TTC After a Loss
twobabiesforme
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Why am I feeling pregnancy symptoms soooo early (cycle day 12)
twobabiesforme
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I am so petrified of going through another miscarriage!!!
So here is my story. Last year around this time I was pregnant. I started spotting around week 5. Then about 2 weeks after that I lost the baby and saw the grey tissue in the toilet 
Then I bled for about 10 weeks after that. My (experienced) ob kept saying week after week that he believed it would go on its own. (whatever they were seeing on the ultrasound reports). I did about 10 vaginal and pelvic ultrasounds. Yes you read that right, TEN! Every single week for 10 weeks. And every time i would go in for the results my ob would tell me it has gone down a little and he thinks it would resolve on its own so lets avoid the surgery to remove it.
Then I bled for about 10 weeks after that. My (experienced) ob kept saying week after week that he believed it would go on its own. (whatever they were seeing on the ultrasound reports). I did about 10 vaginal and pelvic ultrasounds. Yes you read that right, TEN! Every single week for 10 weeks. And every time i would go in for the results my ob would tell me it has gone down a little and he thinks it would resolve on its own so lets avoid the surgery to remove it. Finally after the 10 weekly ultrasounds, the last tech said she believed in may be polyps. SO then i had a special ultrasound, don't remember the name of it, and that doctor still couldnt decide if it was polyps or retained product from the pregnancy. So, i ended up have a procedure to remove whatever it was.
After waiting over a week for the results, i was told it wasn't polyps, it was thickened endometrium caused by the miscarriage. After that procedure, I still felt a random pain on my right side in my uterus. The ob checked me out manually, and also another ultrasound and told me he didnt see anything worrisome and that i was perfectly fine to get pregnant again. Not that i really wanted to at this point after the hell i went through. This entire miscarriage process took about 4 months. I bled almost the entire time, so i was locked up in my apartment for the whole winter in fear of bleeding on the street randomly. Plus I had a then 6 month old baby with me, and my boyfriend overseas so i was alone.
Now, that pregnancy happened right after my period ended. So we had sex around day 8.
Fast forward to now:
My periods are very regular, plus or minus 1 or 2 days they are on time.
My last period started Sept 15th. On Sept 22nd we had unprotected sex. Well he pulled out so most of it didnt go inside me, but now i wonder if he pulled out on time because about 3 days later i felt this pain in my uterus (which reminded me of the pain i felt with both other pregnancies. What i believe were conception pains that were quick and sharp). And then the next day (only 4 days after intercourse) I felt something surely different with my uterus. I felt that expanding feeling that I remember when I was pregnant the first time, but much later in the pregnancy. And ever since then, a "full" feeling in my uterus. I also experienced some menstrual cramps and i have never experienced menstrual cramps mid-cycle ever!
Also, a couple of times if i moved fast or got up from laying down, my uterus would kind of ache.
I am TERRIFIED. I am pretty damn sure i'm pregnant. But i feel like im going to go through this horrible miscarriage again.
With my successful pregnancy, we had sex around day 14.
With my miscarriage, got pregnant right after period ended (around day 8)
Now this one, pregnant symptoms 4 days after sex. Sex happened around day 8)
Feel so upset.
Just saw my family doctor, and he saying its not really possible i'm pregnant since i have a regular period, i would ovulate around day 14
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Re: Why am I feeling pregnancy symptoms soooo early (cycle day 12)
US (with RE) 3/24/2014 (two healthy HB), US (with OB) 3/31/2014 (three healthy heartbeats)
BFP#2: 10/22/14 | (beta #1 75, beta # 2 219) | EDD 7/3/15 ~*Please be our RAINBOW*~
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OP, seriously? Why would you waltz onto a board full of grieving women, throw your LC in their face and then proceed to tell us how you are sure you are pregnant. In what world is this OK? You also completely missed the part in the header of this board that said DO NOT ask if you are pregnant, we can't possibly know the answer.
I just can't deal with this shit today.
DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
My chart here All ALers welcome!
Wow not what I needed today. Op if you do not want to be pg use a form of birth control. Pulling out is not bc.
There are women here desperately trying to get pg again. This is not the place to say omg some sperm got in I think I'm ktfu. Can you tell me if I am?
We cannot.
If you would like support read the blog, lurk, get to know how it works here, offer support. And offer a sincere apology
PgAL welcome
Married 6/11/2011
Me & Hubby: 34
TTC journey started 12/2012
BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks
BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)
Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.
Also have hypothyroidism
Started TTC again 12/2013
IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN
IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN
Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498
OP I'm sorry for your loss and thank you for the apology.
@twobabies for me, I don't have anything much to add to the previous posts. But, if you do get a chance, read the discussion posted on September 25th tiled "I **I Heart** the Bump", perhaps you may undertand where we are coming from. The ladies aren't trying to be mean.
@Creechmommy @Ldubhawksfan @MLAL78 @Greeneyes842 @KM380 @Cfearsy @jj32 @Yorkielove83
BFP #1 12/23/13 MMC 01/24/14 @ 9w5days
Me-27 DH-29
TTC#1 January 2013
BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C
Working on our rainbow!
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The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise
And perfectly said @PetraStonegirl!
Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
The day the Bump died - Jasper is wise