April 2015 Moms

I would appreciate anyones opinion

I moved to hawaii and met a guy
I haven't been here long however i was unhappy with the job i had and i left it.

He and i argued previously we were in a weird situation of a new "relationship" then it got better we spend everyday together he practically lives with me and i depend on him when i became pregnant and very sick aswell so sick i cant get off the couch morning sickness hates me.

Now i feel stuck and when we argue im really wanting to fly back home i feel( guilty ) but i don't want to fight 8 months down the line when i have a baby with someone i barely know yes.. We still are getting to know each other and having a baby together ... I feel stuck.
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Re: I would appreciate anyones opinion

  • Oh wow. Well I don't really know what to say. You need to do what is best for you and your baby. And IMO that would be going back to my family. Does he want to be in baby's life? Have you talked about the future? This post is kind of confusing.
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  • Yes he wants this baby yes this post is confusing because im emotional and neurotic and cant get off my couch :(

    We are planning on finding a new apt then buying a home together we have had the whole convo
    But i still feel stuck when we have arguments and question myself as to what am i doing..
  • Ok if you feel "stuck" then it's not meant to be.
  • qatherine said:

    Yes he wants this baby yes this post is confusing because im emotional and neurotic and cant get off my couch :(

    We are planning on finding a new apt then buying a home together we have had the whole convo
    But i still feel stuck when we have arguments and question myself as to what am i doing..

    Why would you buy a house with someone you are still getting to know? I think you need to let this all sink in before you make any big decisions. You're going to be a mother.
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  • I am sorry MS is kicking your butt. It's no fun at all. However, I think the worst thing you can do is stay in a relationship just because you are having a baby together. Most often it is best for baby to have two parents, yes, but it's not good for them to come into a relationship where anyone feels "stuck". I don't envy your situation at all, but do what's best for you and above all baby.
  • You've received some pretty good advice already. So, I won't beat that horse. I will say though that punctuation can be your friend. That may be why your original post is coming off so confusing.
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  • SharkFarts is right, in my opinion. It's when you don't argue and won't even bring up certain subjects that the relationship may need reevaluating.
    Also, in my opinion, a child really CAN be seen as a reason to stay. You need to really get to know him. All you see right now, this early in the relationship, is his personality (what he presents and wants you to see). Same goes for you. It's his CHARACTER that you need to try to expose. Character is deeper, and often can be seen as "who one is when no one is looking". If you can find out what his character is, it could make the decision easier. You may want to confide in a family member you feel you can trust. Someone who knows you and won't overreact or run to tell everyone what your situation is. I wish you well.
  • You've received some pretty good advice already. So, I won't beat that horse. I will say though that punctuation can be your friend. That may be why your original post is coming off so confusing.

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  • Thank you all for such great advice


    And thank you grammar police i supposed this is the bullying i've read about however i am not writing a school paper so i like to ramble without punctuations because when i ramble out loud i barely even catch my breath. :)
  • Thank you ladies! I really appreciate your advice.
  • qatherine said:

    Thank you all for such great advice


    And thank you grammar police i supposed this is the bullying i've read about however i am not writing a school paper so i like to ramble without punctuations because when i ramble out loud i barely even catch my breath. :)

    Oh please I wasn't being a bully. I was actually very polite. I could have said so much more. Get your panties out of your ass and get over it, or go elsewhere.
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  • You're from texas.. Lets leave it at that .. Most likely a bored housewife or a miserable single mom

    Fine.. Indulge me i am just as bored as you are.
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    edited September 2014
    Fyi.. I'm not wearing any panties..
  • Whelp... Guess I'm gunna go with MUD now. I should've known better than to think this was a person who was seeking genuine input.
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  • Hummingbird.. I actually appreciated you opinions the most

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  • mbm1983, I just have to say that every time I see your Doc McStuffins picture I laugh. Thanks for that!
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  • geenakwgeenakw member
    edited September 2014
    Mahalo Nap time! :-h
  • qatherine said:

    You're from texas.. Lets leave it at that .. Most likely a bored housewife or a miserable single mom

    Fine.. Indulge me i am just as bored as you are.

    Actually I'm neither of those. But I have a sneaky suspicion that you may be one day soon if you're this nasty irl. Good luck with your baby daddy issues. You'll most likely need it.

    Bye bye sweetheart. You're finished here.
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  • U have been here since 1998 i will respect my elders starting now :P
  • THANK YOU! However i have been thoroughly entertained.
  • Yes so was the grammar police.
  • Yawn.... :-@
  • Melissa58 said:

    All expecting moms should be able to use this website, regardless of how well they write. Most people write to the best of their ability. This isn't the appropriate forum to offer up "constructive feedback". As good as your intentions may have been, it obviously offended Qatherine. It probably would have offended me as well. Or at least would have made me feel very uncomfortable posting additional comments.

    I think it might have helped her use writing tools, which are more available on the internet than this board.

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    qatherine said:

    Yawn.... :-@

    I bet Baby-Daddy loves it when you do this to him. Bonus for the emoticon.

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  • I am not sure if this is MUD or not...

    If this is real one thing you might want to consider is it can be hard to get custody to move out of state. You might want to consider moving home to a more supportive environment before the baby is born.
  • Baby daddy does love it, he really does since u women are so lacking as to what exactly my baby daddy is to me i am so happy not to give anymore personal details as to the title of our relationship baby daddy is kind of fun to roll with. >:D<

    Women are the demise of each other. instead of teaming together they bring each other down, after a single post and one out of order comment this board has come to this.... America. =D>
  • Darn i thought i was at least six... (:|
  • qatherine said:

    Baby daddy does love it, he really does since u women are so lacking as to what exactly my baby daddy is to me i am so happy not to give anymore personal details as to the title of our relationship baby daddy is kind of fun to roll with. >:D<

    Women are the demise of each other. instead of teaming together they bring each other down, after a single post and one out of order comment this board has come to this.... America. =D>

    Wow, you guys sound perfect for each other, why did you post this?

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  • Man so do you feel stuck with baby daddy or is he awesome???? And next time clarify that you only want advice if it meets your criteria...

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  • aeith11 said:

    Man so do you feel stuck with baby daddy or is he awesome???? And next time clarify that you only want advice if it meets your criteria...

    And what that criteria is.

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  • aeith11 said:

    Man so do you feel stuck with baby daddy or is he awesome???? And next time clarify that you only want advice if it meets your criteria...

    And what that criteria is.
    Who the hell knows...I'm not sure if she wants is to tell her to run or well I'm not too sure...

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  • A bunch of batty old women.. Dish it to me but cant take it. O staaaaaaaap it.

    Don't u guys have work? Or poop to clean up? Breakfast to cook? Lunches to pack? Whatever it is go do it,
    u guys trolls this board non stop it is pathetic.


    Im going to get off my ass today MS likes me today off to the beach because i live in paradise!! \m/

    Aloha.
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