My little guy is sick today. Last night he was coughing so hard he threw up 3 times. Today his temp got up to 102. Heading to the doctor soon. I know it isn't his fault, but I had a ton of work to get done today and now I will be playing catch-up all week. Just mad at the situation.
Last week I griped about going to my MIL's house for a week with DS and how I may die of boredom. Well, we are here....we haven't died yet....but the week is still very young. I miss my bed.....
Went to dinner last night with my in laws. Ughhhh my Mother in law was talking to me like I was an idiot who never saw a baby before! I have 3 nieces & I used to work at a daycare for 5 yrs where the kids started at 6 weeks. I'm not saying I'm a parenting expert. But oh reallllly I have to put a baby gate on the stairs & baby proof the kitchen cabinets?! I never would have known that thank you! Oh and everyone you're also not suppose to drink alcohol while you're pregnant either, what would I do without my MIL!
My bitch is that it's 50 F'ing degrees in my school and I am freezing my behind off. I seriously need to bring mittens or gloves tomorrow to teach in because my hands are like ice. Of course my cheap district probably won't be turning on the heat until at least November. Knowing them, the air is probably still on...
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My bitch is this healing process for wisdom tooth removal. Thought it was getting better but yesterday and this morning it has been hurting so bad. C'mon hurry up and heal.
12 weeks and 2 days and over the weekend I felt as bad if not worse as I did weeks 6-10... It started Saturday at my MILs house - there was a family reunion so about 50 of DHs out of town family were there and we had just announced. I'd been bragging all day about how well I felt since last week and blah blah blah. Then WHAMMO! Right after I ate some food I suddenly had the worst stomach cramps and had to hide in a bathroom on a different level. DH called my cellphone after I was MIA for about 40mn - at that time i was sitting on the toilet stripped naked and sweating and cramping. Not fun.
(TMI warning)We went home and I had the worst diarrhea and and nausea ever. Stomach distress went on through yesterday and turned into a migraine #winning. Today I'm super nauseated still and my head still throbs, but I am feeling a little better. I'm so disappointed I missed out on all the reunion festivities this weekend..
I'm very happy that DH has rejoined our gym. However, he is TERRIBLE at being quiet at 5:45 am as he leaves for the gym. I could try to fall back asleep, but our 17 month old always wakes up and there's no getting her back to sleep (
My sitter called in sick today ... AGAIN!! I telecommute from home, and combine DD's time in preschool with a sitter at home to make my 40 hours. I've been through 5 sitters in under 2 years because I can't find one that is both reliable and good with my DD. I love how my current sitter is with her, but lately she's been calling in once a week, which means I'll be pissing off my boss AGAIN, and will need to work all hours of the night to make up my time. I do this because I always thought it was a better alternative to full-time daycare, and I was wiling to work crazy hours (I start at 5am) to make it work, but I'm starting to rethink it. And no, I have no idea how I'm going to manage this with a new baby - haven't gotten that far yet.
My bitch is this healing process for wisdom tooth removal. Thought it was getting better but yesterday and this morning it has been hurting so bad. C'mon hurry up and heal.
Ugh. I took forever to heal. I had mine done a year ago. My surgeon had to chip my jaw bone to get one of my teeth out, and then ended up sewing my cheek into the stitches by mistake. He refused to correct it. So, needless to say, it was a long, miserable recovery. Hope you feel better soon!!!
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@Duffgurl - Make sure you don't have a dry socket (the blood pocket in your gum didn't heal correctly or was washed away). I had one when I got my wisdom teeth pulled and it ached like nobody's business.
Thanks for the info . I can see the clot on both still. I think from talking and chewing (not on my removal side) has made it so hurtful. I am currently trying to not talk and have a ice pack on it.
My bitch is this healing process for wisdom tooth removal. Thought it was getting better but yesterday and this morning it has been hurting so bad. C'mon hurry up and heal.
Ugh. I took forever to heal. I had mine done a year ago. My surgeon had to chip my jaw bone to get one of my teeth out, and then ended up sewing my cheek into the stitches by mistake. He refused to correct it. So, needless to say, it was a long, miserable recovery. Hope you feel better soon!!!
