March 2015 Moms

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I updated my iPhone to the new iOS version and it erased ALL of my photos. Thank god for iCloud backup.
Also, my roots are getting really bad and I swear I'm seeing new grey hairs up there. Compounded with my newly formed pregnancy acne, I fear I'll look like a frizzy haired bridge troll by the time I pop this baby out.

So what's on your mind??

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  • My left leg- I could rip it off like a zombie & use it as a club today it's giving me so much annoying pain. I took Tylenol & nohelp. What I would do for a soak in a hot tub or even a hot bath. But I'd definately cook my little bun in the oven. Wondering if I might have a uti.
    My MIL is going insane. Seriously. She can be so sweet & nice & then turn around & say the meanest ugliest things. It's heart breaking because it's gotten to the point of not knowing what is real. Today has been a rough day. I hope I have the patience to continue with affirmations & being kind. It makes things worse to lash out. She's got lupus & a few other things going on but only chooses to take opi's & sleeping meds. So her mind is slowly deteriorating.
    Thanks for letting me vent! I needed it!!!'
  • Wtf 2nd trimester dry heaves and headaches. Sick of this crap. :((
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  • My 22 year old recent college grad sister who lives at home, has not seriously looked for a job, and failed the drug test for the ONE job offer she got (from the one interview she went on- bc her boyfriend's dad works at the company)...... Told our other sister that she (the 22 year old) is the better sister to her.
    NBD right?  Except that the other sister has lived with me for 3 years.  She is treated like a member of my family, has come on vacation with us, I redecorated the room for her, etc etc etc.

    Yeah dude, you're totally the better sister bc you guys go to the movies 1-2 times per month.  I'm annoyed bc she believes this- just as she believes that bad things happen to her (ie the job she failed the drug test for) that she has no responsibility for.  She lives in an alternate reality- must be nice.
  • My left leg- I could rip it off like a zombie & use it as a club today it's giving me so much annoying pain. I took Tylenol & nohelp. What I would do for a soak in a hot tub or even a hot bath. But I'd definately cook my little bun in the oven. Wondering if I might have a uti.
    My MIL is going insane. Seriously. She can be so sweet & nice & then turn around & say the meanest ugliest things. It's heart breaking because it's gotten to the point of not knowing what is real. Today has been a rough day. I hope I have the patience to continue with affirmations & being kind. It makes things worse to lash out. She's got lupus & a few other things going on but only chooses to take opi's & sleeping meds. So her mind is slowly deteriorating.
    Thanks for letting me vent! I needed it!!!'

    Wait...are you really not supposed to take hot baths when your pregnant? I had never heard this before. Can it hurt the baby? Or did I just misunderstand what was said?
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  • I wish someone had warned me about nosebleeds. It was a nice surprise when my nose started dripping blood at 6 am when I was trying to sleep
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  • The lavender shampoo and conditioner I bought from whole foods is ridiculous with my hair. I have the world's largest dread at the moment. And no hope of getting it out until I can get to the store for some seriously heavy duty conditioner. I have way too much hair and it's very fine. It'll take an hour+ even with the best conditioner to get this out. *sigh*
  • @DragonflyDreaming‌ Do you have coconut oil? If you heat it until it's melted then add some warm water, you should be able to spray that in and comb with a wide-tooth, starting at the bottom.

    I second this! I coconut oil weekly overnight as a deep conditioner and any time I've been to the beach/swimming which tangles my hair no matter what I try.
  • I love coconut oil after (and most of the time.just before) the ocean! Didn't think to use it now. But it doesn't actually seem to help my hair to detangle. Helps with rehydration quite a bit. But part of the problem is that combs just don't work. I have had to end up conditioning 2-3 times with the strongest conditioners I can find (like the deep conditioners that are weekly use.

    But I really appreciate the reminder about the coconut oil! This lavender shampoo seems to have mega dried my hair and that will really help. Might put it in tonight just to make it easier tomorrow. :)
  • I wish I married a more family-oriented man.  I know part of it is my fault, but my husband has no idea what it's like to be a parent.  He just goes and does whatever the Hell he wants all the time, and it's starting to piss me off.  Sunday, he left at 8am and went to a football game.  Came home around 6:30 and then a friend came over and they went out in the mancave for the rest of the night.  He's an officer, so he already works crazy hours/shift work, so he needs to learn how to make time for us.  Yesterday I got home, thought he was napping so he could go to work in the evening, so I get all the groceries in myself (per usual - with a 2.5 year old) just to find a little while later that he was in the mancave again relaxing watching the game.  And just now, I wrote to see what the weekend looks like, he says his buddy (that I can't stand b/c he's a cheater and a womanizer) may have an extra ticket to the Orioles game.  Ugh, Fed up!!

    Thanks for letting me vent. 

  • daizedoodaizedoo member
    edited September 2014
    Ok I have to complain about this. Tell me if I'm overreacting. I know I probably am.

    We have a very nosy neighbor across the street. She knows everything about everyone on the block. She needs to be shot in a rocket to the sun, and we try to avoid running into her at all cost. I see DH outside, stuck talking to her. Never mind that it's obvious we are doing massive cleaning/purging/nesting and don't really have time to chat. She doesn't care. Part of me wanted to turn around and go back into the house after I saw he was stuck, but I felt bad and decided to go rescue him. She says immediately, "I heard a rumor that you're expecting!" to which I immediately reply with "Who told you that?"

