My hello I'm sorry. Introduction

krysngreg · August 2014

So I have had the site for a few months. I just didn't realize the threads where here and were so different from other sites. For that I am sorry
My name is Krystle. I have a husband named Greg. And a daughter who is seven named Kylee. I also have a stepdaughter that's 4, Maddi. She lives with her mother but I love her very much. We have been married five years, and this is our first child together. We are very very excited. Tho, I have huge fears of how our other two children will handle this. I know we can and will make it work, everything I do is for my children. I keep my niece as of June. All day every day, since Im currently working from home and she is all most two, and lights my world up. So far no problems with my pregnancy besides high blood pressure (which was a problem with my first) and a horrible feeling it's not fare to our other kids. We live in Texas, and it's HOT. I promise I'm not the b-word I made myself look like. I really could use a supportive group for these last few months. My mother is 6 hours away and my support group here is very very small. Thanks for reading

MuffinMom14 · August 2014

This is kind of hard for me to read and understand, but I'd probably recommend you not telling people a bunch of details about your life, including names.

krysngreg · August 2014

@SPurp13‌ It's just first names, and Texas is Huge. Sorry it's hard for you to read

MuffinMom14 · August 2014

krysgreg said:

@SPurp13‌ It's just first names, and Texas is Huge. Sorry it's hard for you to read

Ok. Well, I'm aware that Texas is large, but it's also names and ages and everything else. I'm just alerting you to stranger danger, but you are welcome to post whatever you'd like. I'd be a bit upset if I were the step-daughter's mother, for example. I don't want this to be an issue for you.

It's hard for me to understand, because you say you've had a site for a few weeks, and I'm guessing you mean you've been reading THIS site, not that you've had a website, and I don't know what the second sentence means. But in either case, welcome to the board. I don't know what the "b-word" part means, either. Memories are normally short on these boards. It's best to just move on and become active and involved and you'll receive the support you put out.

TheOtherJacobsons · August 2014

Eh, Purp she didn't use last names.

OP after yesterday there may be some growing pains and maybe some razzing, but we're pretty accepting.

Though, after yesterday, I am sure most of us won't be convinced it won't happen again. I think time will tell. Good for you for finding a pair of big girl panties though.

MsMacual · August 2014

Welcome!

MuffinMom14 · August 2014

TheOtherJacobsons said:

Eh, Purp she didn't use last names. OP after yesterday there may be some growing pains and maybe some razzing, but we're pretty accepting. Though, after yesterday, I am sure most of us won't be convinced it won't happen again. I think time will tell. Good for you for finding a pair of big girl panties though.

Sure, it's first names, but it's also a little weird to me, since I know no one else's name on the board. It's just not info that is normally shared, even by regs. Just wanted to give her a chance to edit that should she want to do so.

TheOtherJacobsons · August 2014

Fair enough... Though editing may be a bit much to expect ;D

NavyFlyer · August 2014

TheOtherJacobsons said:

Eh, Purp she didn't use last names. OP after yesterday there may be some growing pains and maybe some razzing, but we're pretty accepting. Though, after yesterday, I am sure most of us won't be convinced it won't happen again. I think time will tell. Good for you for finding a pair of big girl panties though.

Truth! Welcome to you! You really should read the newbie guidance if you haven't yet, but you can definitely find great support here!

yella726 · August 2014

Welcome to O14!

(Side note: @TheOtherJacobsons, what happened yesterday??? I was out of pocket and hadn't gotten a chance to check in until this morning.)

lrobi13 · August 2014

I applaud your willingness to post an intro and try again. Welcome. Like I mentioned in yesterday's thread. You have to give support to get support so make sure that you don't only participate in thread you start!

TheOtherJacobsons · August 2014

@yella726‌ yesterday was a fun day for you to miss. By far the wat thread was the most entertaining. Check OPs history for the deets on this.

Maggie6424 · August 2014

Welcome

ohioloveyou · August 2014

Welcome. But is any one else wondering how she has a stepdaughter that's 4 when her and her husband have been married for 5 years? Maybe I'm just too curious for my own good.

lrobi13 · August 2014

ohioloveyou said:

Welcome. But is any one else wondering how she has a stepdaughter that's 4 when her and her husband have been married for 5 years? Maybe I'm just too curious for my own good.

