Pregnant and NO KISSES anymore! WHAT ABOUT YOU? What have changed between you and your hubby?

gmari11 · September 2014

I used to be a very active person before pregnancy

gmari11 · September 2014

The bump, erased my description ... Long story short, I can't French kiss, just make me sick, only started after my pregnancy.

erobbins09 · September 2014

See I'm the other way... We are always very lovie but I want it more... Today as my guy left for work he just leaned down and kissed me and I almost attacked him because I needed the full kiss, wrapped up in his arms thing.

I only get a sicky feeling still from brushing my teeth

I've considered switching to bubble gum Dora the Explorer toothpaste to see if that helps.

PeaceofKia · September 2014

Not much, only that we're down to DTD once a week because it's just becoming uncomfortable for me. My pinched nerve still only aggravates me when I'm in the bed and other positions leave me way too winded...there are no quickies in my house so it gets to be quite exhausting for me.

Other than that, we're still the same ol' us...love the honeymoon phase!

lilybug319 · September 2014

We're still pretty much the same I think. He just can't touch my boobs as often as he'd like to. My last pregnancy they didn't really get sore after the first few weeks but this pregnancy they're like constantly sore and painful. Mostly the areola. Sorry if that's tmi.

jennjilljo · September 2014

A lot less sex and fondling plus he's had to step it up on the chores since I'm tired even when I get a good night's rest.

Cohensmommy16 · September 2014

Sadly, it's the same with my and my husband =( @gmari11‌

kerrigrooves · September 2014

DTD twice last week in the am and it was awesome, the bIg O is huge for me when im preggs...this week just too tired & DH is staying up late to do work, so nothing yet but Im hoping to get some this weekend

srcr2011 · September 2014

We did it twice this week...2 times in a row. I was hesistant because it's so uncomfortable, but once we started, I am sooo happy we did! ;;)

I can't stand his cologne! He either is immune to the potency of it or it's just me. It's bad though. He puts it on in the bathroom and I immediately have to turn the fart fan on. It give me a headache. He's like a 90 year old woman with perfume.

jennypolkadots · September 2014

The only thing is now I am starting to get a bump and I don't feel sexy. I've always really loved my body but now it is changing and I feel so weird if his hand goes over my bump or the baby kicks when we are being intimate. And I don't like having our stomachs next to each other because I'm used to it being so flat but now it feels like I'm squishing the baby lol I'm a weirdo. He thinks I look amazing though and said the other day "do you honestly think I am looking at your stomach when your breasts are this huge?!"

How often we have sex hasn't changed though. We've always done it about every other day for the past 7 years, and it is still as awesome as ever.

NCCountryGirl · September 2014

We have definitely cut back on the number of times we have sex each week. Before you would think we were part rabbit

But now, I just can't get in the mood because it is so uncomfortable. No problems with his enthusiasm though. Here's to hoping my drive comes back soon!

AshleySparkle720 · September 2014

The biggest thing for me is that I can't wear half of my lingerie anymore because it's too small. Before being pregnant I'd put something cute on under my clothes and I'd be raring to go by the time I'd be off work. Now that nothing fits I feel like it takes a LOT more to get me in the mood. Sex feels a lot better second trimester though. Thank God. My poor DH was so patient with me the whole first trimester.

krysmill · September 2014

My hubby and I are the same in all aspects except for the sex! I was put on permanent pelvic rest for the rest of my pregnancy. I feel so bad for my DH.

lizzybean · September 2014

We haven't been having sex as often as either of us would like either. I was out of town for 6 weeks of the first tri, crazy exhausted and sick, and now his work and school are going into overdrive. I can't for a bit of normalcy after our upcoming trip is done! And Im definitely making a mental note to make sexy time more of a priority in the evenings once DD is in bed.

shurlired · September 2014

A major difference is I'm only comfortable enough in the morning to do it. Also, I have to take a pee break during. DH gets a kick out of my impaired agility. Yesterday we laid in bed afterwards and just felt our boys kick...so intimate

Alygohome · September 2014

My husband has been gone since week 8 so nothing really changed. He will be back in two weeks so we will see!

Dani_Love · September 2014

I think we've DTD twice since BFP. I feel bad for H but I just can't. One of the times we did, I lost my O because he was holding me up weird thinking I was squishing the baby ><

Mommalawyer · September 2014

Pretty much everything has changed. We have zero intimacy now. He has stopped making me feel special and the majority of the promises that he has made have had zero follow through. He's not helping around the house or anything anymore. I'd say its been over 2 months since we even kissed. We don't even sleep in the same room. So, its changed a lot.

srcr2011 · September 2014

All this take about sex makes me want to go home and get some more...until the time actually comes, then I'm like "nah, I have a headache".

mommaa1615 · September 2014

Dont kiss me. Dont touch me...woops! Hopefully that passes soon poor dh

lizzybean · September 2014

srcr2011 said:

All this take about sex makes me want to go home and get some more...until the time actually comes, then I'm like "nah, I have a headache".

I am the exact same way. I suck at the sex. I am always exhausted by the time we even have a chance to look at each other.

SBmomma · September 2014

We DTD maybe once a week. I have no desire. Hubby and I aren't getting along so great either so it's all pretty much different in a bad way.

gmari11 · September 2014

Omg

the thing is that I can see his frustration on his face. Sometimes he wants to be understanding, and sometimes he has the look like, "come on! Can you at least try?" And my face is like NO FRENCH KISSES.

aldean01 · September 2014

I'm always too tired and uncomfortable but like once a week my husband will just push until he gets it and I mean verbally and physically he pretty much begs but once he slips a finger it's over we do it and it relights my desire- I am so lucky to have someone who knows me better than I know myself

thinking this way of getting to it might work for some of you too!

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