What the heck is going on with me?

Re: What the heck is going on with me?

• Belou52579 member

  September 2014

  You're human. Time to deal with the fact that your body will do all sorts of strange things once in a while.

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• Belou52579 member

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  You never skip a cycle. Ever. You are having one single longer cycle.
  
  Spotting happens. It doesn't mean anything 99.99999999999999% of the time.
  
  You had your period. You aren't pregnant. 10 year olds grasp that concept. I would hope you are older than that.
  
  

  
  

  I get that you don't need to be rude it was very out of the norm for me and I had no crapping at all. Nothing about it was normal. I have never had this happen to me before so obviously i am freaking out a bit that there is something wrong.
  
  
  I'd get a laxative stat if I hadn't been "crapping" for a while. They make chocolate flavored ones, FYI.

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• lucy2113 member

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  Learn how your cycle works so that you don't have to question it. A negative test means not pregnant at this time.

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• mechedes member

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  Belou52579 said:

  911Diva said:

  
  

  GhostMonkey said:

  
  

  You never skip a cycle. Ever. You are having one single longer cycle.
  
  Spotting happens. It doesn't mean anything 99.99999999999999% of the time.
  
  You had your period. You aren't pregnant. 10 year olds grasp that concept. I would hope you are older than that.
  
  

  
  

  I get that you don't need to be rude it was very out of the norm for me and I had no crapping at all. Nothing about it was normal. I have never had this happen to me before so obviously i am freaking out a bit that there is something wrong.

  
  I'd get a laxative stat if I hadn't been "crapping" for a while. They make chocolate flavored ones, FYI.
  
  
  LMAO!!!! I did not notice that!!! Good eye, @Belou52579‌
  

  
  

  
  

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  Queue the "I'm pregnant" update: 3...2...

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• mechedes member

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  If you take another test and on the (huge extreme) odd chance that you are pregnant, there is no need to update us.

  
  

  
  

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• Belou52579 member

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  Are you actively bleeding and needing to change a pad or tampon regularly? Is it spotting only?
  
  

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  911Diva said:

  I had a period on June 28th skipped a whole month took two home tests that were negative after 14 days of no period I went to the doctor and had a blood test done it came back negative also. So I just dropped it and thought my period will come I just skipped a cycle. 

  My boobs start to get sore and then August 28th (CD 61) I start bleeding finally it goes for 4 days and ends just like a normal period. Everything goes like normal except three days ago I start spotting and have been for 3 days. My husband and I have had unprotected twice since what I thought was my period. My boobs are still sore so can anyone relate?

  At this point I have no idea what is happening to me could I be pregnant?

  
  

  -This would have been the time to poas, not run to the doctor. If your pee sticks said negative, you should have taken that as a hint that you were not/are not pregnant.

  -Bleeding and mutiple negative tests? You are getting your period, why would you be confused as to whether you're pregnant or not?

  -My boobs are sore for 3 out of the four weeks in a month, I've never been pregnant.

  -Calm down

  -No idea!

   

   

  
   

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  I fully admit I'm in a bad mood today but one question, OP: why do you hate punctuation?

  
  

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• gscoville member

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  911Diva said:

  I had a period on June 28th skipped a whole month took two home tests that were negative after 14 days of no period I went to the doctor and had a blood test done it came back negative also. So I just dropped it and thought my period will come I just skipped a cycle. 

  My boobs start to get sore and then August 28th (CD 61) I start bleeding finally it goes for 4 days and ends just like a normal period. Everything goes like normal except three days ago I start spotting and have been for 3 days. My husband and I have had unprotected twice since what I thought was my period. My boobs are still sore so can anyone relate?

  At this point I have no idea what is happening to me could I be pregnant?

  
  

  Repeat after me:  you DO NOT skip periods, you have longer cycles.  Longer cycles happen all the time for any and no reason at all, it's why so many women here have experience with having to go to the doctor for a provera prescription to jump start their period.  It doesn't mean something is wrong, you're freaking out over a random nothing and making a much bigger deal about it than you need to.  Your boobs got sore because, you know, hormones, PMS, all of that is pretty standard when you get your period - it's possibly even more pronounced because you had a longer cycle and your body is working a little harder to cycle 'normally'.  But you had a period starting around 11 days ago, it's impossible for you to be pregnant already, and pretty unlikely you've even ovulated yet.

  
  

  With regards to temping, you really REALLY need to do the tutorials on Fertility Friend, FF discusses how to temp when doing shift work.  Coles Notes:  you don't have to temp at the exact same time every day, as long as you temp after three hours or more of sleep your temping will be accurate.  Plus you clearly have no idea how cycles work, i.e. if you had a period 11 days ago you are not pregnant now. FF will educate you on that and other valuable tidbits.  And you should link your charts so we can actually give you advice based on your data.  
  

