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southernbelle82
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I think I'm permanently out of the game.
southernbelle82
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So I think my time here is coming to an end. I'm 98% sure we will not be pursuing IVF. Our insurance doesn't cover IVF, so we'd be OOP and we just don't have that. With the blood clotting issue, and 3 previous c-sections, my OB is not thrilled with us pursuing IVF. It's just a lot to go through physically and financially with no guarantee. We're heavily considering foster to adopt. It's a mixture of emotions...grief for the end of biological children, fear for all the unknowns and things we'd have no control of, but also excitement to welcome a little one into our family. We've always talked about adopting someday...I think the time has come to pursue that.
Thank you all so much for your support and encouragement during my short time here. Please know each of you are in my prayers, that you would be blessed with a miracle...or miracleS very soon and be surrounded by support and encouragement during this difficult time!!!
DD 6/17/08, DD 6/9/10, DD 12/15/11
BFP 5/24/13 - Natural MC 6/7/13
BFP 8/13/13 - Natural MC 8/27/13
Ovarian Mass = removal of left ovary & tube 9/13
BFP 4/24/14 - Tubal Pregnancy 5/7/14
Removal of ruptured right tube 5/8/14
IVF or adoption??
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Re: I think I'm permanently out of the game.
Best of luck moving forward. IVF is not an option for us either. A good friend of mine just adopted an adorable baby- success stories are out there!
TTC #2 since 1/1/13
Rainbow Surprise Baby due 05/26/2017
BFP #7 (beyond surprised again!) 4/26/16. EDD 1/5/17. beautiful betas!!!! and then near-fatal hemorrhagic corpus luteum. turns out baby was ectopic after all; another lap 5/6 (@24dpo).
the universe can fuck off.
"You are overly paranoid and delusional that every one is out to get you." -lastsliverofhope
PCOS and MF
Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15
FET #1 Dec 2013 BFN
FET # 2 Feb 2014 BFN
No more frosties
IVF #2. September 2014
PGD yielded 2 perfect 5d blasts
SET November 9, 2014
Nov 23, 2014. Another BFN
Not sure where to go from here.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh