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I am only telling you guys this because I am unsure how to act, react and how to function right now. I have only been here for a few months but you ladies make me laugh every day and I have learned so much from you. Unfortunately, I caught my FI cheating. For the second time. I haven't confronted him yet. I don't really know where to turn. I will be leaving these boards, but may stay lurk for a while if that is okay.

Thank you so much everyone for teaching me about my body. It has been a wonderful experience and I really hope if/when I come back in a few years or so everyone has moved on. Wishing everyone luck on their TTC journey!

TTC # 1 since 11/2013
Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
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  • virginiaorjohnvirginiaorjohn member
    I am so sorry. Be strong! Hopefully this board can provide a few laughs when you need them.

    Married 9/2007
    TTC #1 since 1/2014
    Me: 30 DH: 31
    Sep14: 7DPO testing for short LP - low progesterone (4.9ng/mL)
    Sep14: DH SA - low motility (3-)
    Oct14:  repeat 7DPO testing - low progesterone (1.8ng/mL)
    Oct14: tv u/s with OB - "beautiful uterus," no cysts, offered Clomid, no thank you
    Current DX: weak ovulation/low progesterone with MFI
    Oct14: RE consult
    Oct14: CD3bloodwork - elevated AMH (5.1ng/mL)
    Nov14: HSG (all clear)
    IUI#1 Nov14: 5mg letrozole + IUI = bfn
    IUI#2 Dec14
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  • CarolinaGirl83CarolinaGirl83 member
    So sorry!
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  • thewickedfairythewickedfairy member
    What a douche! I'm so sorry. Be strong!
    Me:  31  DH:  35
    Married:  7/3/2006
    DS:  3/3/2007  (emergency c-section) 
    MMC:  10/5/2010  D&C:  10/8/2010
    DD:  9/22/2011  (scheduled c-section)
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  • briannaescplanbriannaescplan member
    Thank you ladies. I am waiting on the right time to confront him and try and be as much of adults as possible when asking him to leave. I haven't cried yet. But fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

    TTC # 1 since 11/2013
    Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
    HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
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  • CytheCythe member
    I am so sorry that you're going through this. Be kind to yourself and be strong with whatever you choose to do.
    TTC #1 since May 2014
    3 failed IUI cycles
    Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
    Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
    Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14

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  • SammiC217SammiC217 member
    So sorry you're going through this. :(

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    Me - 30 DH - 31
    Married - May 3, 2014
    Furbaby (Black Lab) - Gracie - September 22, 2013
    BFP 7/29/14, CP 7/31/14
    TTC #1 - June 2014
    DX - Endo - Laparoscopy March 2011
    Laparoscopy #2 - October 2014

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  • cheesecakerunnercheesecakerunner member
    That just stinks. Good for you for recognizing that it's not a healthy relationship.
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  • mechedesmechedes member
    Take care of yourself! So, so, sorry you are going through this. I've been there. Don't blame yourself for "allowing" it to happen again. Just learn from it and move on.

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  • icaughtfireicaughtfire member
    Damn, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear, and wishing you the best of luck going forward.
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    BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014
    BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014
    Dx: Gestational Trophoblastic Disease
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  • oxfordstreetoxfordstreet member
    I'm so sorry to read this. Know you're not alone. Take care xx
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  • briannaescplanbriannaescplan member
    Its very hard right now sitting in the same room with him. I am just trying to figure out my game plan with housing and all before I make my move. But you ladies are wonderful and thank you.

    TTC # 1 since 11/2013
    Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
    HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
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  • RaeLynn81012RaeLynn81012 member
    Oh man. I am so sorry that is happening. I felt nauseous for you when I read that. Stay strong and I am so glad you realize you deserve better than that.
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  • briannaescplanbriannaescplan member
    virginiaorjohn said:

    Just sharing for your best interest-- if one of you won't be sleeping in the house tonight, make sure you're the one still in your home. (Read: make him leave.) I'm sure there's a lawyer here who can better explain it, but if you leave the house voluntarily, your spouse can claim temporary exclusive rights to the home until legal proceedings are completed. Just don't want you to get (more) screwed over.

    Well we rent and are both on the lease. Not married. I am hoping he will leave without a fight when I do confront him. The whole situation just blows

    TTC # 1 since 11/2013
    Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
    HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
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  • holliberry28holliberry28 member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this :(


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  • virginiaorjohnvirginiaorjohn member
    Oh good. Keep your chin up and take care of yourself!

    Married 9/2007
    TTC #1 since 1/2014
    Me: 30 DH: 31
    Sep14: 7DPO testing for short LP - low progesterone (4.9ng/mL)
    Sep14: DH SA - low motility (3-)
    Oct14:  repeat 7DPO testing - low progesterone (1.8ng/mL)
    Oct14: tv u/s with OB - "beautiful uterus," no cysts, offered Clomid, no thank you
    Current DX: weak ovulation/low progesterone with MFI
    Oct14: RE consult
    Oct14: CD3bloodwork - elevated AMH (5.1ng/mL)
    Nov14: HSG (all clear)
    IUI#1 Nov14: 5mg letrozole + IUI = bfn
    IUI#2 Dec14
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  • thiscoffeechickthiscoffeechick member
    I'm so sorry for your pain. Good for you for realizing you deserve better.
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    MMC EDD: 1/5/2015  D&C: 5/31/14
    MC    EDD: 4/21/15 Lost: 8/24/14
    BFP for my Rainbow!! 11/6/14
    EDD: 7/20/15

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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm really sorry you are going through this right now.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

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  • KingLEDKingLED member
    I'm so sorry. That's awful.
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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  • ShellyRShellyR member
    Yikes. Sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself.