No, you shouldn't tell my daughter that she must be grumpy simply because she didn't smile at you. Maybe she just hasn't ever seen you before & doesn't like strangers, which I'm okay with by the way. You're lucky she isn't old enough to understand what you're saying yet or I would have given you a much less pleasant response.
My DD who normally sleeps through the night was up at 3 and 5 this morning asking me to come sleep in her bed. At the time I was pissed because all I wanted to do was sleep but now that I think about it, once the baby is here I may not be able to get up and snuggle with her at 3am. Ok, so this is half bitchy and half weepy. My emotions are a wreck.
My neighbor was smoking weed last night around 2am and the stench blew into my bedroom and woke me up. I was so effing mad and still am. She hates when I use dryer sheets, as she is "allergic to the smell." I now use rubber balls in my dryer as an alternative out of respect. Guess what I will be doing tonight? 2 loads of laundry WITH dryer sheets!
It has taken me all day to think of it - which in itself is annoying but here it is...
I am so mad at myself that so many of you ladies are so much wittier than me! I see a post that I know is going to get torn apart or turned into a candy/food thread and I just kick myself for not being able to think of something funny enough to add to the post!!
I really want to blame pregnancy brain for lack of quick wit - but me thinks ya'll are just smarter than me!!!!!
@Duffgurl - Make sure you don't have a dry socket (the blood pocket in your gum didn't heal correctly or was washed away). I had one when I got my wisdom teeth pulled and it ached like nobody's business.
Also, make sure to keep it clean and don't try solid foods too early. I ended up with a buckle infection in my gums which needed emergency surgery. Avoid this at all costs. I would say the pain was comparable to my non medicated birth with DS.
Oh my. Ya I've been rinsing with warm salt water and just trying to avoid that area.
I was having the most amazing day with nothing to bitch about until I tried to get a coke slurpee before work. For those of you who aren't familiar with me, my one daily craving is a coke slurpee with popcorn. I made sure I was running ahead if time to make popcorn to take with me, then I stopped by the 7-11 nearest my house and the coke slurpee was not working! I went to the next closest 7-11 and they didn't even have coke as a slurpee option! I thought all hope was lost when I realized there was one more 7-11 on my way to work I hadn't ever noticed before. I stopped in and coke slurpee wasn't working there either! WTF. I settled for banana and it was not the same. Unacceptable. This pregnant lady needs at least one coke slurpee a day to function. And plurals the lady at mcdonalds forgot my effing sauce. How am I supposed to eat these fries with no buffalo sauce? I even asked her before I drove away and she assured me there was one in my bag! Screw her!
Lately I can't help but wonder if the idea of symptoms getting better after 12 is the western consensus? I asked my OB and he laughed and said I wouldn't feel better until 5 months. All my Japanese stuff says the same time frame for symptoms but everything ever in the history of pregnancy (in English) says 12 weeks.
Yay! I was pregnant with my daughter in Japan. It was lovely--prenatal care there rocks. Do you still register with the city gov't and get an awesome little baby book?! I kept my daughter's. Only problems I had were: craving real western food, fishy smell at the grocery store. My daughter was made out of okinomiyaki. Couldn't get enough.
My bitch: I am being such a bitch. I'm tired and grumpy and when people try to small talk me at work I feel like doing them violence. What's my problem?!
The woman who sits next to me at work eats apples like she is a fucking horse. Crunching as loud as she can to annoy me.
She also got mad because I ate a piece of chocolate from the candy table that the supervisors left out for us.
Then she proceeded to try to scare when I stood up. I was having round ligament pain and I was just stretching and walking it out and I told the woman that I was in some pain and if anyone asked I was walking around. She goes "Are you miscarrying?" No you stupid woman my uterus is stretching so that way I can have a baby bump and push this kid out later. We have other ladies that are pregnant at my work and they were getting a little scared for me. I had to reassure them I'm ok.
@Duffgurl ouch, sorry to hear about your wisdom teeth pain! I had mine out a few years ago and it was awful...I think I lost 10 lbs the week after because I was in too much pain to eat, the medicine they gave me made me sick (and out of it...to the point where I drove to work and then after sitting at my desk for a while couldn't remember how I got there).
