So I decided not to get the TDAP or flu vaccinations while pregnant. I am planning to get them in the hospital after LO is born, but I don't want to get them while pregnant. I've read the recommendations and the reasons for vaccinating and risks of not getting the vaccines, but despite the benefits, I just have this gut feeling that I should not get them. However, I'm starting to feel a little guilty about my decision....probably from reading the popular opinions that I'm putting my baby at risk. Do I stick with my gut and not get the vaccinations or go and head and ask my doc for them at my 37 week appointment tomorrow?
Re: Vaccination Guilt *Update in Thread*
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
Long story short: get the vaccine and pass the immunities to baby.
I've spoken to my doctor and they just tell me that it's the current recommendation but it's up to me. They haven't really pressured me to get them, which is also why I'm thinking it's not really necessary. I guess my guilt is coming from the reading of all of the past threads here about them and the fact that most people seem to be getting them.
Oh, and their babies, just by fate, won't die from it, it will be the ones who CANNOT get the vaccines themselves.
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TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
2. Part gut instinct and part educated decision based in my research
3. Felt guilt because I don't know what the right decision is and I don't want to expose LO to more risk (from having or not having the vaccine)
4. Asked non- medical professionals who I don't know after I've already asked medical professionals.
Logic and reason play a huge part in my life, which is why I'm really struggling with this. Everything I do is based on what is most logical, but I guess I just haven't found sufficient logic to convince me to get the vaccinations...other than just blindly following "the recommendations".
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Are you going to be making all your decisions for this child based on gut feelings? Gut feeling decisions are based on how you feel about something at the moment as opposed to making an educated decision. Which is why you are now questioning your original decision, because you now feel differently.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
I guess it's really less of a gut feeling than a decision I came to after doing research. It just has started to seem illogical to me because it is the opposite of the conclusion most others have come to. That is why I am questioning my decision.
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
1. From what sources? There is no reliable, factual, science-based source that suggests that not vaccinating is a good idea. None. Tell me the source and I can tell you where their science fails.
2. What degrees do you have that make you qualified to do such "research"? Do you even know what the term "research" means? Do you know how to read a scientific abstract, let alone paper (which you probably do not have access to)? Do you know how to interpret the results?
3. Trust me, the guilt you'll feel if your child gets pertussis is worse than any guilt you may feel now.
4. Take the advice of medical professionals throughout the country and get yourself vaccinated.
I know you don't know me IRL....and I it probably doesn't come across through mobile bumping, but I do have a master's degree and consider myself to be educated enough to review scientific abstracts and research. I am by no means a medical professional or a professional scientist or professional researcher.
I can't be the only educated person who doesn't believe very bit of scientific research and always accept it at face value without questioning it....or am I?
TFMC 08.02.13 at 19+ weeks. Everyday I grieve for my little Olive.
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@golfingdarwinfish - Are you able to point me towards some research that shows the benefits of the new recommendations to vaccinate all pregnant women (as opposed to the previous recommendation to have up to date vaccinations for all caregivers...not necessarily while pregnant)?
I can't be the only educated person who doesn't believe very bit of scientific research and always accept it at face value without questioning it....or am I?
I get paid to be skeptical about and question scientific and medical research. But I have many years of medical and scientific training behind me. So, yeah, I'm a highly educated individual who doubts many pieces of scientific data. In fact I often doubt more than I believe, but I know how to properly arrive at that doubt, which pieces of methodology/protocol/statistical analysis to doubt/question, and which analysis/animal model/in vitro/clinical tests to request in order to verify or support the data in question.
I guess I kind of feel like my doctor doesn't necessarily believe in the benefits either. Although it is being recommended, I get the feeling it is more for liability purposes, like that the practice feels it has to make me aware of the current CDC recommendations but the doctor doesn't necessarily feel strongly about me getting the vaccines during pregnancy.