Was Supposed to Be a March15 Mom, Too

theoryofwhat · August 2014

Early July I'd posted about the mini pill and how it resulted in an unexpected BFP for me. My due date was March 5, 2015.

I lost the baby July 29th and had a D&C July 30th. I've kept my distance since the loss because I needed time to heal.

I recently saw some comments in a thread here remarking that M14 had just had their first BFP, it's on the front page as of now. I'm not posting this because I had the first BFP and want a trophy or something. I'm posting because I feel as if my baby has been forgotten. It's probably selfish or rude of me to post this, maybe even strange or pointless to some.

I guess I'm being a crazy pants right now, but my point is that I had a baby. While I only got to have Bean for 8w5d, Bean is still important.

NorthernGal248 · August 2014

I am really sorry for your loss. You are 100% to say that Bean is important. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

ho11yday · August 2014

I'm sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.

tbiscuit18 · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. Bean is important and you are not a crazy pants. Bean will never be forgotten. I had 2 losses before DS. They were so hard. My Thoughts and prayers are with you. ((Hugs))

LunaBug924 · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs)))

candrew05 · August 2014

Never forgetting your bean...we love you!

RachelCA29 · August 2014

I'm so sorry @yayglitter‌ !! I'd been wondering where you had bee since the other BFPs started popping up. I hope you and your family have the love and support to heal like you need to!!

springbeduk2 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss! Also had not forgotten about you and your Bean with the other announcement(s?) and was wondering how you were doing. Very sorry to hear this news; hugs and best wishes for healing.

QOTR · August 2014

I'm sorry for your loss.

flockofmoosen3 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. Someone did add to the other BFP thread that you had M14's first BFP so you were definitely not forgotten.

ETA: It was @kaylee524 who said you were the first. Again, so sorry and thoughts & prayers to u and your family.

Mikki62 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss.

yvanehtnioj · August 2014

I'm so sorry. I remembered.

giggler25 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage last summer and know that it is so difficult to go through. Hugs to you. Your bean will always be with you! Please try to take care of yourself during this difficult time.