The woman who sits next to me at work eats apples like she is a fucking horse. Crunching as loud as she can to annoy me.
She also got mad because I ate a piece of chocolate from the candy table that the supervisors left out for us.
Then she proceeded to try to scare when I stood up. I was having round ligament pain and I was just stretching and walking it out and I told the woman that I was in some pain and if anyone asked I was walking around. She goes "Are you miscarrying?" No you stupid woman my uterus is stretching so that way I can have a baby bump and push this kid out later. We have other ladies that are pregnant at my work and they were getting a little scared for me. I had to reassure them I'm ok.
I would have have roundhouse kicked that lady in the face. What the fuck.
I about threw my water at her. I asked my supervisor to move her away from me. I put my headphones on at work to ignore her and she will wave her hands in my face. I just have no patience for her anymore.
The A/C went out in the house and my car today and I have spent the last half of the day just plain hot. While many of you are having cold weather it is still 90 degrees and humid here. Wish your cooler weather would come south.
Alright I have another bitch, it's already Tuesday here. I usually love reading Facebook drama, I find what people say hilarious sometimes but this one girl is bitching that the holiday party doesn't allow children, she thinks that everyone there is drinking and people that leave their children to drink and party and low lives for wanting one night out. Omg! She pissed me off because the people that are in charge of it all have children and she said they don't care about family. I took it so offensively. This girl has a 2 year old, they are offering child care so parents can have fun with the people that are single. I fed in a little saying not everything can involve families, but ooooh she rattled my bones! I haven't had a baby but I plan on having date nights as much as I can, I know they will be rare and far between but a night out with the husband, why not, I'm not paying for a babysitter.
@Duffgurl ouch, sorry to hear about your wisdom teeth pain! I had mine out a few years ago and it was awful...I think I lost 10 lbs the week after because I was in too much pain to eat, the medicine they gave me made me sick (and out of it...to the point where I drove to work and then after sitting at my desk for a while couldn't remember how I got there).
I hope you feel better sooon!
Thanks. Ya I keep seeing all these great posts on food. Wish I could eat it all lol. Unfortunately been taking it easy with food these days.
@redneckmomma25 I'm plus size too! H&M has plus size online. Their leggings are really nice. Forever 21 also has plus size in store and online. I got a bunch of leggings from Torrid though. They have a really soft and wide waistband that's helping me through my changing belly and they are very thick and long. I bought plus size maternity leggings from Destination Maternity and they are sadly totally see through
My Monday woes? Probably not something I should stress over but is definitely sticking a nerve on me tonight. Six months ago my husband and I moved 1300 miles away from home. We only know one couple out here that moved up a month before us from home, we've known them for years. For the sake of making friends, having socialization, and starting a new comfortable life here, our friend introduced us to his sister and brother in law. They are awesome when we first got here, absolutely loved them. But after like two weeks we both got the feeling sister didn't like us. I was talking to our friend tonight about how I was kind of sad that I won't really be able to have a baby shower, especially since my family wouldn't be able to attend, and I can't afford to go home for it when the time comes (only 11 weeks along right now so not a big urgency of planning) He said his girlfriend and sister would definitely be up for it if I had one here. I mentioned I had the feeling that sister didn't like me for some reason, and low and behold when I get that feeling I'm right. What really bothers me is that he said I'm right and should apologize for offending his sister. I asked how I offended her, totally upset I did so because I didn't mean to and I wish she would have said something so I could correct it and apologize then, not six months after the fact. I'm a people pleaser and would never do anything to hurt another person inter intentionally. Her reasoning for not liking me? Because I'm a picky eater, especially now since I'm pregnant and have had terribly ms so the idea of food is a no go for me right now, And that I'm pregnant for the first time with a healthy baby and no complications after a year of trying, but she's had two miscarriages unfortunately and has been diagnosed with slim chances of ever conceiving. I understand the second part, and I feel for her. I don't flaunt my pregnancy, I haven't even announced it online or anything yet, only close family and friends know for now, and I haven't even seen her but once since we found out I'm pregnant. I'll apologize (for the 10th time) about my picky eating habits, but I'll be damned if I apologize for the fact that were finally pregnant. I sympathize with her, and I honestly hope they can conceive because she would be a great mom, and her husband would be a fantastic dad and they deserve it, and I understand jealousy in this situation. But to down right hate me for it? I don't know, maybe I'm being too sensitive or maybe too insensitive about the situation but it's definitely got my panties in a bunch.
