Sex!!! Yes I said it....

dmcox10 · September 2014

Or maybe I don't have those either!

I don't think it's pregnancy hormones...I just genuinely think a lot of women just like to to bitch...like you're the only one going through changes with your pregnancy. Everyone has their issues. I do sincerely apologize (*sarcastic font*) that I don't relate with you. Everyone can complain about something on this site, whether they're husband is deployed, and I'm sad because my DH would rather work on his car, or I'm tired but my DH wants to get laid....you won't please everybody! ....but hey, at least you knew what I was going to say next!

FitMom3510 · September 2014

We do it on occasion but my morning nausea has turned into night nausea so I'm just not really in the mood I guess.

dmcox10 · September 2014

@souptin @snegde @jackieanddan1989 @angi30 If I did offend you, or come off condescending & insulting, I do apologize. That was not at all my intentions. And maybe my wording WAS completely out of context, so I also apologize for that. I mean what I say though, even if it's not directed at you. But I do want to mention, emergency surgeries, and constant nausea would definitely take me out of the game, and my DH would totally understand, (just as he doesn't judge me when I pass out @ 8 pm) but just because I'm not suffering like everybody else, doesn't mean I don't have the right to comment. So, on that note, I am sorry to have pissed so many people off. It was mainly regarding to the "I'm too tired" and "I don't feel pretty" comments (maybe not even on this thread)...those were who I'm referring to, because we are all still wives to our husbands. I'll end it at that, I hope you ladies have a lovely day, and find some relief in all of your troubles soon.

dmcox10 · September 2014

@natcan2 I didn't say all women. I said "women"....referring to the ones who get offended. And you're right, I'm not as sensitive as most women I've come across. Those are my own issues from my past...I have a hard time feeling sorry for some people. But that is only because I live life saying "at least I'm not 'this" or 'that"". I live my life appreciative of what I have rather than bitching about what I don't. So as I stated in the above comment, if I offended you as well, I apologize. I'm just entitled to my opinion, and I believe women complain too much sometimes. Just me.

DixieNormous330 · September 2014

Alls.

NFT

SuperFudge00 · September 2014

We aren't exactly panting over here, but we're not starving either. DH keeps lobbying for lip service and thinks he can overcome the sight of me hurling during fellation.

dmcox10 · September 2014

angi3o said:

Or maybe I don't have those either! I don't think it's pregnancy hormones...I just genuinely think a lot of women just like to to bitch...like you're the only one going through changes with your pregnancy. Everyone has their issues. I do sincerely apologize (*sarcastic font*) that I don't relate with you. Everyone can complain about something on this site, whether they're husband is deployed, and I'm sad because my DH would rather work on his car, or I'm tired but my DH wants to get laid....you won't please everybody! ....but hey, at least you knew what I was going to say next!
Actually considering I'm 12 weeks, I'm blessed enough to be past most of the awful symptoms (at least for now); so I'm not bitching at all. So once again, you're just flat out wrong. Alls I was saying is that you're not any better than anyone here just because you put out more. Your ignorance is shinning bright like a diamond!

I never claimed to be better than anyone...just sayin'

DixieNormous330 · September 2014

Keep digging the hole. You're not going to win any points.

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Shit just got real!!!! *Please continue... As I countinue eating my popcorn!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Also I can't spell today. Yay!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Yes I'm totally trying to stir the shit pot! Relax lady... I just think it's very amusing how people just get all worked up and then of course someone has to make a smart ass comment like yourself. It's not highschool. People have their own opinions. End rant and drama session!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Oh and on another side note... I have loved a ton of these on here an also other threads. Please judge me now!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Thanks!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

All I'm saying... If people want to say something... Let them. Everyone views things different. Some of you "ladies" need to pull your panties out of your ass and wake up! Who gives a rats ass if I love it or not.

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Same reason why were all here... Having a baby! Duh!

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Well you asked me why I'm here and I told you. I'm saying duh because you seem like an idiot. I'm not blocking you.

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littlesushibaby · September 2014

I wasn't talking to you? Gez.

littlesushibaby · September 2014

Apparently that just happened and nobody was talking to "her".

littlesushibaby · September 2014

I feel really bad for some you "future moms". Mean girls at its best. Leaving this group.

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redneckmomma25 · September 2014

What happened here? I can't even keep up!

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redneckmomma25 · September 2014

I don't have time for this today. May need to catch up tonight.

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miahbelle · September 2014

I want to reply in the meanest way possible to the person who thinks I some way owe my husband sex, but I'm actually in a fairly good mood, so I'm gonna keep reading these hilarious responses, skip my nap because I'm entertained and eat tons of ruffles with French onion dip so that I'll be tired and not pretty tonight when my poor deprived husband asks for sex... Because we all know we are feeling like this on purpose for the sake of being bad wives!

redneckmomma25 · September 2014

I really didn't read through all the responses. I have zero sex drive. Pregnant. Not Pregnant. Doesn't matter. I think a lot of it is weight and mental. DH does not force me to have sex with him but I do force myself. I never regret it and I always enjoy it even though I don't orgasm. But I have to push myself to do it. So I'm not really sure if that's what she is talking about. I also do it because I know he has a very high sex drive but it also helps us connect. I always feel off when it's been a while since we've had sex. Not like a strain in our relationship but just something is off. So I am no way being forced by my husband but I do have to force myself and I do it for multiple reasons. I also feel guilt because I feel like my drive kind of tanked after getting married and I think it was a few different things like weight increase but I feel like DH didn't get what was advertised since my drive was higher before the wedding.

