Weekend Throat Punch

blackbird818 · August 2014

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rslh10 · August 2014

@readinglove‌ fucking AF, she's such an asshole.

mpiemont · August 2014

@readinglove Not cool...not cool at all.

pinkglitterfly · August 2014

@readinglove‌ AF sucks. What a shitty bday present.
My TP goes out to my SO. He is being such a baby right now. He thinks that I need to be home all the time and I think has the mind set that if I leave the house I will cheat on him. Yes I am in the TWW and my emotions are high and sensitive either way but you damn fool. If I didn't love you I wouldn't be here!! I swear men have pms every other week. He my get a dick punch instead of a TP.

@LDubHawksFan‌ don't you just love that.......it's one of my pevs since my loss along with the never ending list of pregnancy announcements on fb.

pinkglitterfly · August 2014

@furrypaws‌ he hasn't said it directly but it's the thought. His dad is the same way. They think a women's place is in the house. It's his only flaw. He knows I don't put up with it. He's just pissy because I was asked to play softball lastnight vas he wasn't. Jealous baby.

MBJune · August 2014

@readinglove‌ I'm sorry! AF is a bitch, sorry she showed up on your birthday!
@LDubHawksFan‌ (((hugs)))
@glitterfly123‌ I'm so your SO is being jealous! DH gets like that sometimes too, drives me nuts!
My TP goes to my DH. I told him that we needed to really clean the house today and if he was planning on sitting on the couch while I cleaned he should just leave. Well, he went to his mom's. I know I gave him the option but still! It's my fault, but he still pisses me off!

rslh10 · August 2014

MBJune said:
@readinglove‌ I'm sorry! AF is a bitch, sorry she showed up on your birthday!
@LDubHawksFan‌ (((hugs)))
@glitterfly123‌ I'm so your SO is being jealous! DH gets like that sometimes too, drives me nuts!
My TP goes to my DH. I told him that we needed to really clean the house today and if he was planning on sitting on the couch while I cleaned he should just leave. Well, he went to his mom's. I know I gave him the option but still! It's my fault, but he still pisses me off!

AND WHILE YOURE IN THE TWW?! OMG. tp to his ass.

merc5411 · August 2014

@readinglove Happy Birthday. Sorry that bitch AF showed her face.

@LDubHawksFan I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Did you use Resting Bitch Face?

@pinkglitterfly I agree a dick punch may be warranted here.

@MBJune I would seriously TP him. Clean half the house, then when he gets home, tell him you left him a list and go do something you want to do.

TP to my dh for telling me that I need to set an alarm on my phone for the laundry. I completely admit that I forget laundry in both the washer and dryer. It takes me all day to wash and dry 2-3 loads. But apparently it is too difficult for him to remind me I have a load in dryer, even though he always remembers. I know it's a stupid thing to be mad at him about, but it just pisses me off. I mean, I'm doing HIS laundry. Be appreciative about it, not a dick.

Km380 · August 2014

@readinglove‌ stupid AF! What a bitch coming and on your birthday too.

@LDubHawksFan‌ so many (((hugs))) sweetie. That is such shit, I'm sorry you're dealing with that

@MBJune‌ wow. I'm amazed he actually left. Dick move for sure. Can you "forget" to clean up some of his stuff lol

@pinkglitterfly‌ that's really shitty of him I'm sorry. Sometimes mh jokes I'm going to leave him and I always respond with something like "yeah that's why I'm sticking pills in my hooha and gave myself a shot. Dumbass" it's all said in jest though. Huge to tp YH

MBJune · August 2014

@merc4511 TP to your DH. At least you get the laundry done and he has clean clothes.
@furrypaws‌ I'm sorry your having a tough time with your mom. Huge (((hugs))). You have a lot to deal with.

Thanks ladies! DH came home as I was finishing making the bed and offered to help...umm no thanks, I did everything else alone, I don't want help now. Ugh!

paintdadanta · August 2014

TP to my grandmother's neighbor. We just got back from celebrating my grandfather's 80th birthday and a lot their neighbors that I grew up around where there. But one that I use to be close with came up to me while we were getting the food and said "I can't believe you're married now and a baby on the way." I was shocked and devastated. I quickly stated I'm not and quickly walked out of the house and started crying. At least DH followed me and tried to help me get it back together. A couple hours later she did apologize but I'm just still upset about it. I don't know if my grandparents told them the initial news and not the loss or if she assumed it since my mother later commented that my sundress made me look it (never wearing that again now). I need a shot of whiskey . . .

CreechMommy · August 2014

@LDubHawksFan I'm so sorry. People don't think before they talk - big TP to her!