Re: Monday Bitchfest
I'd been bragging all day about how well I felt since last week and blah blah blah. Then WHAMMO! Right after I ate some food I suddenly had the worst stomach cramps and had to hide in a bathroom on a different level. DH called my cellphone after I was MIA for about 40mn - at that time i was sitting on the toilet stripped naked and sweating and cramping. Not fun.
(TMI warning)We went home and I had the worst diarrhea and and nausea ever. Stomach distress went on through yesterday and turned into a migraine #winning. Today I'm super nauseated still and my head still throbs, but I am feeling a little better. I'm so disappointed I missed out on all the reunion festivities this weekend..
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No, you shouldn't tell my daughter that she must be grumpy simply because she didn't smile at you. Maybe she just hasn't ever seen you before & doesn't like strangers, which I'm okay with by the way. You're lucky she isn't old enough to understand what you're saying yet or I would have given you a much less pleasant response.
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It has taken me all day to think of it - which in itself is annoying but here it is...
I am so mad at myself that so many of you ladies are so much wittier than me! I see a post that I know is going to get torn apart or turned into a candy/food thread and I just kick myself for not being able to think of something funny enough to add to the post!!
I really want to blame pregnancy brain for lack of quick wit - but me thinks ya'll are just smarter than me!!!!!
My bitch: I am being such a bitch. I'm tired and grumpy and when people try to small talk me at work I feel like doing them violence. What's my problem?!
@Duffgurl ouch, sorry to hear about your wisdom teeth pain! I had mine out a few years ago and it was awful...I think I lost 10 lbs the week after because I was in too much pain to eat, the medicine they gave me made me sick (and out of it...to the point where I drove to work and then after sitting at my desk for a while couldn't remember how I got there).
I hope you feel better sooon!
Six months ago my husband and I moved 1300 miles away from home. We only know one couple out here that moved up a month before us from home, we've known them for years.
For the sake of making friends, having socialization, and starting a new comfortable life here, our friend introduced us to his sister and brother in law. They are awesome when we first got here, absolutely loved them. But after like two weeks we both got the feeling sister didn't like us.
I was talking to our friend tonight about how I was kind of sad that I won't really be able to have a baby shower, especially since my family wouldn't be able to attend, and I can't afford to go home for it when the time comes (only 11 weeks along right now so not a big urgency of planning)
He said his girlfriend and sister would definitely be up for it if I had one here.
I mentioned I had the feeling that sister didn't like me for some reason, and low and behold when I get that feeling I'm right.
What really bothers me is that he said I'm right and should apologize for offending his sister. I asked how I offended her, totally upset I did so because I didn't mean to and I wish she would have said something so I could correct it and apologize then, not six months after the fact. I'm a people pleaser and would never do anything to hurt another person inter intentionally.
Her reasoning for not liking me?
Because I'm a picky eater, especially now since I'm pregnant and have had terribly ms so the idea of food is a no go for me right now,
And that I'm pregnant for the first time with a healthy baby and no complications after a year of trying, but she's had two miscarriages unfortunately and has been diagnosed with slim chances of ever conceiving.
I understand the second part, and I feel for her. I don't flaunt my pregnancy, I haven't even announced it online or anything yet, only close family and friends know for now, and I haven't even seen her but once since we found out I'm pregnant.
I'll apologize (for the 10th time) about my picky eating habits, but I'll be damned if I apologize for the fact that were finally pregnant. I sympathize with her, and I honestly hope they can conceive because she would be a great mom, and her husband would be a fantastic dad and they deserve it, and I understand jealousy in this situation.
But to down right hate me for it?
I don't know, maybe I'm being too sensitive or maybe too insensitive about the situation but it's definitely got my panties in a bunch.