Here's mine. I have three rings. The engagement band and two "wedding" bands. DH gave me one band the night before we got married after the rehearsal dinner. He said he felt like we were already married and wanted to give me a band just us, to show the private commitment we had made. The other band was for the actual wedding with everyone in attendance.
I'm totes drinking Dr. Pepper and eating Goldfish right now..
Random rant: My mom really pissed me off last night. She and my dad have been bugging us about when we're going to get married, so she sends me a text asking if my dad needs to call my SO and talk about the wedding. I asked her what she meant and she asked if there was going to be one. I was like, yes when we're ready to get married, and she said she hopes she could be there. It's not like she can just drop everything and be there if we tell them Monday that we're getting married on Saturday. I said she was acting like she wasn't going to be a part of the planning process. Then she proceeded to tell me that she apparently needs to lower her expectations because people these days don't always do what you expect them to. I was like wow I'm sorry I didn't live up to your expectations! We're going to get married but we're going to do it when WE want to do it, not because we're being pressured into it. I also told her it's not fair for her to try and pressure us into making a decision like that when we're not ready for it. She said she was sorry and she hopes I'm still speaking to her. I was like, dramatic much? She finally said she would love to help but only if we ask. She was really skirting the line between pushy and offensive and it really upset me how she was being! The worst part is, my mom has been so supportive up to this point! I just don't think it's fair to try and push someone to get married just because they are having a baby. Sorry things didn't work out the way we originally wanted it to but I'm still so thrilled to have a healthy baby growing inside me!
Also, congrats to those of you who have had good appointments today! Fx for those who have appointments coming up!
Here's mine. I have three rings. The engagement band and two "wedding" bands. DH gave me one band the night before we got married after the rehearsal dinner. He said he felt like we were already married and wanted to give me a band just us, to show the private commitment we had made. The other band was for the actual wedding with everyone in attendance.
@meladoriestar No advice, just hugs. I'm in the same boat. I finally started exercising more & that has helped a bit, but it's been pretty shitty since 5-6 wks. I'm sorry you're struggling & aren't allowed to exercise! I'd be in a padded room if they took my bike away. My midwife said I could go back on Lexapro if I need to, so we'll see... I just want to be a happy pregnant lady!
I'm currently waiting for my oil change & pretending to plan this week's meals... but then I saw everyone's gorgeous rings & had to share mine! @SNLT1012 I'm so excited for you!!
Here are mine! The band was my grandmothers wedding band. That's the ring he proposed with (he was still in school and my mum offered it to him). He bought the ring in front for the wedding day.
It was a little different than the norm but it's so special to be wearing my grandmothers ring every day.
@jessuhmarie I actually have that one favorited right now. The only thing I don't like is the fact that I would feel like my ring is uneven on side when I add in the wedding band. And that ring would be almost $100 more for my fat fingers from that seller and IDK, I could get a fat kid ring from other sellers for the same price as a skinny girl's ring.
Now I really hate my coworker (the Fuck Face that I've mentioned before). He forgot to submit a project 3-4 MONTHS AGO. He doesn't even remember exactly. Apparently he got distracted on a Friday afternoon and just completely forgot about it. Now he wants me to bust my ass to get it done because my director needed it like...3-4 months ago.
I'm seriously not going to try that hard to get it done. With my appointment tomorrow and lunch, I'll be lucky to be at work for 4 hours. Then I'm leaving on Friday for a whole week. It'll get done eventually, but I'm not going to work any harder to help a douche bag out. Good luck, sucka.
Love the rings!! My hubby did a good job with mine I felt like he really knew my tastes. I like vintage. Please ignore the hideous star tattoo, unfortunately I felt it was a great idea to tat my ex's name on my ring finger n had to have it covered. ( dh is so sweet he went and got an ugly star on his finger too to make me feel better)
Hey Ladies! I just wanted to stop by and say "Hi!". I am feeling a little better after finally starting diclegis, but still have almost no time to bump. I wish I could jump on the bling train... I have a vintage inspired set with a pink cushion cut. Love it! I'll see if I can post a pic later.
FX for good appts and hugs to those who need them!
Love the rings!! My hubby did a good job with mine I felt like he really knew my tastes. I like vintage. Please ignore the hideous star tattoo, unfortunately I felt it was a great idea to tat my ex's name on my ring finger n had to have it covered. ( dh is so sweet he went and got an ugly star on his finger too to make me feel better)
That is the cutest thing ever what your husband did!!
@jessuhmarie I'm taking my maiden name as my middle name as well. I asked when we went to get our marriage license if the woman knew how to go about doing that and she said to just let them know at the SS office and the DMV.
Was it really that easy for you to change your middle name? It seems like there would be more legalities to it than just "hey, can you change my shitty middle name to this cooler one?"
Guise, I keep trying to peruse other posts...but every single day the only one I give a rats ass about is the random thread. The rest of them I pop in and right back out. I feel really bad...but in the end:
@jessuhmarie I'm taking my maiden name as my middle name as well. I asked when we went to get our marriage license if the woman knew how to go about doing that and she said to just let them know at the SS office and the DMV.
Was it really that easy for you to change your middle name? It seems like there would be more legalities to it than just "hey, can you change my shitty middle name to this cooler one?"
It really is that easy. I did the exact same thing - Last name became Middle, crappy middle name went to hell. You just fill out a form with your new name, with a marriage license they do not seem to care what you do with your name.
I will NOT be in chat, but I THINK I know what you have to say. Send me a message if you want. If @SNLT1012 is in chat, maybe she can spread some of the epic hilarity coming down on our ends.
I will absolutely be in the chat tonight, come hell or high water. You bet your ass.
