Monday Throat Punch

blackbird818 · September 2014

Daily vents, frustrations, shitty shit, etc. go here.

blackbird818 · September 2014

@sarcaztic10 big ((((HUGS))) love. Take it easy today!

Km380 · September 2014

@petitchou1019‌ (((hugs))) she deserves a huge TP and needs to learn what ass hat things are inappropriate to say

@sarcaztic10‌ big (((hugs))) sorry for the bfn. I hope you get better quickly, take it easy

smagglebit · September 2014

@petitchou1019 ((HUGS)) Sorry you have to deal with her.

@sarcaztic10 ugh - what an awful start to the week. Hope you feel better soon.

MrsPhD83 · September 2014

@sarcaztic10‌, big ((hugs)). I hope you feel better soon!

@petitchou1019‌, TP to your coworker! So insensitive of her.

Mine isn't so much of a TP, but more of a vent. After vacation last weekend, MH was all "yeah let me know when we need to BD! I'm on call everyday." Well, it seems the stress of being back to the grind is wearing on him. Getting him to stick to any kind of an HIO schedule the last few days has been like pulling teeth. I got a + opk this morning and slipped on something fun after I showered. Well, he wasn't in the mood again. Seriously? Do you think I particularly want to be wearing lingerie at 8 am? Wtf?! He apologized and was all "I'm sorry I'm stressed,it's not you, can we try again later?" Ugh. I feel bad for being frustrated because I think he is under a lot of pressure. And I'm trying to make this cycle fun, but we do still have to be mindful of timing. And now I feel like we are already off to poor timing for this cycle and I'm not even in the tww yet! And it's Monday. Blerg.

ETA spacing

rslh10 · September 2014

sarcaztic10 said:

TP to my last cycle and the start of this one. My chart looked perfect, and for a second there it was looking triphasic and gave me false hope. Last night was CD 1 which , of course, happened right after I took another HPT. This morning I woke up with pink eye and a BBT temp of 103.45. WTF, so I have a fever and I am sick... I guess I now know why my temps were rising after that dip.

ETA: Just a note. I know all too well that a pretty chart means nothing. I am the queen of pretty charts and so far none of them have panned out...

Damn it! I am so sorry love!!!

rslh10 · September 2014

MrsPhD83 said:

*snip*

Mine isn't so much of a TP, but more of a vent. After vacation last weekend, MH was all "yeah let me know when we need to BD! I'm on call everyday." Well, it seems the stress of being back to the grind is wearing on him. Getting him to stick to any kind of an HIO schedule the last few days has been like pulling teeth. I got a + opk this morning and slipped on something fun after I showered. Well, he wasn't in the mood again. Seriously? Do you think I particularly want to be wearing lingerie at 8 am? Wtf?! He apologized and was all "I'm sorry I'm stressed,it's not you, can we try again later?" Ugh. I feel bad for being frustrated because I think he is under a lot of pressure. And I'm trying to make this cycle fun, but we do still have to be mindful of timing. And now I feel like we are already off to poor timing for this cycle and I'm not even in the tww yet! And it's Monday. Blerg.

ETA spacing

I'm so sorry your H is feeling the pressure! I would have been pissed too if I put on something sexy and he said no. It takes courage to put on lingerie and I applaud you for that! Get him tonight

rslh10 · September 2014

TP to my BIL's fiancé. (they are 31 &24 btw) Their relationship is TOXIC, weird, and just shouldn't be. They never talk to each other, so neither one of them knows what the other one is doing. It's just chaos all the time. So anyway, my MIL and GMIL (grand mother in law) fronted $140K for them to buy a house (they want everything to think that they're such cute little family and have all their shit together) and this was last November. They were supposed to have a mortgage on the house by May and they STILL. DONT.

Well you better believe that the fiancé showed me that they upgraded her engagement ring! (Doesn't matter that she's sleeping around on him?....) She has the EXACT same ring as me (she told me she wanted it, so they looked for one identical...) So now she has my EXACT ring, a $1300 center stone, and no mortgage. MAN. IT MUST BE NICE! She just got a brand new car. They replaced tons of stuff in the house, and still no one is paying back my MIL? Fuck.

Just TP to her for being a shitty person in general. Yes, I left out a lot of information about them in general, so don't judge me for calling her a shitty person--it's my opinion.

Oh andplusalso this isn't jealousy, it's irresponsibility on their part that just keeps being rewarded. My DH and I busted our asses to get where we are now, and they just get it all handed to them? Nope. Not happy about that!

and a second TP to rude people. Just all rude people in general. It is NOT hard to be nice. You would want someone to be nice to you, so give it a try once in a while.

Menrandes · September 2014

TP to the whole damn day. Starting with walking around with my shirt inside out all morning, to all the triggers today and last night, to coming to my mil's to work on her stupid kitchen and finding an infestation of wasps in the walls. The walls we will be tearing down today...
"Oh, be careful but I don't know what to tell you " she says. Umm... Nest in the walls! Get an exterminator because I'm not tearing the walls down until its safe.