    TTC since Sept. 2013
    09/14: New anterior 3cm Fibroid on U/S, no change in size 11/14
    10/14: SA normal
    12/14: next RE appointment - cancelled due to BFP
    BFP on 11/21/14, EDD 08/03/15



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  • AuroraP725AuroraP725 member
    What an awful situation. This is not your fault. I'm so sorry you're going through this. ((Hugs))
    Me - 32 H - 32
    Married July 2009
    TTC#1 since Feb 2013
    RE consult Oct 2013 due to short cycles/light periods
    Dx: Diminished ovarian reserve/unexplained thinned uterine lining
    IVF#1 May 2014 - Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix - 7R 4M 3F - 1 frosty (4AB)
    IVF#2 August 2014 - Lupron/Follistim/Menopur - 9R 4M 0F
    IVF#3 w/ICSI September 2014 - Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix - 4R 4M 4F - 1 frosty
    FET#1 Dec 2014 - Lupron/Estrace(transdermal and vaginal)/Viagra/G-CSF wash - Cancelled due to poor lining response
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  • VeganOnTuesdaysVeganOnTuesdays member
    I am so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself! 
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    Married: 9/21/13
    TTC #1: 4/1/14
    BFP: 9/16/14 (A damn good 1 year anniversary present)
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  • SrhA1984SrhA1984 member
    I'm so sorry. Please take care of yourself!
    Married 03/09
    TTC #1 02/11
    BFP #1 02/24/11 EDD 10/31/11 MC 03/02/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #2 05/30/11 EDD 02/07/12 Ava Grace born 02/01/12

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    BFP #3 10/10/14 EDD 06/20/15 CP 10/15/14 


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  • livnluv2010livnluv2010 member
    I'm so sorry. Wishing you the best!
    *DS born at 31 weeks due to pPROM- November 2010-our little miracle! 

    *TFAS since May 2014 
    *Early miscarriage-Sept 2014






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  • Bee1112Bee1112 member
    I'm so sorry. Please take care if yourself. Huge huge hugs.

    Me: 25 DH: 26
    Married 11/12/11
    BFP 12/17/11
    DS 8/29/12 via C-section
    TFAS 3/2014
    BFP #2 5/25/15 EDD 2/4/2016
    It's a BOY!
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  • DecemberGirl1216DecemberGirl1216 member
    I am so sorry, take care
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  • bosco213bosco213 member
    I'm so sorry to hear this :( you are in my T&P
    Me - 26 
    DH - 27

    TTC #1 since July 2014
    BFP! Oct 18, EDD July 2, 2015

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  • sister13sister13 member
    So sorry this has happened, really wishing you the best of luck!

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    Factor II (Prothrombin) Mutation
    TTGP Award Best PIP 2013 & 2014

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  • fromthismoment2007fromthismoment2007 member
    I'm very sorry that you are going through this.
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  • beepitybeepity member
    Wow that is horrible. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. I hope it gets sorted out quickly and easily.
    Married 2006
    Surprise BFP Feb 2008 MC at 6w2d
    TTC since May 2014       
    BFP! 10/28/14       EDD 7/5/15

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  • DeerNHeadlightsDeerNHeadlights member
    Oh no. I'm so sorry you are going through this.
    Married 5/31/10
    DS 10/31/12
    BFP 11/18/14
    EDD 7/31/15

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  • rockoperarockopera member
    I'm so so sorry.
    baby boy: 3.19.2014
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    Wow, that's so hard. I'm so sorry you are going through this.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • kmaty13kmaty13 member
    I'm so sorry.  Take care of yourself.

    TTC #1

    Married <3 July 20, 2013

    Off BC since 10/2013 


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  • sthrncharmersthrncharmer member
    I'm sorry you are going through this. Take care.
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  • 3houlagirl3houlagirl member
    I am so sorry. This makes me feel ill for you. I hope things get sorted and you can start healing quickly.
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  • kristyn831kristyn831 member
    I'm sorry that you're going through this.  Take care of yourself.


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    Me: 33, DH: 35
    Married 10/13, TTC since 7/13
    Dx: MFI
    IUI #1 7/14: BFN
    IUI #2 8/14: BFN
    IVF #1 11/14: 20R17M15F
    Transferred 1 three day embryo! 7 frosties!
    BFP!  EDD 7/27/15



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  • WestIsleFlowerWestIsleFlower member
    I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself.
    ~Married 12.09.12~
    ~NTNP #1 since 11.14 - Current Cycle: 2~
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  • divinemsbeedivinemsbee member
    I'm so sorry you're going through this, stay strong and good luck going forward.



    TTC #1 since 11/2012
    Me-31, H-27
    **Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
    **Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
    Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
    SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
    HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
    Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
     9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
    BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
     U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
    U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
    U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
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  • TRP85TRP85 member
    I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself.
    Married: 08/04/2012
    TTC #1: 07/2014
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