Sorry if I am beating a dead horse here or just completely off subject.

tdmloverrn · September 2014

souptin said:

I'm obsessed. This is great!

picklesx · September 2014

dmcox10 said:
Oh my gosh I feel so sorry for some of your DH's! I'm not in the mood but he's still my husband, so whenever he's feeling frisky, it's definitely on like donkey kong! I may not be in the mood, but it is definitely pleasure! I hope some of you remember that your husband came first....it's not fair to just push him off to the side just because you're now becoming a mom

I'm glad that you view it as your wifely duty to put out just because your husband wants to get laid regardless of whether you are feeling up to it or not. Because that's not demeaning to women at all that their sole purpose is to satisfy their man's sexual desire whenever he demands it.

dmcox10 · September 2014

@picklesx no no see that's where you and everyone get it wrong. I don't see it as a wifely duty to have sex with my husband when demanded. If it's been a few days and he's feeling frisky, I go with the flow. I always enjoy it in the end anyways. And if I say no way, that's the end of it. But due to my low sex drive and his high sexy drive, he'd never get laid and that's not fair to him. Or if we both had to be totally in the mood, lord it'd probably never happen. Someone said it perfectly earlier, I'm just clearly not good at putting it into words.

dmcox10 · September 2014

@mbm1983‌ my husband does have two hands, I'd just rather be the one pleasing him than pleasing himself. Maybe I'm just not like other women. And just like someone else posted, sex was much more frequent before I went on birth control 7 years ago and then it just dropped and hasn't gone back to normal. So because it's been a few days and he's horny, I don't know I'd rather be the one pleasing. Men want to feel wanted too. Like I said, maybe I'm in the wrong and shouldn't be commenting

picklesx · September 2014

dmcox10 said:
@picklesx no no see that's where you and everyone get it wrong. I don't see it as a wifely duty to have sex with my husband when demanded. If it's been a few days and he's feeling frisky, I go with the flow. I always enjoy it in the end anyways. And if I say no way, that's the end of it. But due to my low sex drive and his high sexy drive, he'd never get laid and that's not fair to him. Or if we both had to be totally in the mood, lord it'd probably never happen. Someone said it perfectly earlier, I'm just clearly not good at putting it into words.

"Oh my gosh I feel so sorry for some of your DH's! I'm not in the mood but he's still my husband, so whenever he's feeling frisky, it's definitely on like donkey kong! I may not be in the mood, but it is definitely pleasure! I hope some of you remember that your husband came first....it's not fair to just push him off to the side just because you're now becoming a mom"

...yeahhh...pretty sure I didn't "get it wrong" based off of your comment above, which is the one that rubbed everyone the wrong way (and your follow up comments that you intentionally continued to stir the pot by posting).

Also, your leg muscles must be burning from all the back pedaling you've done in one single thread.

dmcox10 · September 2014

snegde said:

dmcox10 said:
@mbm1983‌ my husband does have two hands, I'd just rather be the one pleasing him than pleasing himself. Maybe I'm just not like other women. And just like someone else posted, sex was much more frequent before I went on birth control 7 years ago and then it just dropped and hasn't gone back to normal. So because it's been a few days and he's horny, I don't know I'd rather be the one pleasing. Men want to feel wanted too. Like I said, maybe I'm in the wrong and shouldn't be commenting
There is nothing wrong what you do. The problem is you said that there was something wrong with everyone else and that our relationships were suffering because we weren't exactly like you. Do you not see how saying "I feel sorry for your husbands" is incredibly hurtful? Or you just don't care?

I complete agree with you. And I never meant in any way for my words to be offensive or put myself on a higher pedestal, say my marriage was better than anyone's, etc, etc. I totally get it! And I sincerely apologize like I said earlier. My problem is I don't have a filter and think before I speak and the context comes out as bitchy. My marriage is certainly not better than anyone else's. And the "I feel sorry for your husbands..." Is what I'm most sorry about. Maybe it's easier for me to "not understand" because I'm not miserable in the 1st trimester like some, or whatever the situation may be. I do care, and apologize for coming off as a mega bitch and will certainly use my words more wisely from now on

dmcox10 · September 2014

mbm1983 said:
i guarantee you he's likely still masturbating whether you please him or not.

just saying.

lol probably! But if I don't know about it, then I think I'm giving him the attention he needs, if that makes sense.

dmcox10 · September 2014

mbm1983 said:
i just truly don't believe in doing anything you are not comfortable in doing. maybe my husband is more understanding than most? i would hope not. i don't think any woman should feel pressured to have sex. Plus, it is MUCH more enjoyable for both parties, if they both want to do it.

that's the last i'm gonna say on the subject. because i am very much done with sex right now. having it and talking about it.

What if it's not the fact that I'm not in the mood...but I sometimes see it as a chore when my body is itching for it?! I can't help but giggle thinking people let I just let my husband rip my clothes off and rape me, because if we say no and mean no, it's definitely no. Is THAT weird?! I want to, but the foreplay, cleaning up afterwards, pulling the sheets back on the bed. I'm definitely not in the sex mood after today!

Texasmomma13 · September 2014

Just stop. Please just stop!

dmcox10 · September 2014

Texasmomma13 said:
Just stop. Please just stop!

What's your deal? It's calmed down and now it's getting stirred again

BabiesEverywhere · September 2014

@dmcox10‌ - I get what you're saying. I do. I agree that a similar mindset works well in DH's and my marriage, too. But like @snegde‌ said, your out-of-line original post and rude comments are what has hurt you most here. You apologized, but at this point you aren't going to redeem yourself in this thread. I think it would be best for you to just leave this thread be now.

ETA - must have been typing at the same time as @AnnaTTCat32‌...but I was trying to get the same point across. Great minds think alike, Anna.

Cali2090 · September 2014

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