CreechMommy · September 2014

@petitchou1019 ((Hugs)) That was insensitive of her to say. I'm in a similar boat - lots of ladies I know are starting to plan their showers, and it's a constant reminder that I didn't stay pg.

@sarcaztic10 ((Hugs)) to you too. Hope you feel better!

@MrsPhD83 That's crappy. Sorry

You know what helps with stress levels....HIO! Tell him you'll make him stress free.

@ashtog - send some of that down to Louisiana. Seems like our summers get longer and longer each year. It's 92 degrees here now and it's only 10:30

@rslh10 Wow - that's just...wow. With people like that, I just sit back and watch for it all to come crashing down around them. They can't sustain that way of life for too long.

MrsG80inTN · September 2014

TP to myself and to CD1... I forgot to buy midol and I'm regretting it... I really should just stock up on it and buy a yearly supply... I am sitting at my desk in total pain and shivers. BOOOOO!

tigerlynx31413 · September 2014

So many hugs to you ladies today! Especially those on CD1 or CD2 today!

MrsPhD83 · September 2014

thanks for the support, ladies!! and for saying:

i was feeling very defeated this morning and i needed to hear this

@rslh10, I'm sorry you have to deal with those ass hats. Big TPs all around!

@ashtog, damn that's cold!!! way too early for that!

@menrandes, hugs ((hugs))

ETA: @MrsG80inTN, sorry for CD1

can you run out around lunch time and get some midol?

Km380 · September 2014

@rslh10 What. The. Fuck. Must be so nice for them to have all that hard earned financial freedom (sarcasm) :-w Fuckers.

@MrsG80inTN‌ big squishy (((hugs)))so sorry dear

Tp to my damn computer!! Every-time I try to send an email it freezes. Same for opening attachments. I have so much to do I don't have time for it to freeze for a minute every time! Argh!!

If I could I'd insert Office Space when they beat the printer in the field!

MrsPhD83 · September 2014

@ashtog, omg, honey. huge HUGE ((hugs)). i'm sorry about everything that happened to you today. my heart hurts for you. more hugs:

smagglebit · September 2014

@ashtog Oh my goodness. I'm so sorry that happened to you! She definitely deserves the biggest TP ever! I'm gonna grab one of those cupcakes and join you in the fort.

blackbird818 · September 2014

@ashtog I am so so sorry lady. ((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) I wish I was closer so I could give you a IRL hug and share some red velvet cake...

rslh10 · September 2014

@km380....

LOVE. THIS.

Km380 · September 2014

@ashtog‌ huge huge (((hugs))) I'm so sorry that happened.

Km380 · September 2014

@rslh10 and @ashtog yes!!! That is how I feel!! Thanks ladies

CreechMommy · September 2014

@ashtog so sorry lady. Huge ((((HUGS)))) to you. Sorry you're having a rough day - do something nice for yourself today.

MrsG80inTN · September 2014

@ashtog - Sending you tons of hugs. Some people just don't freaking think!!!!

@sarcaztic10 - If I had to get AF, at least I get to be cycle buddies with you!

tigerlynx31413 · September 2014

@ashtog I so want to do this to that lady for you! So many hugs my dear!

ETA gif fail.

ctk181 · September 2014

@petitchou1019 - I'm sorry your co-worker is so insensitive and rude. Those comments are just uncalled for! Huge TP to her!

@sarcaztic10 - Sorry that AF showed up and that you are sick. What an awful combo!

@MrsPhD83 - That is frustrating! Hopefully he'll be ready to go tonight!

@ashtog - it is definitely WAY too early for that kind of shit! I'm not ready to let go of summer!

@rslh10 - TP to them for sure! I hate when someone takes advantage of another person's kindness and generosity. Sounds like they have no shame about it either.

@Menrandes - OMG, I would not go anywhere NEAR that wall!!

@MrsG80inTN - I'm sorry. CD1 is rough. Hope it gets better for you.

Elliecat17 · September 2014

@astog: Oh I'm so sorry! I hate small towns for just that reason. When I am off of work I will come join you in your blanket fort. Big Huge ((HUGS)).

Menrandes · September 2014

@ashtog I am so sorry! Some people don't know when to be quiet and when to mind their own business. *hugs*

yellowcat10 · September 2014

@shtog WHAT THE FUCK, that woman has zero awareness.

Menrandes · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph take that to police. Seriously. That is uncalled for and illegal. You didn't get that in the mail and there was no stamp on it right? That's a felony.

Km380 · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph‌ what the fuck is wrong with this woman!?!? What a fucking bitch writing that. Bc that right there is a prime example of why you did not let her use your driveway. It would be a real shame if that somehow got copied and distributed to your neighbors! Fucking bitch. Jeez I am shaking in rage for you.
So many (((hugs))). How goes the house hunt? Is there a count down to move day?

