So last night I go on Facebook and see a video that MIL posted of FI's 7 year old niece and her friend driving around on FI's uninsured 4 wheeler that has been sitting in their garage. So I called FI and asked if he knew about it and he said no one ever asked him. So he called his mom and asked her about it and she flips out, texts me that I need to mind my own business and I don't need to be calling FI and telling him about what goes on at her house. FI called her back and told her that he's selling the 4 wheeler anyway and she flips out yet again because her boyfriend needs it.
I am so tired of going in Facebook and seeing her other granddaughters wearing Kenna's clothes and playing with her toys that MIL "lost" while babysitting and now using Brian's stuff too. I'm tired of her constantly calling and asking for money so she can pay her bills and then turning around and buying a new living room set and getting her hair done.
And to top it all off we are putting my dog that I've had since I was in second grade down this morning
BFP #1: due 6/17/2013, DD born 6/25/13 BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016 BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
Keeping with the theme, my MIL has got to be the most self centered person I've ever met, and yet SHE thinks she is super kind and generous.
On Saturday she invited my mom and I to go to a craft fair with her. My mom wanted to stay home with dad (who was leaving Sunday for a business trip) but it had been a while since MIL invited her to do something so she agreed. She drove 2 hours to get here.
It was a hot day, but there was a breeze. MIL spent the first 45 minutes we were there going on and on and on about her 95 year old land lady. Basically saying the same thing over and over. Then mom went to go buy something and suddenly MIL was just too hot and had to leave. She didn't even bother to find my mom to say good bye.
I don't think she even gets how rude she was to my mom and now my mom is all pissed at her. But my mil is the type who would start bawling and making a huge scene if she knew we thought she was rude (because she thinks she is perfect all the time). Ugh!
Why does your MIL have so many toys and clothing items that belong to your daughter?? Is there any way you can go take the four wheeler right away to avoid an accident/lawsuit? Lastly, her judgement sounds suspect and so does her attitude. I'd be looking for alternative care for my LO.
It's basically just stuff that gets forgotten when we pick her up and we are are going to get it this weekend. She's only watched her maybe 3 times since she's been born but it's been like last minute emergency type situations but I will definitely be trying to avoid it in the future.
BFP #1: due 6/17/2013, DD born 6/25/13 BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016 BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
Thanks everyone. It was a lot harder than I thought it was going to be. They had a special room there for us and it went really fast at least. They were really nice at the clinic and also took her paw prints and we should be getting her ashes back in about a week. It sounds cheesy but I keep telling myself that she's not in pain anymore and I'm great-full that I got to grow up with her by side.
BFP #1: due 6/17/2013, DD born 6/25/13 BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016 BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
My bitch is we move on Friday, I'm barely packed, the place is 2x as expensive an small, we will have to move out of Sydney to afford to live here, I'm exhausted because lo was sick and teething for days and has been getting up at 4 am. Not to mention I'm leaving the only friends I have here and the running group that I joined since it's to far away to make it in time.
@subliminalrabbit thanks! I could use a hug. My husband lived in out current place for 8 years and the rent never went up. We had a 2.5 bedroom house in the best location with super cheap rent. He's a teacher and musician so not making big money. Anyway we received notice that they want to do renovations. We think the guy we pay rent to is moving in. A big company owns the bldg and we pay the rent to the manger of the pub in front of our house. He always comments how lucky we are for the rent we pay. Ugh.
Sorry for not having posted in months and months but PPD + health scares + bad medical care was kind of a drag...all solved now, but anyway...being a bitch, I feel drawn to the bitchfest:
I don't know where my gd period is. I combo fed until eight months and got my first period at nine months pp. Then got three periods 53 days apart, and then nada, plus I felt kind of pregnant two weeks ago, though the blood test was negative. Around the time I would have gotten it on this weirdo schedule, my MIL was being super-evil,so maybe stress? Or not. I was really excited at the thought that I might be pregnant, not that we were trying, but then I found out I wasn't. So where the hell is it? I'm so upset. I want to start trying again now but I'm worried that I have some kind of hormonal problem, when conceiving was super-easy the first time so this is like my PUNISHMENT or something. Stupid, but oh well. I never thought I would miss the damn thing, but I do.
Re: Bitchfest
I am so tired of going in Facebook and seeing her other granddaughters wearing Kenna's clothes and playing with her toys that MIL "lost" while babysitting and now using Brian's stuff too. I'm tired of her constantly calling and asking for money so she can pay her bills and then turning around and buying a new living room set and getting her hair done.
And to top it all off we are putting my dog that I've had since I was in second grade down this morning
BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016
BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
On Saturday she invited my mom and I to go to a craft fair with her. My mom wanted to stay home with dad (who was leaving Sunday for a business trip) but it had been a while since MIL invited her to do something so she agreed. She drove 2 hours to get here.
It was a hot day, but there was a breeze. MIL spent the first 45 minutes we were there going on and on and on about her 95 year old land lady. Basically saying the same thing over and over. Then mom went to go buy something and suddenly MIL was just too hot and had to leave. She didn't even bother to find my mom to say good bye.
I don't think she even gets how rude she was to my mom and now my mom is all pissed at her. But my mil is the type who would start bawling and making a huge scene if she knew we thought she was rude (because she thinks she is perfect all the time). Ugh!
BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016
BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
BFP #2: due 6/30/2017, MMC found 12/7/2016
BFP #3: due 10/21/2018
I don't know where my gd period is. I combo fed until eight months and got my first period at nine months pp. Then got three periods 53 days apart, and then nada, plus I felt kind of pregnant two weeks ago, though the blood test was negative. Around the time I would have gotten it on this weirdo schedule, my MIL was being super-evil,so maybe stress? Or not. I was really excited at the thought that I might be pregnant, not that we were trying, but then I found out I wasn't. So where the hell is it? I'm so upset. I want to start trying again now but I'm worried that I have some kind of hormonal problem, when conceiving was super-easy the first time so this is like my PUNISHMENT or something. Stupid, but oh well. I never thought I would miss the damn thing, but I do.