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Saw this on FB

Denise91980Denise91980 member
in Pregnant after a Loss
https://www.pregnancyafterlosssupport.com/15-things-i-need-my-partner-to-know-during-our-pregnancy-after-loss/

Many of these resonate with me as I am sure will with many of you. Just wanted to share. It is 15 things I need my partner to know during our pregnancy after loss.
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BFP #1 1/1/11 EDD 9/10/11 dx:no hb DNC on 2/2/11
BFP #2 12/28/11 natural m/c on 2/6/12   BFP#3 2/16/13 dx:ectopic on 2/27 (given methotrexate) HSG 6/13-all clear BFP#4 11/18/13 natural m/c on 11/23  IVF #1 (Natural IVF Cycle) May 2014- Cycle failed (embryo did not make it to blast) BFP#5-7/26/14 GROW BABY GROW    IT'S A BOY DUE 4/5/15!

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  • beemaya83beemaya83 member
    I can relate...thank you for sharing.
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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    Thank you for sharing. My husband has been my rock this pregnancy, but this is a really good reminder of how I am feeling.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • E&B0811E&B0811 member
    This is great and, to me, really captures how I am feeling these days.

    #13 in particular...

    13. I just want pregnancy to be over with AND for it to be frozen in this moment forever all at the same time. I want life, our baby’s life, to be a sure thing, guaranteed. I’m not trying to wish away this pregnancy. I just want to hold my breathing baby in my arms so I can be reassured everything will be okay this time.

    And this part of #14. I don’t want to feel like I let you down again even though I know I never did.

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    BFP 5/19/2013. MC 7/2/2013 (9w6d) with est. loss at 8w. Miso 7/3/2013 and emergency D & C 7/6/2013.

    BFP#2 11/6/2013.  CP 11/14/2013.  

    BFP #3 12/13/2013.  Beta #1 @ 15dpo- 239. Progesterone 27.  Beta #2 @17dpo - 90.  CP 12/21/2013

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    All PgAL and PAL welcome.

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  • mrsmustard12mrsmustard12 member
    Thanks for posting, so true!
    BFP#1: 7/19/14  -  EDD: 3/26/15  -  MC: 8/14/14 @ 8w
    BFP#2: 9/14/14 - EDD: 5/28/15 - MC: 11/6/14 @ 10w
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  • co baby1co baby1 member
    Thank you for sharing!
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    Thank you for sharing this. 
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • Danielle0311Danielle0311 member
    This made me cry mainly because it takes the words right out of my mouth, especially #13. Thank you for posting! I sent this to DH even though he knows how I feel already.

    Me (30) DH (31) Married 5/13, TTC since 2/13
    BFP #1 Blighted Ovum resulting in D&C on 11/1/13
    BFP #2 Ectopic Pg, lap surgery on 3/12/14, R tube removed

    BFP # 3, EDD 2/21/15 * please be our rainbow*
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  • aklengakleng member
    Thanks for sharing this! 13 & 14 completely sum up how I feel and it really helps to see someone else write it. My H has been such a rock, but will definitely be sharing this.
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    BFP #1 12/31/13, EDD 09/12/14, MMC Discovered 02/20/14 (10w6d) Est. Loss @ 8-9w, MC 02/22/14
    BFP #2 06/25/14, EDD 02/28/15 Grow Baby, Grow!
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  • christia10christia10 member
    This is really neat.
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  • NoeliaVNoeliaV member
    Thank you for sharing. Rather spot on.
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    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
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