TTC after 35

TTC>35 weekly check-in 8/13

This check in is for anyone on this board to participate in and will occur every Wednesday. If you are new here and haven't made a separate intro on the main board please do so before checking in so we can "meet" you!  It's easy to do just click the new discussion button in the top right and post away.  

1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.


2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?

3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?

4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?

5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)

QOTW: What is one NTTCR goal you have now?

Feel free to add any vents or shout outs.
Me: 37                                               
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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Re: TTC>35 weekly check-in 8/13

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  • NTTCR ... OK I'm new here ... is this Non Trying To Conceive (whats the 'R'?) Goal?
    If so it's get all my ducks in a row to finally get my bachelors degree!! Classes done just need to organize records and file paperwork :)
    Sorry, yes, it is Not Trying to Conceive Related
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • Forgot my shout outs!
    @JimBobCooter for good news this week
    and @Hooligans4 for a Happy Birthday!
  • Hugs @meredithcarole that is stressing me out just reading about it.  I hope things go differently for your friend but I can really relate to your feelings.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • @JimBobCooter‌ We are in Hobbs, but we got married in Santa Fe. Love it there!
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  • tlc35 said:
    Hugs @meredithcarole that is stressing me out just reading about it.  I hope things go differently for your friend but I can really relate to your feelings.

    I really hope I didn't upset you too much by posting this TLC. I needed to talk about it, but definitely didn't want to mention it on ttcal. I know you know exactly how I feel :(
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    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • @meredithcarole, I'm sorry for the situation with your friend.  FX everything is just fine.

    Good luck on your sommelier certification exam.  Very cool!
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • 1. deepfriedtwinky, MA

    2. TTC #1 - just started this month

    3. Charting, temping; looking into OPKs, eating mostly organic foods (tried baby spinach - who knew i'd like it when I usually despise spinach?), hitting the gym 3x week now - still trying to get in touch with the doc to see if there are any roadblocks for DH and I to start TTC - getting a little concerned if this is how long it takes to connect with her. 

    4. Still waiting for AF. Skin started breaking out a bit this week - not sure if that's stress or a sign. 

    5. Feeling pretty good, despite the things mentioned above. Trying not to be stressed about finishing dental work before a BFP, but that's awfully optimistic that i'd even have that problem.

    QOTW: One NTTCR goal I have is to start volunteering somewhere (currently unemployed) to keep myself busy and not 100% obsessed about TTC. 
    married since: September 2011
    TTC since: August 2014
    DH: 35
    Me: 35
  • Hi ladies! Seems like everyone's got a lot going on this week, I love it!

    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from.
    obscurereference, FL

    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC #3, sort of

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    NTNP for now. DH and I are exhausted so sex isn't happening very often (which I'm fine with). I'm planning on charting after my next cycle starts. I made the decision to wean DS at the end of the month if I haven't gotten AF again by then. It sucks, but no time to waste!

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    I had some spotting at the beginning of July that I counted as my first PP period so I'm on CD32 right now. I tested on Sunday for the hell of it: BFN of course. That just reinforces the fact that I have no idea what's going on with my cycle right now.

    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    I don't really feel anything about this cycle. I know we need to get started trying sooner rather than later (DS took 8 cycles to conceive), but I just can't get excited for the sex part yet, ugh. Scheduling sex can suck it!

    QOTW: What is one NTTCR goal you have now?
    I started having lower back/hip/sciatica pain after DD was born and I've been struggling with it ever since. I'm really trying to get a handle on it before I get pregnant again because pregnancy just makes it worse. My chiro suggested I try to eliminate common food allergens to see if that does anything, so next week I go wheat-free for 2 weeks. I guess that's sort of TTC related...well, I need to get healthier regardless of whether or not there's another baby!
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  • tlc35 said:
    Hugs @meredithcarole that is stressing me out just reading about it.  I hope things go differently for your friend but I can really relate to your feelings.

