So far today all I've accomplished is a meal plan and a grocery list. The rain is making me want to just lounge. I think I'm going to bake something. Brownies or cookies?
Oh well, I am a label avoider "we don't have to title it cause they don't know about us" person. Always have been. I have abandonment and rejection issues. I feel like if I you're one of my people I let you know it through my actions.
That's understandable. DH and I never had the are we dating talk. We just did our thing until he asked me to marry him.
Oh well, I am a label avoider "we don't have to title it cause they don't know about us" person. Always have been. I have abandonment and rejection issues. I feel like if I you're one of my people I let you know it through my actions.
This is interesting to me, because I have abandonment and rejection issues, too, which is why I seek a label as a layer of security. I've dealt with the "Well, it wasn't technically cheating" thing several times.
This and what @guiltypleasures said are giving me some perspective.
Also, as time passes I'm less emotional about it and thus less annoyed. The nap I just took helped, too
@loonylovejoy the transition period will be challenging, but she'll adjust. DS had to be fed from an open cup for several months before he's finally take a sippy (at which point we stopped giving pumped milk and started giving water and almond milk). He also learned how to nap at DC without nursing down. Wish he'd do that at home
Sitting at work waiting to clock on. The 5 o clock person didn't come in so that means I have to do to go orders. I just hope the 6 o clock person doesn't try to take over.
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightningin your eyes I can't deny Then there’s me inside a sinkingboat running out of time Without you I'll never make it out alive But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
Awesome. DS burned his finger on my steam iron thing so we left him sobbing, begging us not to leave for this wedding with my inlaws. And we're going to be late because of this drama. I don't even want to go anymore.
DS is 1DAF
"I realize I say the word fuck a lot, and I'd like to apologize but I don't give a shit." -Lewis Black
I am feeling a little insecure today. Yesterday, DH mentioned that he and the seller of our new car hit it off. He said they really got along. I feel like a teenager again, like, "OMG, you looked at her!11!!
We had a conversation a week or so ago about this very thing. He saw an old classmate in a restaurant, and he talked about how nice she was back in high school to a coworker who thought he was implying, "I would do her now." I mentioned that most guys can't say stuff like that without somebody thinking that's what they mean. He was all like, "Yeah, I thought about not telling you after coworker reacted like that." I was like, "I'm glad you know you can tell me things without thinking I'm thinking what coworker thought."
So now I'm all insecure for no apparent reason. I'm probably about to start AF in that case.
I'm feeling irritated for similar reasons this morning, @katnhiding.
Sorry jumping in here I know but I've been feeling this was the 11.5 months dd has been alive...dh hasn't bonded with her and he stresses when she cries or fusses and doesn't know how to fix it.
*goes back to reading*
Leave him with her like go get your nails done.
I've tried. It was working well but then mil passed so I'm kind of trying to do the balancing act between leaving him alone with her to bond and such and not leaving her when he's too stressed and will lead to the opposite affect (effect idk sorry guise) that I want.
Re: Saturday Spam/Randoms?
This and what @guiltypleasures said are giving me some perspective.
Also, as time passes I'm less emotional about it and thus less annoyed. The nap I just took helped, too
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
I feel like a teenager again, like, "OMG, you looked at her!11!!
We had a conversation a week or so ago about this very thing. He saw an old classmate in a restaurant, and he talked about how nice she was back in high school to a coworker who thought he was implying, "I would do her now."
I mentioned that most guys can't say stuff like that without somebody thinking that's what they mean.
He was all like, "Yeah, I thought about not telling you after coworker reacted like that."
I was like, "I'm glad you know you can tell me things without thinking I'm thinking what coworker thought."
So now I'm all insecure for no apparent reason.
I'm probably about to start AF in that case.