MrsPhD83 · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph, WTAF!!!!! I am sitting here at my desk, slack jawed, because I CANNOT believe someone would actually say that to another human being. What a horrible, horrible person to be so hurtful. I'm so sorry you live next door to satan. When are you moving? Any day now, I hope. huge ((hugs))

ETA tag fail

smagglebit · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph That made me so mad! And I agree with @Menrandes - I'd take it to the police, and report the damage to the lawn as well. Maybe nothing will come of the lawn, but I'm sure there's something they can do about the note. Why do they think they have any right to use your driveway anyway?

MrsG80inTN · September 2014

@euridycenymph - Holy crap... holy crap... What in the world. I can't even imagine writing something like that to anyone.

Menrandes · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph Then yeah, that's illegal. The outside of the mailbox is yours, but the inside legally belongs to the post office. If someone other than the residents or the mail person go into the mailbox for any reason, that's considered a federal offense. It also is a violation of privacy laws.

*I'm not in law, but I've had a situation happen to me that required learning this.

Km380 · September 2014

@HoldingOutHope‌ the whole process sucks!! I hope the sellers fix the problems!

@EurydiceNymph‌ let us know when the countdown begins

blackbird818 · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph Seriously there is a special place in hell for scumbags like your neighbor. :-w I cannot fathom someone actually putting that in writing and giving it to someone. I agree with PP about contacting the police bc that is not right. That's abusive, intrusive, and harassing. Plus the damages [-X

Neighbor-bitch deserves a lesson.

I'm so sorry lovie!! I'm so ready for you to move so you don't ever have to deal with those piece of crap neighbors from hell again.

CreechMommy · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph What. The. Actual. Fuck. That is absolutely disgusting. I can't believe there are people that horrible in this world. Please know that none of the things she said are true. It's hurtful that she said it, but it is absolutely untrue. We all love you and think you're pretty awesome.

This goes out to your neighbor:

And this one is for you:

@HoldingOutHope - ((Hugs)) to you during this whole process! It's so frustrating!! When we were buying our house they were asking us to provide info for a credit card that had been closed 8 years prior to us buying our house (along with a bajillion other documents) Hang in there (and stock up on wine) It's worth it in the end!!

MrsKush1014 · September 2014

So many {{hugs}} ladies!

@EurydiceNymph WTF is wrong with that woman, I'm so sorry that you are dealing with such a shitty neighbor. FX you get the condo so you can get out of there ASAP! Big {{HUGS}}!

blackbird818 · September 2014

@HoldingOutHope ugh hun I'm so sorry. That crap sucks. I've been there. Seriously 2 days before I was set to close the lender came back saying we wouldn't close on time unless I could explain where this $1,000 came from that appeared in my checking accounts 3 months previously :-/ how the fuck am I supposed to remember? Turned out after a little research (on my part) it was the money I had transferred from saving to cover the earnest money check. Fucking idiots; they had acct statements from both of those accounts. Can you not put 2 and 2 together?!?!? I had to write a letter explaining that.
[-(

PS small tip NEVER EVER close on a Friday afternoon. I did so I wouldn't have to take off from work. The idiot at the lender transferring the $ was filling in for the "regular" lady and forgot to transfer the money in time for it to clear the seller's bank (east coast). So there was a routing # , but it wouldn't clear until Mon. The seller's rep wouldn't release the keys to me. I had to drive to the house and meet him the next day and sign an agreement that if the money didn't hit on Monday I would pay daily rent until it did 8-| seriously dude it was a computer glitch get over it. Lesson learned.

blackbird818 · September 2014

@HoldingOutHope I hope for your sake nothing comes up while you're on vacay. But I agree that chances are good that something will *sigh*. Friday am should be fine!! I just got "lucky", and the woman in charge of that was out on vacation (what are the odds? ugh). That whole time zone thing is complicated apparently

My lender is in CA, and the seller's bank was based in NY I think.It was such crap. Just added more stress. On top of it, I had everything booked (uhaul,etc) to move that weekend and was leaving on vacation to San Diego on Tuesday and my apartment lease was to ended while I was vacation ~X( I had no room for error lol

MrsPhD83 · September 2014

ctk181 said:

*snip*
@MrsPhD83 - That is frustrating! Hopefully he'll be ready to go tonight!

Update:

@ktlovess, is it really snowing where you are???? It's only the 1st week of September! Not ok!

Elliecat17 · September 2014

@EurydiceNymph: No. Just no. That is uncalled for, rude, harassing and just plain mind boggling. I can not even imagine feeling that self entitled that I would write something like that no matter how hormonal I was. Furthermore she is an idiot for signing their names. Take it to the police. That's not ok. Finally I actually feel sorry for their child. Sounds like he is going to have one hell of a wonderful mother. HAHAHA *sarcasm*. I think she wrote that letter about herself.

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