@furrypaws ((hugs)) to you. That's a tough situation. Hope you are able to get some rest soon

CreechMommy · August 2014

TP to people who feel that, during pregnancy, everything has relate back to their pregnancy. Wanting a certain food? Must be pregnancy. Doing ALS ice bucket challenge? Make sure you let the world know the water is not too cold so "baby will be ok" Making spicy food? Let's all comment on our experience with chili during different pregnancies instead of just letting the girl make chili. Oh and my favorite - just throwing the fact you are pregnant into random conversation just in case ppl forgot.
STFU!!!

MBJune · August 2014

@paintdadanta‌ I'm so sorry you had to go through that. (((Hugs)))

CandST2014 · August 2014

Tonight, a friend asked how I was feeling as today is a week post d&c. I said physically I'm fine but it's been a tough week emotionally. To which she responded, "well you never even saw a heartbeat right? It's not like something died". Ugh My heart goes out to everyone else dealing with assholes this weekend. As if we need that on top of what is already going on.

pinkglitterfly · August 2014

@CandST2014‌ OMFG!!! How did you not snap? It seems like everyone has had a shitty aspect to their week. I swear to god there's a full moon in the jackass kingdom. ((Hugs!!!!!))

CandST2014 · August 2014

Thanks @pinkglitterfly‌! I honestly was too shocked at her response to even get upset in the moment. But I am realizing that this type of loss is not something many people understand unless they've experienced it.

CreechMommy · August 2014

@CandST2014‌ what an asshole!!! People can be so insensitive. No matter what stage of pregnancy loss - your baby is still your baby. And it's still a devestating loss ((hugs)) to you

stinybean · August 2014

@CandST2014‌ What a bitch! How dare she say that! I'm so sorry that she was repulsively (so not a word) insensitive. It truly amazes me what people say!

rslh10 · August 2014

paintdadanta said:
TP to my grandmother's neighbor. We just got back from celebrating my grandfather's 80th birthday and a lot their neighbors that I grew up around where there. But one that I use to be close with came up to me while we were getting the food and said "I can't believe you're married now and a baby on the way." I was shocked and devastated. I quickly stated I'm not and quickly walked out of the house and started crying. At least DH followed me and tried to help me get it back together. A couple hours later she did apologize but I'm just still upset about it. I don't know if my grandparents told them the initial news and not the loss or if she assumed it since my mother later commented that my sundress made me look it (never wearing that again now). I need a shot of whiskey . . .

No. Just no. I am so sorry you had to deal with that shit.

rslh10 · August 2014

CandST2014 said:
Tonight, a friend asked how I was feeling as today is a week post d&c. I said physically I'm fine but it's been a tough week emotionally. To which she responded, "well you never even saw a heartbeat right? It's not like something died". Ugh

My heart goes out to everyone else dealing with assholes this weekend. As if we need that on top of what is already going on.

SO MANY TP'S!!!!!! Big hugs lady. I am so sorry.

Elliecat17 · August 2014

CandST2014 OMFG. No just no! You still loved it no matter how young or early or anything else! People just do not always think before they speak!

TP to Facebook. It has suddenly decided (I guess since I have done some shopping for relatives) that I must be KU and therefore all the ads are: do this for baby, avoid stretch marks, etc. Guess it's time for a FB break again, and more online shopping for fabric! lol

jjbmstinco · August 2014

People are so dumb! I am sorry you all have to deal with idiots!

lyndz333 · August 2014

@paintdadanta - I can't believe your mom would say that. Icing on top of a shit cake much? Thanks mom. Sorry you had to deal with that.

@candst2014 - What your friend said is grounds for reading her the riot act. Seriously. Sorry that your friend was so insensitive.

***********************************Random BFP Mentioned, Not Mine**************************************

I never understood why you guys were all about staying off FB, until today. TP goes to a lady who showed up in my feed - I belong to a group on FB and she happens to belong there as well. First, she posts something every two effing minutes about how she is pregnant. Today she posted how she is only 8 weeks and can "tell she is having a girl" and how disappointed she is. I wanted to choke her. I told her to pray for a healthy baby regardless of the sex which was so much more tame then what I wanted to say. Peoples' stupidity knows no bounds.

jjbmstinco · August 2014

@PetraStonegirl-I am so sorry. I wish you didn't have to be prepared or go through any of this!

sunflwra · August 2014

This should have technically been a Thursday TP but I guess I'm still processing and getting more and more frustrated every day. TP to modern medicine for seeming to be able to do a whole heck of a lot of wonderful things, but still can't give me a "reason" as to why my daughter was taken from me. No infection, no chromosomal abnormalities, no clotting disorders, no reason why her heart just stopped beating. It wasn't enough that my son was taken 7 months earlier because of a 'fluke' cord accident- that was heartbreaking enough but at least there was a definitive reason.

