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Could I be pregnant?

raenae12raenae12 member
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Ok so my husband and I have been trying to conceive our second child for 3 months now and I have been worried because I got pregnant with my son after one try. I was sure I was pregnant this time because I've had terrible mood swings I've felt nauseated with heart burn and awful headaches, my expected period is tomorrow so I took a 5 days ealier pregnancy test first thing this morning and it said negative. Has anyone else experienced this? And did you eventually get a positive?
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  • lucy2113lucy2113 member
    What did the test say? If it said negative then it's negative. It means your not pregnant at this time. Read the directions on the box.
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  • dmsmthdmsmth member
    neg means not pregnant at this time.  You may have ovulated later than normal or it could just be pms.  Also, it can take a health couple up to a year to get pregnant.  Just because it's been month #3 and you got pregnant with ds on month #1, doesn't mean you have a problem.  You only have a 20% chance of conceiving each month
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  • bluepie19bluepie19 member
    If you took the test according to the directions and it came up negative then no, your not pregnant at this time. PMS symptoms and early pregnancy are a lot alike. Test weekly until AF comes or you have reached 60 days since your last period. If you go 60 days without a period call your doctor.
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    The reason why I ask is because these are not normal period symptoms for me and I know there are such things as false negatives especially in the very beginning due to there not being enough HCG hormone in my body, I was seeing if anybody else experienced this with an eventual positive. No need to be snarky, this is supposed to be a beautiful thing.
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    I've already had a child I obviously know how to use a pregnancy test.
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    CFearsy said:


    raenae12 said:

    I've already had a child I obviously know how to use a pregnancy test.

    Then what is the confusion about?


    Because I was wondering if anyone could relate and give me hope, but it's obvious that these boards are filled with bitter old dried up wenches who can't get pregnant and have lost all hope so they want to take it out on people who ask legitimate questions.
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    Oh yes i do feel sorry for your husbands, in fact I'd say that's why you haven't gotten pregnant, their little swimmers are probably too scared to enter your angst ridden eggs and that is why you are not with child. Tell me, did you let your husbands know how awful you were before you got married or did you hide that fact until after he had to be stuck with it forever? :)
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    KawaiiKitsune said:


    raenae12 said:

    CFearsy said:


    raenae12 said:

    I've already had a child I obviously know how to use a pregnancy test.

    Then what is the confusion about?
    Because I was wondering if anyone could relate and give me hope, but it's obvious that these boards are filled with bitter old dried up wenches who can't get pregnant and have lost all hope so they want to take it out on people who ask legitimate questions.

    Are you fucking kidding me? You got legitimate answers. We are not about false hope here. I think you want Babycenter. Also, your response was way over the fucking line.


    Mine was? Do you need medication?
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  • DaikokuJessDaikokuJess member
    Just go

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  • Ant&Al2825Ant&Al2825 member
    My magical ute goggles are broken. Sorry.
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    PrimRoseMama said:

    raenae12 said:

    CFearsy said:


    raenae12 said:

    I've already had a child I obviously know how to use a pregnancy test.

    Then what is the confusion about?
    Because I was wondering if anyone could relate and give me hope, but it's obvious that these boards are filled with bitter old dried up wenches who can't get pregnantand have lost all hope so they want to take it out on people who ask legitimate questions.
    :-t hold up there, @raenae12‌ , I've been pregnant 4 times. I have no trouble getting pregnant, & throwing out insults like this is far more ugly than anything that's been said to you, truly.

    If anyone is "taking it out" & lashing out in frustration due to their own issues with TTC it's you. You are throwing a tantrum like a toddler because we aren't giving you the flowery, super sugary answers you want to hear to make you feel better.

    False hope is cruel & unnecessary. We don't do that here so step off & stop the ugly behavior.

    I didn't start the ugly behavior, also I didn't ask for rediculous remarks, I asked for anyone who could relate who got an EVENTUAL POSITIVE I didn't ask for false hope.
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    brettanomyces said:

    Wow. I don't usually even bother with threads like this, but OP you sound like a selfish brat. You didn't get your BFP right away and now you're not getting the answers or false hope you want so you're being nasty. 


    There are women in this community who are dealing with real fertility issues. I hope you feel good about yourself. 
    Oh i do because i would expect a board like this to be about encouragement not rediculous unhelpful rude banter that obviously doesn't help anything, for those of you who treated my question as a legitimate question with legitimate answers thank you. My comments were not meant for you they were meant for the people who never left the playground.
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  • Ant&Al2825Ant&Al2825 member
    jinx x3
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    raenae12 said:

    brettanomyces said:

    Wow. I don't usually even bother with threads like this, but OP you sound like a selfish brat. You didn't get your BFP right away and now you're not getting the answers or false hope you want so you're being nasty. 


    There are women in this community who are dealing with real fertility issues. I hope you feel good about yourself. 
    Oh i do because i would expect a board like this to be about encouragement not rediculous unhelpful rude banter that obviously doesn't help anything, for those of you who treated my question as a legitimate question with legitimate answers thank you. My comments were not meant for you they were meant for the people who never left the playground.
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    My 24 year old, apparently "dried up" ute would like to tell you we use grammar and spelling here.
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    PrimRoseMama said:

    raenae12 said:

    Oh yes i do feel sorry for your husbands, in fact I'd say that's why you haven't gotten pregnant, their little swimmers are probably too scared to enter your angst ridden eggs and that is why you are not with child. Tell me, did you let your husbands know how awful you were before you got married or did you hide that fact until after he had to be stuck with it forever? :)

    WTF is wrong with you? This is really really out of line. I'm not with child because I am not actively trying, but to make insults about anyone else's fertility because you are pissed off is really showing that you have an ugly heart.