Shit happens...my friend has one child that is 11 and then the man had two kids with someone else, then my friend and he got married and had another kid who is almost 2 now.

yella726 · August 2014

TheOtherJacobsons said:

@yella726‌ yesterday was a fun day for you to miss. By far the wat thread was the most entertaining. Check OPs history for the deets on this.

Just found some of yesterday's threads.

https://38.media.tumblr.com/02eeeb60daf5613bf9d79a1b9e5597f9/tumblr_mfg0zxWpxi1rjdnouo1_500.gif

Welp, there went my Wednesday!

amstevens78 · August 2014

Hi and welcome! I love this board! Everyone has been very supportive and encouraging to me on here. I think once you get the hang of things you will really like it. I am on this board everyday and sometimes several times a day (especially now that I am off work). I wish you the best if luck with your pregnancy and delivery!

krysngreg · August 2014

Yes she had gotten pregnant the first months of our marriage .... It was very very hard for me to get over But I have. Her mother hates me of course even in my willingness to walk away from the whole situation in the very beginning. He had came out of a six year relationship and we were all young still (21/22) she had cheated and left him, was living with another man. And when he moved on she couldn't stand it and well you know how woman can be. And we didn't even know she was his till after she was born and we got a DNA test. Yes it was very stressful and probably immature of me to stay but he has since made up for it all and we are doing great. She has came around the last couple years enough for us to get visitation rights and have her in our life. I had a child from a past relationship when we met, so I thought giving up on something because he was having a child Would have been unfair. I was lied to about the pregnancy for a few months and had all ready had my feelings involved. Call me crazy

ohioloveyou · August 2014

krysgreg said:

Yes she had gotten pregnant the first months of our relationship .... It was very very hard for me to get over But I have. Her mother hates me of course even in my willingness to walk away from the whole situation in the very beginning. He had came out of a six year relationship and we were all young still (21/22) she had cheated and left him, was living with another man. And when he moved on she couldn't stand it and well you know how woman can be. And we didn't even know she was his till after she was born and we got a DNA test. Yes it was very stressful and probably immature of me to stay but he has since made up for it all and we are doing great. She has came around the last couple years enough for us to get visitation rights and have her in our life. I had a child from a past relationship when we met, so I thought giving up on something because he was having a child Would have been unfair. I was lied to about the pregnancy for a few months and had all ready had my feelings involved. Call me crazy

Meh, I wouldn't call it immature to stay with someone who cheated. That's a personal decision, especially early in a marriage like that. I probably would have been out since marriage is a big deal for me, but I'm not judging you for staying. Glad it's working out.

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krysngreg · August 2014

I'm tempted to change it one more time lol I feel like my pictures isn't even a representation of me now. But I know it's confusing so I'm worried about that.

krysngreg · August 2014

@Nicb13. I understand. Not expecting total forgiveness, I was a total douche and I will admit that.

krysngreg · August 2014

I was clearly having an outburst. I said sorry and then it just got worse before it got to this point. And I said I didn't mean any thing that was written. It's a defense out lash. That's all. It was immature and un motherly of me. But hey it's up to you to forgive not me, so have a nice day

krysngreg · August 2014

I'm feel like a fat cow an my worst fear is a ripped vagina ..... I also said that. It was nothing personal. You are all beautiful mothers to be. And I'm ashamed for saying that. Or I wouldn't be on here trying to make up for it.

golfingdarwinfish · August 2014

krysgreg said:

I was clearly having an outburst. I said sorry and then it just got worse before it got to this point. And I said I didn't mean any thing that was written. It's a defense out lash. That's all. It was immature and un motherly of me. But hey it's up to you to forgive not me, so have a nice day

I do have two questions...

