Sex!!! Yes I said it....

Re: Sex!!! Yes I said it....

• littlesushibaby member

  September 2014

  Haha obviously not... Just thought I would have some fun....

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• Texasmomma13 member

  September 2014

  Amazing as in "isn't it amazing that I can hurl right in the middle of sexy time"? Then Yes it's truly amazing.

    
  

  

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• cwiceangel member

  September 2014

  Omg we tried last night but man it hurt so that went out the window.

  

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• OliveMom3 member

  September 2014

  Last week I would have totally agreed. This week? Notsomuch.

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• 70point3 member

  September 2014

  @snegde‌ - Isn't sex how a lot of us got here to begin with? I know some had the whole 4-some with the doc and nurse and such too.....

  
  

  
  

  

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• jackieanddan1989 member

  September 2014

  Yup- just got over the worst of first tri symptoms and finally in the mood, but alas, I am on pelvic rest till Saturday grrrrrrrr

  
  

  Me-24~~ DH-25~~Married 6/15/2013~~Pregnant with our first due April 2, 2015~ Septate/ Bicornuate/Arcuate /some kind of not-normal uterus- won't know for sure which one till after babe is born~~Hoping for a full term baby!
  

  
  

  
  

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• picklesx member

  September 2014

  I hate sex 24/7, 365 so I can't really get all excited about this thread, sorry.

  
  
  Corbin | born 4.19.12
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• taahira member

  September 2014

  We are out till after the 1st tri. My DH has been great, but I'm sure counting down the days.

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• starshollow member

  September 2014

  If I am in bed, nothing sounds more tempting than sleep right now.

  
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• Duffgurl member

  September 2014

  

  

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• RobynB13 member

  September 2014

  Mehhhhh... It's better, but I'm just too exhausted lately for all that effort...

  

  

  
  
  

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• lindsayanne14 member

  September 2014

  No sex here, none. I think the last sex was conception. I'm ok with the state of the bedroom affairs, things may pick up a bit in the 2nd tri.

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• littlesushibaby member

  September 2014

  Haha no old perv here!

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• fartsandcrafts member

  September 2014

  Feeling snuggly, but def not sexy. Just so focused on growing a baby near that region that it's not appealing to me right now. Maybe when I'm feeling less cautious - does that even happen?

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• littlesushibaby member

  September 2014

  Hahaha! I'm dying right now! #oldpervproblems #pregnantoldperv

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• JLaudio member

  September 2014

  Midday when hubs is at work, "I'm gonna jump your bones when you get home, can't wait"..... When he gets home "I'm bloated, tired, the kids are driving me nutts and holy moly my friggin back hurts"

  

  
  

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• caridura84 member

  September 2014

  Yup! Last nite sex was AMAZING! For some reason through all this sickness, sex drive is still high. Sometimes I forget I'm pg! And then i say be carefulllllllll.

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• MPKbaby237 member

  September 2014

  Waiting until 2nd tri due to cramping/ bleeding that I've had earlier on.
  But the vivid sex dreams are getting me excited for our upcoming "reunion."

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• MrsRem217 member

  September 2014

  I am having a lot of sex in my dreams that counts right? We still have sex at least once a week. It will get better in the 2nd tri a least it did when I was pregnant with DS.
  

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• 70point3 member

  September 2014

  angi3o said:

  70point3 said:

  @snegde‌ - Isn't sex how a lot of us got here to begin with? I know some had the whole 4-some with the doc and nurse and such too.....

  Babies come from having sex?!?!?! Omg, it all makes sense now.....

  I know, right?!?!? My parents and gramma seem to have this funny Catholic illusion that babies come from marriage. Jokes on you guys!!!

  
  

  
  

  

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• tdmloverrn member

  September 2014

  I've been banned by my ob because of light brown spotting and mild cramping.. But it was good before that!

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• Cali2090 member

  September 2014

  I'm thinking we are definitely the minority here but I agree! Sex has been even better than usual! Heightened nerves or something ;;)

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• erikaluna01 member

  September 2014

  Business as usual and some sexy dreams too. I love this part of pregnancy. Most other things, not so much.

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• Bsitt16 member

  September 2014

  If kissing , then feeling nauseas, then snuggling till I feel better, which just leads to sleeping... Is considered sex then yup, doing it everyday just kidding but I feel bad on some level then my hormones kick in and I'm like "dude I'm creating life here, just bear with me" and he goes "ok. I Love you" he's understanding and supportive but he's also still a guy so he's gonna try

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• Jules3600 member

  September 2014

  I wish I wanted sex all the time. The idea of bouncing around makes me want to vomit. Hopefully in the second trimester I will be more enthused lol I feel sorry for my husband!!luckily,he has been supportive.