    She says, "Oh the woman who lives next door."

    The woman next door:

    1) Just happens to be the wife of DH's coworker
    2) Is also a busybody gossip (I was told to never tell her anything I didn't want everyone else knowing)
    3) Hates this neighbor.

    Both of them have bitched to me on numerous occasions about the other. So clearly, the pregnancy news has spread around DH's office, which is expected. What really irritated me was the fact that the wife has not even spoken to me yet about the news, but is fine to talk about me with the neighbor she hates? How does that conversation even happen? 

    Both my mom and DH told me I was overreacting. :-L

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  • daizedoo said:

    Ok I have to complain about this. Tell me if I'm overreacting. I know I probably am.

    We have a very nosy neighbor across the street. She knows everything about everyone on the block. She needs to be shot in a rocket to the sun, and we try to avoid running into her at all cost. I see DH outside, stuck talking to her. Never mind that it's obvious we are doing massive cleaning/purging/nesting and don't really have time to chat. She doesn't care. Part of me wanted to turn around and go back into the house after I saw he was stuck, but I felt bad and decided to go rescue him. She says immediately, "I heard a rumor that you're expecting!" to which I immediately reply with "Who told you that?"

    She says, "Oh the woman who lives next door."

    The woman next door:

    1) Just happens to be the wife of DH's coworker
    2) Is also a busybody gossip (I was told to never tell her anything I didn't want everyone else knowing)
    3) Hates this neighbor.

    Both of them have bitched to me on numerous occasions about the other. So clearly, the pregnancy news has spread around DH's office, which is expected. What really irritated me was the fact that the wife has not even spoken to me yet about the news, but is fine to talk about me with the neighbor she hates? How does that conversation even happen? 

    Both my mom and DH told me I was overreacting. :-L

    My husband told our neighbour, who told the guy I work with, who told everyone at work before I was ready to tell anyone at work. It was defiantly frustrating!
  • My best friend became my ex best friend when she crossed the line with my DH. What makes things worse is that we work together in a very small office. she figured out I was pregnant before we told anyone else and she just so happened to get pregnant right after she found out I was so now I feel like is a strange competition. (She's about 5 to 6 weeks behind me) On top of that she went to my father to have him fix her car while I was out of town AND I found out she was researching my baby doctor! Oh and her MIL (not really bc she's not married to the baby daddy) sought out my step mom at a bar trying to get info about what's been going on with us and when my step mom wouldn't tell her anything she proceeded to get wasted and bad mouth my family!
    I'm trying very hard not to hate her and every bad thought I've had about her being pregnant I've taken back out of fear of karma.
    Thank you, I needed to vent

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  • My best friend became my ex best friend when she crossed the line with my DH. What makes things worse is that we work together in a very small office. she figured out I was pregnant before we told anyone else and she just so happened to get pregnant right after she found out I was so now I feel like is a strange competition. (She's about 5 to 6 weeks behind me) On top of that she went to my father to have him fix her car while I was out of town AND I found out she was researching my baby doctor! Oh and her MIL (not really bc she's not married to the baby daddy) sought out my step mom at a bar trying to get info about what's been going on with us and when my step mom wouldn't tell her anything she proceeded to get wasted and bad mouth my family! I'm trying very hard not to hate her and every bad thought I've had about her being pregnant I've taken back out of fear of karma. Thank you, I needed to vent
    O.O sounds like a tv show lol
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  • bdazzld said:



    My best friend became my ex best friend when she crossed the line with my DH. What makes things worse is that we work together in a very small office. she figured out I was pregnant before we told anyone else and she just so happened to get pregnant right after she found out I was so now I feel like is a strange competition. (She's about 5 to 6 weeks behind me) On top of that she went to my father to have him fix her car while I was out of town AND I found out she was researching my baby doctor! Oh and her MIL (not really bc she's not married to the baby daddy) sought out my step mom at a bar trying to get info about what's been going on with us and when my step mom wouldn't tell her anything she proceeded to get wasted and bad mouth my family!
    I'm trying very hard not to hate her and every bad thought I've had about her being pregnant I've taken back out of fear of karma.
    Thank you, I needed to vent

    O.O sounds like a tv show lol


    I agree, it feels like a TV show. And I'm honestly one of those types that HATES drama...unless I'm watching it on tv lol.
    Needless to say I waited till after work yesterday and we had words. She was smart enough to keep her mouth shut for the most part. I honestly wish she'd just quit so I didn't have to see her stupid face anymore

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  • Ababy19Ababy19 member
    edited October 2014
    Just got new neighbors move in across the street.  Every time I open my garage to load up my dudes, they are standing outside and just stare at us.  I give a little wave and...... NOTHING.  I kinda feel like Tom Hanks in that movie "The Burbs" and my neighbors are the "creepy" ones.  

    edit.... to spell Movie correctly 
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  • MH went out with friends tonight and is such a jerk after a few beers. he's mad because I "didn't do anything" while he was gone. I got the kids from daycare, made dinner, cleaned up the kids, played with the kids and got them ready for bed. Sorry I didn't do the dishes jerk.
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