Maybe we need to come up with an official unofficial starting time? I usually pop in every 30 minutes or so starting around 8, but people usually aren't there till after 9 EST
I didn't think I was going to have one - but my husband surprised me big time.
Excuse my bloated hand - and the multiple ring thing is somewhat of a tradition in his family.
The engagement (top)ring is a 1860 estate ring with India old mine diamonds.
The bottom ring is my original wedding band made from scrap family jewelry by a local jeweler. The second was a gift with our wedding colors. The third is a second wedding ring he surprised me with at our ceremony because he didn't like the first. I'll get a matching one to go on top of the engagement ring after the babe is born.
I will NOT be in chat, but I THINK I know what you have to say. Send me a message if you want. If @SNLT1012 is in chat, maybe she can spread some of the epic hilarity coming down on our ends.
Did you guys get a heads up?
It depends on what you mean by "heads up"...we weren't told some shit until after it was already gone.
Damn it I'm so curious what's going down in chat tonight... I'll be in school doing hair, but may have free time in between if I can have the chat link. But after school my best friend and I are hanging out for a bit because she made it in town, so I wouldn't be on around then. But gosh I'm so interested! Lol
Mine is a two-tone and I love it more than I thought I would. The center is a gold band solitaire which was our engagement ring. It was DH's grandmother's engagement ring :x The wrap is a white gold with diamond chips that I picked for myself for the wedding band. H's "matches" with a silver titanium band and a strip of gold around the center.
ETA: Made it a little bigger.
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@hollmb I love their black bean soup when not pregnant. I have their schedule for it memorized. However I can't eat there when pregnant. No matter what I get I throw up every time. I had a horrific loss dream last night. I haven't had one in a few weeks. Ugh. Also, I'm really afraid that my HG has stepped up and this is my new norm. If it is, I'm not sure how long I can stave off the hospital and IV fluids. I want to cry.
I enjoyed scrolling through all of your ring pics while I ate lunch. Since we just celebrated 5 years I have been going through our pics. The ones they took of our rings are beautiful, except the stacked mine upsidedown.
I hope you feel better @MrsLaurenandDan!! FX you can stay out of the hospital!
I'll try to chat tonight... But once I'm in it's like I get sucked into a void and then poof! It's midnight and I'm going to bed too late. Y'all are just too awesome, is the problem. ;-)
I'm inspired by @meladoriestar and I am going to try to cook dinner for the first time in weeks! Any ideas? Nothing sounds good to me right now. We had enchiladas last night (H heated up a pan I made/froze last month). If I leave work a little early I can run to the grocery store on my way home and get some supplies.
@MandJS I want a redhead too! My grandma is Irish and a redhead and my SO is a strawberry blonde with a lot of red so here's to hoping! @luckystarz I know someone who is from Central America, dark skin and hair and her and her husband have one of the prettiest redheads I've ever seen, so you never know!!
@SNLT1012 I love the rings you picked out!! I too want a morganite with rose gold. I think it's a little out of the box and just new, especially since we don't have any family jewelry. I love looking at everyone's bling too!! So pretty!
Congrats to everyone on their good appts today!
@chrain I'm sorry about your hubby's car. Broken down cars are awful! Hope he finds something good and gets a fantastic deal!!
Usually chat doesn't get moving much until 9 EST. Us east coasters get screwed because all of you are in there being like - oh, I have to go eat dinner or something and I'm like ...damn, it is 11:00 here!! I usually go into chat between 8:30 and 9:30 and stay until 10 or 11. That's EST though. And that is usually when it is most active, but we have had some good conversations go until the wee hours EST before...
So it varies!
I'll likely be in my usual time. Around 9:00ish EST.
Oh! I want to play the ring game! The engagement ring is vintage, purchased from an antique jeweler. The part I love most is that the sides look like the base of the Eiffel Tower turned upside down. The band is new, just something simple that sort of echoes the intricacies of the e ring.
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I'm currently waiting for my oil change & pretending to plan this week's meals... but then I saw everyone's gorgeous rings & had to share mine! @SNLT1012 I'm so excited for you!!
It was a little different than the norm but it's so special to be wearing my grandmothers ring every day.
Hey Ladies! I just wanted to stop by and say "Hi!". I am feeling a little better after finally starting diclegis, but still have almost no time to bump. I wish I could jump on the bling train... I have a vintage inspired set with a pink cushion cut. Love it! I'll see if I can post a pic later.
FX for good appts and hugs to those who need them!
I didn't think I was going to have one - but my husband surprised me big time.
Excuse my bloated hand - and the multiple ring thing is somewhat of a tradition in his family.
The engagement (top)ring is a 1860 estate ring with India old mine diamonds.
The bottom ring is my original wedding band made from scrap family jewelry by a local jeweler. The second was a gift with our wedding colors. The third is a second wedding ring he surprised me with at our ceremony because he didn't like the first. I'll get a matching one to go on top of the engagement ring after the babe is born.
Oh no I'm sorry about the HG.
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I'll try to chat tonight... But once I'm in it's like I get sucked into a void and then poof! It's midnight and I'm going to bed too late. Y'all are just too awesome, is the problem. ;-)
I'm inspired by @meladoriestar and I am going to try to cook dinner for the first time in weeks! Any ideas? Nothing sounds good to me right now. We had enchiladas last night (H heated up a pan I made/froze last month). If I leave work a little early I can run to the grocery store on my way home and get some supplies.
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@SNLT1012 I love the rings you picked out!! I too want a morganite with rose gold. I think it's a little out of the box and just new, especially since we don't have any family jewelry. I love looking at everyone's bling too!! So pretty!
Congrats to everyone on their good appts today!
@chrain I'm sorry about your hubby's car. Broken down cars are awful! Hope he finds something good and gets a fantastic deal!!
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