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• jk3610 member

  September 2014

  I had a pretty low drive to begin with due to my mood disorder. I've actually noticed a super slight increase in drive but kind of freaked because i hate the post-o cramping. (I think a pp brought that up already) i waiting til second tri when i'm more used to this whole pregnancy thing and i'm not as freaked out by a tiny cramp. Luckily dh has been amazing and so understanding :-)

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• DixieNormous330 member

  September 2014

  Sex has been really good - and it tends tohelp my nausea go away. Masturbation has been off the charts too. Generally speaking, orgasming now is easy, fast, and INTENSE
  

  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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• scarneae member

  September 2014

  I've learned mornings work best for me. As I get my nausea and exhausted later in the day. So sex at night almost never happens currently. I can only lay in bed for 15 minutes before I pass out.

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• BrittianyM member

  September 2014

  We also have not had sex since conception. I am on pelvic rest b/c of the subchronic bleed that I currently have. We are ok with this right now.

  Brooke Elizabeth born Feb 17, 2013 grew wings May 9, 2013 @ 11 weeks & 4 days old from SIDS

   

   

  

   

  

   

  

   

   

  

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• Xtinasanderson member

  September 2014

  Poor husband has only gotten lucky 1 time since conception.. Been too sick and exhausted to function let alone have sex BUT that one time was pretty fantastic!

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• sara&jason2012 member

  September 2014

  It has been amazing the last few weeks! I agree that I don't want to go back I pre-pregnancy sex!

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• dmcox10 member

  September 2014

  Oh my gosh I feel so sorry for some of your DH's! I'm not in the mood but he's still my husband, so whenever he's feeling frisky, it's definitely on like donkey kong! I may not be in the mood, but it is definitely pleasure! I hope some of you remember that your husband came first....it's not fair to just push him off to the side just because you're now becoming a mom

  

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• marigold32 member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  Aaaand this thread just became worth the read. I'll just check back in a few minutes \:D/

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• jk3610 member

  September 2014

  
  

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• marigold32 member

  September 2014

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• jackieanddan1989 member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  @dmcox10 nobody is suggesting that we completely ignore/stop loving our husbands because we're pregnant. I agree with @souptin, if you haven't had any pregnancy symptoms, especially the nausea and vomiting, you can't really talk.

  I am all for doing your best to keep the relationship alive during pregnancy/parenthood, but vomiting does kill the mood for most. Also, considering some of the women in here are abstaining because they have been put on pelvic rest due to high risk and/or a previous loss, it's pretty shitty for you to try and guilt people and insinuate that this means they are not taking care of their husbands as well as you are.

  Me-24~~ DH-25~~Married 6/15/2013~~Pregnant with our first due April 2, 2015~ Septate/ Bicornuate/Arcuate /some kind of not-normal uterus- won't know for sure which one till after babe is born~~Hoping for a full term baby!
  

  
  

  
  

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• dmcox10 member

  September 2014

  Oh yea, I'm the total bitch. I've also said in previous statements that I count my blessings to not have so many symptoms. I do feel for the women that are constantly in the bathroom. So before you go saying, i'm totally fucking clueless...negative. I'm blessed. If you've had previous problems, or are puking all over your DH, I'd hope they'd understand. I'm referring to the women who just don't "feel sexy" so don't do it. I'm bloated and hate it, but feel much better when my DH compliments me. So get your damn panties out of a bunch. If you and your DH are just fine with the way your sex life is...then you shouldn't get offended. Keep scrolling hunny. And no, sex isn't everything...you're talking to a woman with next to no sex drive...but oh yea, I'm the stupid one! Good lord, women and their sensitivies. 

  

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• jk3610 member

  September 2014

  My sensitivies have been tingling lately...

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• dmcox10 member

  September 2014

  jackieanddan1989 said:

  @dmcox10 nobody is suggesting that we completely ignore/stop loving our husbands because we're pregnant. I agree with @souptin, if you haven't had any pregnancy symptoms, especially the nausea and vomiting, you can't really talk.

  I am all for doing your best to keep the relationship alive during pregnancy/parenthood, but vomiting does kill the mood for most. Also, considering some of the women in here are abstaining because they have been put on pelvic rest due to high risk and/or a previous loss, it's pretty shitty for you to try and guilt people and insinuate that this means they are not taking care of their husbands as well as you are.

  
  

  Please read what I just posted. Of course women should follow doctors orders being put on pelvic rest...and my DH wouldn't want sex either if I had to stop to vomit. I'm not referring to the women who have direct orders, or constant trips to the toilet. I actually sympathize for you women, but since I'm now the "evil one", what do I know. 

  

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• jackieanddan1989 member

  September 2014

  @dmcox10 Regardless of what you may have meant, what you said was that you feel sorry for our husbands because apparently we don't put out enough. No matter how you slice it, that is incredibly condescending and insulting. When people are insulted and patronized, they will respond accordingly. If that surprises you, then yes, you are clueless.

  Even if you take pelvic rest and vomiting out of the picture, it's still incredibly presumptuous for you to pass judgments on somebody else's sex life. Don't try to play the victim or act shocked that people took it for what it was- an insult. Own up to your words.

  Me-24~~ DH-25~~Married 6/15/2013~~Pregnant with our first due April 2, 2015~ Septate/ Bicornuate/Arcuate /some kind of not-normal uterus- won't know for sure which one till after babe is born~~Hoping for a full term baby!
  

  
  

  
  

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