on a different room. Granted I'm still trying to find things but it's easier to rearrange now than it would have been to unpack everything everywhere myself (I think).
@ejpetey Exactly! The fact that I'll be "alone" makes me think it might be a little easier for me to accept the help. My mom will be staying with me for 1-2 weeks once LO is born but I feel like I'll be more apt to ask her to watch him so I can do what I need done. Hopefully my tune changes.
Re: Friday Randoms
Question- I am taking my maternity leave on 10/22. I would like to think I will not end up a lounging around the house for 4 weeks. I'm hoping I can make myself get to the gym at least 5 days a week to walk the treadmill. I never seem to have the energy after work. Anyone else planning on being more active to prepare for labor? Or am I just being unrealistic??
Yes, I cannot believe how many of our mamas are having babies right now. Shit just got real.
YES! I still have so much to do!
Umm...how do I make that work? I can't get a job for 3-4 months after baby, then another for 8 months, then another in a language I don't speak. And we can't afford for me not to work since our salaries are about equal, not to mention that I"m not happy if I'm not working.
I guess that counts as random.
I use the term "sleep" so lightly. I was up every 2 hours again to pee which I don't understand because I didn't drink anything after 4pm. Where is all this pee coming from? Then 5am, the worst leg cramp I've had this entire pregnancy. Doesn't help it's the same leg that my sciatica seems to be bothering me again.
Thank god it's Friday and thankfully it's a 3 day weekend for me. ^:)^
RE hospital bags: yesterday at my OB appointment they told me that they would not stop LO i'm coming if she did. They also highly encourage me to get my bag ready, my husband asked if I would have it ready I told him I didn't even have the list started yet. I suppose that's what I'll be doing tonight.
Last night we went to the State Fair if Texas. I felt like I could eat all the food. However I did do a good job in containing what I didn't ate a corndog, funnel cake, and a caramel apple. It was glorious except for after the funnel cake I looked down and I was covered from boob to belly in powdered sugar.
I also have a three-day weekend and we will be car shopping all weekend. Too bad it's going to be DH's car.
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
I'm back to work, all weekend. Still fairly sick, hoping work doesn't deplete my energy and cause this sickness to start to relapse
I had plans to do some nesting on my past few days off, but being sick totally ruined that.
BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart
@silverwings72 I'm hoping once I get to 36-37 weeks I can get back to walking at lunch most days with my mom. I was nervous to start that too soon becuase I didn't want to overdo it and end up in labor
As for hospital bag, mine is packed and ready to go, but I still haven't set up some of the baby furniture and haven't put the car seats in the car.
I have a (stupid?) question. Can stretch marks cause a throbbing under the skin...? I had this dull throb for a few hours yesterday in my lower, right belly. When I got home and was changing, my husband pointed out what he thinks is a stretch mark. I couldn't see it without a mirror, but it seems to be in the same vicinity as the throbbing. It's also tender to the touch. Does anyone have any experience?
My boss ambushed me yesterday on our way to a lunch meeting. He asked me for my feedback on new girl and I told him everything as diplomatically as I could. I also told him that I thought it was great that he had given her such a nice welcome (flowers, breakfast, lunch at a fancy place), but that he needed to do that for those of us who have been there for a while too. He pretty much said nothing while I spoke so I have no idea what he's thinking.
In other news- I'm done work 3 weeks from today! WOOT!
Each one of the little things has a message written to the baby or me from one of the sisters. I think I'm taking it to my shower this weekend to hang up there too. I love it!
This reminded me of something. I had a few pairs of baby leggings on my registry and it shows that two of them were purchased, but I never received them- isn't that weird? Either someone is holding on to them until they see me (which will likely be never!) or they decided they liked them too much and kept them.
On the bright side, it's so exciting to see all these babies. The nerd in me wants to make a graph showing how far along all the mamas were when babies arrived just to see the distribution...
Edit: ha -a typo changed my whole meaning! Oops!
Yeah, I would enjoy that, too!!!
Sorry so many of you ladies slept crappy last night. That is the one thing i really can't complain about this pregnancy, but I remember how horrific it was for me last time.
I can't believe we had 3 babes born yesterday!!!! Insane!!!! In other news, it's totally messing with my head because many of these babes are right around 34-35 weeks, which is when my girls were born. I'm officially the "farthest" pregnant I have ever been!
Dear Baby Boy,
Please do not fall out any time soon. I'm just not ready.
Love,
Your Slightly Freaked Out Mama
I don't ask for help nor do I know how to give up control. This having a baby and needing/accepting help thing is going to be very hard for me, I think. On the other hand, I'm hoping once the baby is here, it will be much easier for me to accept the help and not let my OCD nonsense get in the way. I've always been the "If you want something done right do it yourself" kinda gal