SO threatening divorce

miahbelle · September 2014

snegde said:
Honestly you need to find some strength. A backbone. Your identity. If my husband said I'm going to divorce you of you don't name out child this. I would say "there's the fucking door. I look forward to papers from your attorney." Not that I don't adore my husband it's just that threats aren't acceptable in our marriage.

Hope you find the strength to be the woman you need to be for yourself and your children.

I would die laughing in my husband's face. I wouldn't be able to take him seriously.

greneyedmom19 · September 2014

Seems like he is just trying to scare you. He can't take you to court of your child's name because you never had a written agreement about the name of your first born son and since he is the one that cheated how can he screw you over in court? Unless you have done some bad things in the past as well and there is proof the court would side with you because he cheated and broke the marriage contract. But good luck on your decision.

ally3242 · September 2014

Why are you still with this slapdick? Time to move on.

HZ2012 · September 2014

I think the issue goes deeper than a baby name - if he's willing to A) "sext" with other women and think it's ok bc it wasn't physical and

divorce you over a baby name, sounds like you and your kids would be MUCH better off without him.

I don't know you but I'm going to assume you definitely deserve much better than this.

chrissyR78 · September 2014

Tell that piece of shit to buy a dog and name that after his dad!

bananafanafofashley · September 2014

He sounds like a fucking baby. I'm sure there are plenty of lawyers out there who would love to screw him over in a divorce. I say go for it. What a prick. And yes, morally that is cheating so he can stfu about that too. Wow I'm taking this pretty personally lol. Probably because I am going through a divorce myself.

luckyclover0922 · September 2014

Run far far away... and hopefully you have a girl so she can't be named after his father!

Disneygeek77 · September 2014

I'm sorry but I highly doubt that nothing physical happened with the ok cupid account. Men don't go through the trouble of setting up an online dating account and chat with 8 woman ( that you know about ) and not act on it.

Again, call me cynical but I have a hard time believing nothing physical happened.

palm513 · September 2014

If you want to divorce him do it. If not try to get in counseling together.

But ultimately think of the baby, will the two of you be able to work things out well enough to give your child a happy, healthy, safe environment to grow up in? Would you have liked to have been raised in the environment that you are currently living with?

Also, if the divorce is finalized before the baby is here, and he is not there to hold up the application for the babies social security card (and you don't name the baby something like Vagina). No judge (that isn't being bribed) would take a submission to change the babies name seriously.

adrenalina19 · September 2014

bananafanafofashley said:
He sounds like a fucking baby. I'm sure there are plenty of lawyers out there who would love to screw him over in a divorce. I say go for it. What a prick. And yes, morally that is cheating so he can stfu about that too. Wow I'm taking this pretty personally lol. Probably because I am going through a divorce myself.

How are you handling the divorce with this pregnancy?