    Does your husband know the kind if fucked-up shit you are spewing to those trying to complete their families?

    I have kids & it's appalling that you are going with this "bitches don't get babies" bullshit.

    Go away.
    Then don't read it love. :)
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  • raenae12raenae12 member
    Trickyjedi said:


    raenae12 said:

    Oh yes i do feel sorry for your husbands, in fact I'd say that's why you haven't gotten pregnant, their little swimmers are probably too scared to enter your angst ridden eggs and that is why you are not with child. Tell me, did you let your husbands know how awful you were before you got married or did you hide that fact until after he had to be stuck with it forever? :)



    Lol, because your husband really won the lottery when he got you. I wonder what he would think if he read your posts and saw what a hurtful, spiteful person his wife is, darling.

    Oh he would agree with me I'm sure, i treat everyone I know with kindness and respect and he sees that everyday, he also sees that when someone escalates a situation I'm the last to go hide in a corner, as far as I'm concerned everything I've said was completely within the boundaries of what all of you deserve. Thank you.
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    akovacs4 said:

    raenae12 said:

    brettanomyces said:

    Wow. I don't usually even bother with threads like this, but OP you sound like a selfish brat. You didn't get your BFP right away and now you're not getting the answers or false hope you want so you're being nasty. 


    There are women in this community who are dealing with real fertility issues. I hope you feel good about yourself. 
    Oh i do because i would expect a board like this to be about encouragement not rediculous unhelpful rude banter that obviously doesn't help anything, for those of you who treated my question as a legitimate question with legitimate answers thank you. My comments were not meant for you they were meant for the people who never left the playground.
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    My 24 year old, apparently "dried up" ute would like to tell you we use grammar and spelling here.
    No lovey you use spell check, big difference.
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  • SHAYD12SHAYD12 member
    edited October 2014
    raenae12 said:

    CFearsy said:


    raenae12 said:

    I've already had a child I obviously know how to use a pregnancy test.

    Then what is the confusion about?
    Because I was wondering if anyone could relate and give me hope, but it's obvious that these boards are filled with bitter old dried up wenches who can't get pregnant and have lost all hope so they want to take it out on people who ask legitimate questions.

    Are you fuckin kidding me?? Maybe if you lurked around a little before you posted, you would of got your answer! How about opening the TWW and reading all the symptoms lady's are dealing with month after month. Maybe you need to go back and read the responses the lady's answered your questions. (With very minimum snark). Do you want us to predict you freakin future? You seem like you sure know what we are like and have all the answers, so why are you asking us?? Last I checked, I cant look in to your uterus and tell you if your pregnant. If the test was neg, wait a week and try again.

    Oh wait a min, fuck it. Your totally pregnant. Go ahead and just go to 1st tri, thanks for stoping by!

     

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    rainbowsandunicorns said:

    raenae12 said:

    akovacs4 said:

    raenae12 said:

    brettanomyces said:

    Wow. I don't usually even bother with threads like this, but OP you sound like a selfish brat. You didn't get your BFP right away and now you're not getting the answers or false hope you want so you're being nasty. 


    There are women in this community who are dealing with real fertility issues. I hope you feel good about yourself. 
    Oh i do because i would expect a board like this to be about encouragement not rediculous unhelpful rude banter that obviously doesn't help anything, for those of you who treated my question as a legitimate question with legitimate answers thank you. My comments were not meant for you they were meant for the people who never left the playground.
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    My 24 year old, apparently "dried up" ute would like to tell you we use grammar and spelling here.
    No lovey you use spell check, big difference.
    No. We just have brains. GTFO.
    Are you sure? And yes I am leaving this thread with everything I've said I hope it makes you all realize that you are awful, maybe I do say hurtful things when such 'ladies' like yourselves say the 'ladylike' things that you have posted. But I'm never the first to say an unkind word. I had a legit question but none of you had the decency to answer with respect as I'm well aware now is a common occurrence amongst you dried up old twats. (OMG WAS THAT ANOTHER STAB AT OUR INFERTILITY?!) Yes :) Try to be a little less unfortunate in the personality department.
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  • niyreniyre member
    I think some of u women are giving her a little to much. All yall were rude as hell first before she even made those comments. All yall are wrong. Js sad.
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  • niyreniyre member
    Yall are so freaking rude and nasty miserable Bitches in here. I cant believe how yall responded to the thread.
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  • greysweatshirtgreysweatshirt member
    OP, I was about to explain the difference between what you "thought" this board was and what community means, but don't really feel like wasting my breath. When you look back on this, you'll realize how much this was on you and how your response was totally uncalled for. Thankfully, the members of this board are supportive and encouraging with people that participate, contribute and put the time in to learn how things function here, so your insensitive and horrendous insults will be forgotten. As a newbie, I've learned so much from these ladies... This could have been a good place for you to learn a lot too but it's rather obvious you blew that chance. Good luck with TTC and please don't waste any more of our time.
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