I am so petrified of going through another miscarriage!!!
So here is my story. Last year around this time I was pregnant. I started spotting around week 5. Then about 2 weeks after that I lost the baby and saw the grey tissue in the toilet
Then I bled for about 10 weeks after that. My (experienced) ob kept saying week after week that he believed it would go on its own. (whatever they were seeing on the ultrasound reports). I did about 10 vaginal and pelvic ultrasounds. Yes you read that right, TEN! Every single week for 10 weeks. And every time i would go in for the results my ob would tell me it has gone down a little and he thinks it would resolve on its own so lets avoid the surgery to remove it.
Finally after the 10 weekly ultrasounds, the last tech said she believed in may be polyps. SO then i had a special ultrasound, don't remember the name of it, and that doctor still couldnt decide if it was polyps or retained product from the pregnancy. So, i ended up have a procedure to remove whatever it was.
After waiting over a week for the results, i was told it wasn't polyps, it was thickened endometrium caused by the miscarriage. After that procedure, I still felt a random pain on my right side in my uterus. The ob checked me out manually, and also another ultrasound and told me he didnt see anything worrisome and that i was perfectly fine to get pregnant again. Not that i really wanted to at this point after the hell i went through. This entire miscarriage process took about 4 months. I bled almost the entire time, so i was locked up in my apartment for the whole winter in fear of bleeding on the street randomly. Plus I had a then 6 month old baby with me, and my boyfriend overseas so i was alone.
Now, that pregnancy happened right after my period ended. So we had sex around day 8.
Fast forward to now:
My periods are very regular, plus or minus 1 or 2 days they are on time.
My last period started Sept 15th. On Sept 22nd we had unprotected sex. Well he pulled out so most of it didnt go inside me, but now i wonder if he pulled out on time because about 3 days later i felt this pain in my uterus (which reminded me of the pain i felt with both other pregnancies. What i believe were conception pains that were quick and sharp). And then the next day (only 4 days after intercourse) I felt something surely different with my uterus. I felt that expanding feeling that I remember when I was pregnant the first time, but much later in the pregnancy. And ever since then, a "full" feeling in my uterus. I also experienced some menstrual cramps and i have never experienced menstrual cramps mid-cycle ever!
Also, a couple of times if i moved fast or got up from laying down, my uterus would kind of ache.
I am TERRIFIED. I am pretty damn sure i'm pregnant. But i feel like im going to go through this horrible miscarriage again.
With my successful pregnancy, we had sex around day 14.
With my miscarriage, got pregnant right after period ended (around day 8)
Now this one, pregnant symptoms 4 days after sex. Sex happened around day 8)
Feel so upset.
Just saw my family doctor, and he saying its not really possible i'm pregnant since i have a regular period, i would ovulate around day 14