    I really hope I didn't upset you too much by posting this TLC. I needed to talk about it, but definitely didn't want to mention it on ttcal. I know you know exactly how I feel :(
    No worries.  I am fine.  I'm glad to have a safe place we can talk about these things.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
  • I'll be thinking of you tomorrow @CML11!!
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  • OMG @CML11 I am keeping everything crossed for you tomorrow!!
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
    imagerainbows
              
    All welcome                                   
                              
  • Good luck, @CML11!  FX for you!
    *****Signature/Ticker Warning******

    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • Radiantly said:
    4. In the HOME STRETCH ladies and feeling excited!  I'm on DPO10 or 11 and have been having sore/full boobs since a couple days after O. I've been having mild cramps for a couple days, down by my uterus.  And LADIES!!!  I THINK I AM HAVING IMPLANTATION BLEEDING RIGHT NOW!!  I'm cramping lightly and having dark brown spotting.  We just watched a movie so it's been over 2 hours and hasn't turned into a period yet... praying this is it.  I am nervous and so excited.

    I hope you're right--good luck!

    QOTW: My goal would be to stop stressing over being overweight. I think the more I stress out about it, the more I make unhealthy choices.
    Ugh, yes.  I wish I could do this, too.  Sure, it would definitely be healthier for me to be at a lower BMI, and I'm working on it (although not very effectively, obviously), but what's really causing problems right now is how I feel about it and how that's impacting my behavior.  I'm so sick of obsessing about whether people are looking at my back fat!  I have better things to worry about!

    @Davie813‌ Sorry you are struggling right now. Have you tried an app like MyFitnessPal? I lost (and maintained the loss) 15 lbs be just being more mindful of what I was doing. The app helped me realize how much of something I could have without doing major calorie damage. Just a thought. :)

    Thanks!  I'll look into it!
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    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • I'm checking in only to say I'm on a TTC break. I have been feeling depressed and stressed for the last few weeks and BFNs do me no good. My weight-loss has stalled because I quit trying. We are in the middle of buying a house and that in itself is stressful. Then my grandmother passed away and family gatherings are super intense since my parent's divorce.

    I wish all of you ladies (most of you are new, welcome!) the best of luck!! I will lurk to hopefully see some BFP's!!

    I'll be back, one day.
    *TW below*
    Me: 40 DH: 38
    TTC since November 2012
    BFP IUI Cycle 2 Dec 2016
    Baby Boy Due Sept 12 2017
    Elias (Eli) born 9/2/17 at 7:07pm weight 8lbs 10oz and 20.5 inches long!!


  • @soontobeshrader, I'm sorry about your grandmother, and that you're going through such a tough time.  Hugs to you and your husband, and I hope you're feeling better soon.  We'll be thinking of you!

    Congratulations on buying your house.  I hope the stressful part is done soon!
    *****Signature/Ticker Warning******

    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • Ally1177Ally1177 member
    edited August 2014
    1. Your Name or Screen Name (not full names) and State you are from. 
    Ally from New York
    2. How long have you been TTC? Are you TTC #1,#2,#3, etc.?
    TTC for approx 8 months with #1

    3. What are you doing this cycle? Are you seeking help with a fertility specialist (RE)? If so, what stage are you in? Charting/temping? Testing? Medicated cycles? IUI? IVF? DE?
    Temping & using Wondfo OPK 

    4. Where are you in your cycle? (Waiting to O, 2WW etc) If in the 2ww when will you test? Experiencing any weird "phantom" symptoms ladies in your 2ww?
    Waiting to O (CD12 - so almost there!)


    5. How do you feel about this cycle? (Are you hopeful, anxious... etc)
    I'm hopeful - DH gets home tonight from being gone all week so hopefully he will be ready for the BD tonight! I think it'll be good timing!

    QOTW: What is one NTTCR goal you have now?
    At this very moment it is to clean my house before DH gets home! :)
    Married since 10-20-2007
    Age: 37
    DH Age: 38
    TTC #1 since January 2014
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