I am really sorry I said anything. I didn't mean the hormone remark. I am terrible with words. I wanted to be supportive but it totally backfired. And I am sorry. I guess I am just hormonal and had to get it out and it came out in this ugly twisted way. Please forgive me. I don't know what is going on here. I still need to learn. I don't know you ladies yet. I was out of place.
@allbrittle an apology goes a long way on these boards. And people have said far, far worse than what you did. If you want to stay and hang out, you'll be fine!
I am just hurt and embarrassed. This is not how a woman should be made to feel. And I am obviously not good with my words. And I haven't gotten to know the people who have been here long term but was hoping to build some friendships but I am a new here so I just don't understand.
Ever heard the saying "no one can make you feel inferior with out your permission"?? chalk the hurt and embarrassment up to learning a valuable life lesson(or at least a TB Board lesson), get some rest and come back another day with a fresh POV.
You are not the first person here to get jumped on for something, most of us have at some point.
In her defense she said sorry a couple times and then many others started to chime in and agree. When she said sorry that should've been the end of that. (Maybe she should've changed the title) we are all adults here and getting this crazy is a little ridiculous. We are all here for the same reason, to talk to others that are at the same stage and for a shoulder and advice. For all the moms that have tried for awhile I totally understand. I had a miscarriage on valentines day and tried very hard to be pregnant right now. Like how every pregnancy is different, every way we have conceived is different as well
I never really comment but this time I have to...can this thread just be done with?! It went on way to long yesterday and was resolved yesterday...and I personally think OP went on the defensive and attacked when the immediate response to her post was not negatively intended. In the words of Elsa - - let it go.
In her defense she said sorry a couple times and then many others started to chime in and agree. When she said sorry that should've been the end of that. (Maybe she should've changed the title) we are all adults here and getting this crazy is a little ridiculous. We are all here for the same reason, to talk to others that are at the same stage and for a shoulder and advice. For all the moms that have tried for awhile I totally understand. I had a miscarriage on valentines day and tried very hard to be pregnant right now. Like how every pregnancy is different, every way we have conceived is different as well
There was no "I'm sorry I was wrong"... it was all pretty much "I'm sorry I got pregnant fast and not everyone else did"
fake apologies don't fly around here...
::exits to go comment on every other thread to make this go away::
How can women be so stuck on the way someone phrases something?! We are all here for one reason and one reason only. We have been blessed to carry a little miracle. I'm done ranting. Some are just adults that can't move on.
Re: Got prego first try! Beware bitches attack!
BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15
Eta: I already turned off the computer so I can't gif
::insert face palm gif here::
BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15
fake apologies don't fly around here...
::exits to go comment on every other thread to make this go away::