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  I think it would just be best if DH and I wait awhile until my body gets back on track. We will just step away from TTC and will start once my body gets regular again. I have no idea why it decided to freak out but until it goes back I don't want to be having sex at all the wrong times because my tracking is all wrong. 

  You had a longer cycle, big deal, it's so common as to be almost more normal for women than to always have clockwork cycles.  And you're not going to have sex?  Isn't sex also for pleasure, not just for TTC?  I've never heard anyone refer to having sex "at all the wrong times", I feel really sorry for you if sex is such a chore for you.

  
  

       

  

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• thewickedfairy member

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  911Diva said:

  
  

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  Stop assuming you know anything about me I use fertility friend and I have read the book. I know about temping I know about CM. I do know about charting I have been doing it for two years. This whole experience is brand new for me in the two years I have been charting this has never happened to me. I have never since I was 13 just missed a period. So this post had nothing to do with me not knowing my body it had to do with wanting others stories of similar experiences to try and see what was going on with my body.

  
  

  The thing is, our experiences have nothing to do with yours. You did not miss a period, your cycle was just longer than normal. There is nothign wrong with you, random spotting happens.
  

  
  

  Well not to me it doesn't hence the wondering what the heck is going on. If I already finished a period why the heck would I start bleeding again? 
  
  Because your period wasn't truly done. It happens

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• gscoville member

  September 2014

  I STILL WANT TO KNOW ABOUT THE NOT CRAPPING THING - where has all the crap gone if not out?? :-/

  
  

       

  

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• yaassgaga member

  September 2014

  I need a comprehensive explanation of the name "911Diva" like right now. K thx.

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• thewickedfairy member

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  yaassgaga said:

  I need a comprehensive explanation of the name "911Diva" like right now. K thx.

  As soon as I saw her name and the title of the thread, I could only think about how much drama this thread was going to be.... Her SN says it all

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• nandaboob06 member

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  Best cure for an all day hangover? Bump drama (this isnt really good drama but it will do).

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• Ant&Al2825 member

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  911Diva said:

  Yup... I am done with this thanks for nothing!

  This is a TTC board, you are making it unclear as to whether you are actually TTC or looking for "dear diary" shit. No one here is a doctor, nor can anyone run tests and diagnose you via the internet. We also can't tell you why you're cycle is weird because everybody is different. It happens. Some months my cycle is 28 days, some months it's 40 and I have mid cycle bleeding. You're being a bit dramatic.
  
  

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• mechedes member

  September 2014

  911Diva said:

  NariaDreaming said:

  You're regular until you're not. JFC you need to calm the fuck down. 
  
  Perhaps some of that "sex at the wrong time" tonight could help you unclench....

  I am not even being crazy all these bitches started yelling at me and being rude for absolutely no reason at all. I am fine these bitches are the ones who need a prozac! 

  
  

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• Shelovesaginger member

  September 2014

  911Diva said:

  Yup... I am done with this thanks for nothing!

  Ok, I'll bite again. You NEED to calm down and breathe for a minute, you're going to continue driving yourself crazy if you don't just stop the shit and take a couple seconds to screw your head back on tightly. When I read your post, all I see is you just blabbering with your head spinning around a million times. Take time to evaluate (by yourself, come on, you're a big girl) what's really happening. 1.) You had your period and you have negative tests, you are most likely not pregnant. 2.) You're reading too much into things and getting yourself confused. Maybe the stress is making your cycles wacky? When I'm stressed, my cycles get a bit weird.

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• DrylHeisnberg member

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  911Diva said:

  booklover811 said:

  OP, you've gotten some great advice. Listen to it. And if you do still think you are pregnant, take a test. Sounds like you haven't taken one since before you got your period. Maybe then you will believe us.

  I just said above that I don't think I am pregnant I think there is something wrong with me. But I very well could be pregnant sooner than later because I have no clue when my ovulation is going to be this month because I thought my period was over and now I am bleeding again so what exactly is that going to mean for my cycle? 

  There are times when you can bleed midcycle. It can be caused by anything from  fibroids and thyroid problems, to stress or dumb luck of the universe. If you have been bleeding mid cycle for  more than 5 days in a row, call the Dr. 

  
  

  As the others have said your cycle can change and you really don't know what your cycle is like this month without charting. 

  
  

  As for being pregnant, the answer is 

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• yaassgaga member

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  Bye Felicia!
  

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• nandaboob06 member

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  Sounds like you spotted some before your period. Your body is totes screwed up.

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• KingLED member

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  DarcyHermione said:

  911Diva said:

  Well I thought I was in the clear because the spotting stopped for a few days then yesterday I just started bleeding full on period all over again enough to put in a tampon. So ya my body is officially screwed up! 

  Congrats on your period.
  

  NO! Her body is screwed up! I cannot be something as normal as a period.

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