I know this is a total vent, so forgive me- but the idea of running a gazillion tests and still coming up with nothing just deserves a serious TP and a swift kick in the gonads as far as I'm concerned

sunflwra · August 2014

@LDubHawksFan- Ugh- I'm so sorry hon, that's just shitty

@readinglove - Happy Birthday!! And a big FU with you to AF.

@MBJune - sometimes they just don't freaking get it!

@paintdadanta - so sorry you had to deal with that. The only reason I "came out" about our loss on FB was that we announced there and I was getting random notes from people about my pregnancy a few months later. I know it came from a good place and they were trying to be nice thinking of me, but each one was a little stab in the heart.

@furrypaws - it's so tough to be there for others when it seems like we're barely making it through most days. You're doing the best that you can in a tough situation and that's all that you can do. I'm sure your Mom appreciates it, she's just having a tough time looking past her on shit right now. Big hugs to you hon!

@CandST2014- what a bitch!!! I do truly believe that you're a mama as soon as you find out your are pregnant. You are invested and your dreams and ideas and whole future changes. It doesn't matter if you're pregnant for 9 seconds or 9 months- it is a loss and I'm so saddened by people that just don't get that. I'm so sorry.

sunflwra · August 2014

@PetraStonegirl - I'm so, so sorry hon. I wish one or more of us lived right next door and could hug on you through all of this. I've been through vaginal Cytotec more than once unfortunately, but some times were easier than others, so I really hope it goes easier than you expect. We'll be thinking of you and your husband.

Km380 · August 2014

@PetraStonegirl‌ so many (((hugs))) I'm so sorry, there really are no words. My heartbreaks for you. You and Mr Petra are in my thoughts

What a shitty shit weekend this has been for so many (((hugs))) to all that need them

lyndz333 · August 2014

@PetraStonegirl - I am so so sorry. What a mind fuck.

jjbmstinco · August 2014

@sunflwra- I am sorry don't have answers. The universe does need a TP! ((hugs))

sunflwra · August 2014

Thanks ladies :x Now just to get through the next few weeks until our MFM appointment without totally wallowing. Off to have a margarita and get prepared for True Blood!

mpiemont · August 2014

@petrastonegirl I am so sorry you have to go through this. I hope it's as quick and painless as possible.

rslh10 · August 2014

Oh @PetraStonegirl‌ I am so sorry. I just wanted to offer giant squishy hugs!

Everyone else, holy hell. I'm so sorry all of your weekends have sucked! Many hugs to all of you.

My TP is to Ionia pharmacy in California. I ordered my trigger early tuesday, and paid in full. They were 2 day shipping it TO BE HERE FRIDAY because my appointment for a follie scan is tomorrow at 9:45am. Yeah, it's not here. I called Friday and the woman I spoke with said "I will call and find out it's location and call you back"...nothing. Didn't hear from her, and they're not open on the weekend.

So now I don't have my trigger, im out $109, and I will have to trigger whenever it freakin gets here. It's not that hard to ship something!!

rslh10 · August 2014

ashtog said:
@rslh10 TPs to that for sure! I am sorry, that must be so stressful to now have to wait even longer.. I don't know anything about medicated cycles, but how soon can you trigger when it arrives? {{hugs}}

If my follies were good sized (18-22mm) tomorrow at the appointment, I was going to trigger then. If the shot comes tomorrow, I'll get it around 2 which isn't terrible because I've triggered later than that before. But my best luck was my trigger at 10am so I was hoping to get an early shot this round too.

It's never freakin easy!

beemaya83 · August 2014

Wow! I'm sorry ladies to hear about all your TP's..... @CandST2014‌ I cannot believe it!!!

sunflwra · August 2014

@rslh10 - Ugh- as if you need anything to make it more difficult!! Definite TPs!!

merc5411 · August 2014

@PetraStoneGirl I am so incredibly sorry you have to go through this. Hugs!

mpiemont · August 2014

@rslh10 I would be LIVID. I'm so sorry. Hopefully it gets there ASAP. And I'd be talking to someone about getting my $ back. Let me know how the follies are lookin'.

@candst2014 Wow...just wow. I probably would have delivered an actual TP.

jjbmstinco · August 2014

@rslh10- can you pick it up at the post office earlier instead of getting it delivered to your house? That might speed things up?

rslh10 · August 2014

jjbmstinco said:
@rslh10- can you pick it up at the post office earlier instead of getting it delivered to your house? That might speed things up?

Look at you with a sweet ass suggestion!! Will be calling in the AM!

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