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UPDATE: scary dreams, spotting, and milestones - emotional to say the least

LbdelacruzLbdelacruz member
edited October 2014 in Pregnant after a Loss
So, we had our appointment today... Two heartbeats!! One in the 160s and the other in 170s. Crazy overwhelmed, but feeling doubly blessed. Vanishing twin was mentioned, but things looked good. Next appt is in 3 weeks. I'm sure I'll worry from time to time, but today was so re-assuring. I told my doc I dreamt of her all Saturday night. Spotting a bit now, but sure it's from the vaginal u/s. Thank you for all your good thoughts!! Wishing the same for all of you!!

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I'm 7w1d. Last night, I kept having dreams where DH and I were in the doc's office, and she have us bad news again. Today, I've had some brownish spotting on and off, with some crampy, stretching feelings. My nipples don't even feel as sore. My hope is that all's ok. Maybe even because DH and I were intimate yesterday morning. But it was around this time that I had my MC. It was even a Sunday. I have an appt tomorrow where they will do and u/s. Today has been so emotional. Crying jags. Worry. It just feels like déjà vu. I know every pregnancy is different, but the timing and everything is making me crazy. Went on a short, easy hike to get out of the house and out of my head. Helped, but the emotional roller coaster is still going strong. Has anyone experienced similar? Did anything help? Thoughts and prayers are appreciated! Thanks!
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Re: UPDATE: scary dreams, spotting, and milestones - emotional to say the least

  • jesswein9jesswein9 member
    (((Hugs))). It's completely normal to be emotional and have doubts. Remember that today you are pregnant. Fx for your appt tomorrow!

    Me (28) DH (27)
    Married June 2012
    Started TTC July 2013
         BFP #1          August 2013          EDD 4/29/14            natural MC at 6-7 week
    BFP #2         January 2014         EDD 9/24/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #3         March 2014            EDD 12/4/14            MC at 8 weeks, D&C
    BFP #4         August 2014            EDD 4/20/15        Hoping for our rainbow
                                                It's a BOY!
     
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  • pblgepblge member
    Spotting is really common after intimate moments. Symptoms really don't mean much, as I'm sure you know, but they're still worrying. I hope that tomorrow goes great!
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    ***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. :'(  Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen.  => M/C @ 8 wks. :'( Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! :) Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
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  • mrsjg2013mrsjg2013 member
    Big hugs! I know this is easier said than done, but I decided to enjoy every moment of this pregnancy as much as I can, just as I did my first (until we discovered the kids, of course). No amount of worrying is going to change anything, so I'm choosing to only believe that this baby will be joining our earthly family. With all that said, I still have to check myself daily when the "what ifs" start trying to creep in... worry is a natural emotion after loss. I hope your appointment goes well, and I look forward to your joyful update!
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  • BackstreetPixieBackstreetPixie member
    ::HUGS:: It is normal to feel that way. I hope all is well. fx for good news at your apt. 
    -Megan


    Started dating Hubby May 17 2005. Married since Aug 20 2011 
    Me:30   Hubby:31
    TTC since May 2012 
    HSG Dec 2012 Fill no spill on left side, right side normal (most physically painful experience of my life..)
    Metformin Started May 2013
    PG#1: BFP 10-21-13. EDD 6-17-14 mmc 12-9-13 m/c occurred with cytotec on 12-11-13 
    PG#2: BFP 07-25-14.  EDD 4-5-15   *Hoping this is my rainbow*
    Diagnosed with PCOS, Hypothyroid,IBD/UC, (UC in remission as of July 2014)
    *I will always love you Fetey the first.* 
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  • heathersf11heathersf11 member
    Fx for a good appointment tomorrow. I know the spotting could very well be from an irritated cervix. I hope all is well.
    DH diagnosed with testicular cancer 6/04/10
    Married DH 8/1/11
    7/21/13 SA poor morphology/ low count
    BFP #1 11/18/13, EDD 7/22/14 
    MC Blighted Ovum 12/4/13 @ 7wks
    BFP #2 8/21/14, EDD 5/1/15 
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  • LbdelacruzLbdelacruz member
    Thank you, everyone!! It means so much. Going to try and get some rest, but I'll update tomorrow. Good thoughts to all!
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  • peggels24peggels24 member
    Fx for a great appointment today!  It is normal to experience some spotting after intercourse and / or other activities.
    BFP #1 09/26/2013 EDD 06/04/2013 MMC 11/01/2013
    BFP #2 05/15/2014 EDD 01/24/2015

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