What made you decide you actually want to belong to this community after lashing out at us?
Why did you make your avatar a pic of you in a bathing suit after calling us all fat cows, and then change it back to a random picture of yourself?

krysngreg · August 2014

@Cantisa Okay that is fine.....@golfingdarwinfish : that picture was from when I was 17 .... Before I had children. I changed it from my bump picture because some one had mentioned something negative about a bare bump... I was being a smart ass. I wanted to be a part of the community before the thread got out of hand but felt attacked. My emotions have been uncontrollable. And again for that I am sorry .... I tried to say the most hatful thing that came to mind. To make myself feel better I guess

krysngreg · August 2014

I thought it was an ice breaker. It's something we are all dealing with while being pregnant. But I'm not an "easing" kinda girl. I'm very blunt and open. I blame it on my country roots ... Sorry

krysngreg · August 2014

And I would never call any thing any one posted annoying ..... I think every one has there own battles they are fighting

JessAnnJ · August 2014

Yesterday was crazy and I didn't get involved so I guess I'm less invested. The things that were said yesterday were mean and should not have been said, but I commend the fact that she kept her screen name and came back and apologized instead of just changing her name pretending it didn't happen and starting over as a new person. I know a few people have admitted to changing their screen name to start over. I think it definitely takes big girl panties to come back with the same screen name after what OP said.

krysngreg · August 2014

@jessAnnj .... You can do that ???

No I'm kidding, i really did feel bad as soon a i hit reply. I know we are all going threw one of the toughest roughest times of our life's and I should have never said it. I really didn't want to make any one feel bad and internet or not, it could have effected a person in a negative way. My grammar is so bad I know, but someone pointing out every little flaw I made really got to me in a negative way. I didn't come here to get an English lesson, I'm an expecting mother going threw the same things as every one else and just wanted to have some advice and be able to talk to woman going threw what I'm going threw

lisamahrt · August 2014

I know you are not looking for an english lesson, but please just use this for a reference if anything as you go forward on this site:

https://grammar.about.com/od/alightersideofwriting/a/Threw-Through-And-Thru.htm

krysngreg · August 2014

@Nicb13‌ Are we not allowed to post what we want on our own threads we started ? Specially our introductions ? And I was not rude at first I didn't come In swinging fist till I was cornered by more then one person .... If it bothers you do not read it

krysngreg · August 2014

I feel like your poking for nothing to change and that's cool too

yella726 · August 2014

FamousEa said:

This.

TheOtherJacobsons · August 2014

Well, that didn't take long...

krysngreg · August 2014

If the horse is so dead why do you keep coming back to this thread. I thought I killed the horse with my sincere apology maybe it pops up on you computers... I'm mobile I wouldn't know

MuffinMom14 · August 2014

Nicb13 said:

Well shit, I guess I'm the stubborn and unforgiving one. I have a bad taste in my mouth and might for a while when I see OP's name or avatar. Not a huge deal because again, this board IS for entertainment, but I probably won't be throwing out love tits anytime soon. Yesterday's thread was a complete fucking shit show.

I felt the same, and apparently we're in the minority, so I guess I'm just a bad person. Sorry. You don't get to call us bitches and say our kids are doomed and hope our vaginas rip open and then just be like "sorry, though, I do like you after all!" I...don't get it.

I also have a separate issue with just not tending to like people who have poor spelling/grammar issues and don't even TRY, and that's on me. I just. I can't deal with it. I don't want to interact with someone like that.

pnwlover12 · August 2014

My question:

Who was your WK yesterday? The one with the tits and duck lips?

jenndub · August 2014

krysgreg said:

@jessAnnj .... You can do that ??? No I'm kidding, i really did feel bad as soon a i hit reply. I know we are all going threw one of the toughest roughest times of our life's and I should have never said it. I really didn't want to make any one feel bad and internet or not, it could have effected a person in a negative way. My grammar is so bad I know, but someone pointing out every little flaw I made really got to me in a negative way. I didn't come here to get an English lesson, I'm an expecting mother going threw the same things as every one else and just wanted to have some advice and be able to talk to woman going threw what I'm going threw

I missed the drama yesterday, luckily, but I'm confused about the bolded. This is definitely not one of the toughest, roughest times of my life. I just feel like that's a strange statement. And after the few examples that have been provided of yesterday's outbursts, I think you need to be a little bit more understanding if some people are still pissed.

krysngreg · August 2014

What is WK ?

Saragoeswest · August 2014

@Cantisa Thank you! I always forget that one.

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