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Gender predictions ?:)

tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
in March 2015 Moms
Any one do the needle and thread ? Or how about the Chinese calendar ahah I got a boy for both!

Anyone else ??
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Re: Gender predictions ?:)

  • njennings1018njennings1018 member
    Chinese calendar =boy. Mayan calendar =boy. symptoms are a bit more on the boy side with old wives tales and compared to my previous babies. I have two girls and a stepdaughter so we are hoping our last will be a boy!! But I'm trying not to get my hopes up...
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Sex and gender mean the same thing and it's just for fun obviously not gonna go buy things untill conformation from the doctor , but things like this are just a fun thing to do with your husband or family .
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    edited August 2014
    Okay I don't offend people I have lots of friends that like the same sex. Now if I offended you in anyway my bad . However where I am from there has never been any looking down on people who like same sex so I am sorry I don't have worry so much about that. Considering my sister herself is a lesbian. Anyways if your point is that sex is the parts then no my friend is not getting a sex change ry is keeping her lady bit.
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  • FrecklesInsideFrecklesInside member
    tarajoshcollins said:
    I really don't understand what the point of discussions are , to gang up on people with ridiculous points and in the end all ment the same thing. Gender yes my bad one of my best friends is going through a gender change . But she would not be offended in anyway. This group is like highschool it's pathetic really .
    You type like you're in high school so you should fit right in??

    No one ganged up on you. People are EDUCATING you. It is nice of them because in the future you can use the correct terms and not sound uneducated. They don't mean the same thing, so there is a point to what people are telling you. 
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  • spaghettiohsspaghettiohs member
    I've heard of the mayan and Chinese, but have you ladies heard of doing the baking soda test? Apparently a tablespoon of urine + a tablespoon of baking soda can determine if it's a boy, it fizzes, or a girl, it does nothing.
    Just learned about this one, sounds crazy to me
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  • FrecklesInsideFrecklesInside member
    tarajoshcollins said:
    Well my friend is not getting a penis so if you wanna get technical penis and vagina are the sex right . They are getting testosterone shots . So everything changes but the sex . Just trying to educate you . Now I've said my piece I'm not gonna fight over such nonsense . This group is suppose to share the joys of being pregnant but to me it seems like a bunch of women wanting drama for some reason.
    It is laughable that you could educate us on anything. YOU are the one who doesn't understand what your friend is going through. Without even knowing him, I understand what you're friend is going through better than you do. Goodness. 

    Thank you, after posting a couple of times, for telling us what this board is for. After all, those who use it the least know the best!!
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Omg fuck ya your saying gender is what you feel you are sex what you where born . Ya okay cool I get it , I'm so more educated glad you all where there for me no idea how id get through life with out it !
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    edited August 2014
    It didn't however I was told I offend people I was making a statement that I wouldn't have half of my friends or family member if offending people is all I did
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Well when I go to the doctor he always says to me gender I guess I better have a talk with him.
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Well after being called stupid a million times after repeating yourself that you understand the mix up you get frustrated .
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  • chaysefaithchaysefaith member
    edited August 2014
    tarajoshcollins said:
    Well after being called stupid a million times after repeating yourself that you understand the mix up you get frustrated .
    Please, show me where someone called you stupid.

    ETA: and you continued to talk out of your ass before admitting that you understood what you did wrong.  You literally said "sex and gender are the same thing."
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  • sjep922sjep922 member
    tarajoshcollins said:

    Omg fuck ya your saying gender is what you feel you are sex what you where born . Ya okay cool I get it , I'm so more educated glad you all where there for me no idea how id get through life with out it !

    Uh, what? This makes no sense. Please take the advice from @FrecklesInside‌ and use spelling and grammar check. If you are going to argue a point, having proper spelling and grammar would help make a better point.
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Well where I am from many people do use them as the same deffiniton .now I have said sorry because after realizing that states that have not had this type of stuff accepting do get offended easy after fighting so hard for the rights of it. I have it lucky and I couldn't fathom the thought of being somewhere that it was not .
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  • stepherlystepherly member
    tarajoshcollins said:

    Well where I am from many people do use them as the same deffiniton .now I have said sorry because after realizing that states that have not had this type of stuff accepting do get offended easy after fighting so hard for the rights of it. I have it lucky and I couldn't fathom the thought of being somewhere that it was not .

    None of the ladies here are bashing gay rights!

    They are trying to explain to you that a LOT of people don't understand the difference between the terms sex & gender.
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    When did I say they were bashing gay rights ?
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    I was saying that I understand why they are so passionate about the difference ?
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  • stepherlystepherly member
    tarajoshcollins said:

    I was saying that I understand why they are so passionate about the difference ?

    tarajoshcollins said:

    I was saying that I understand why they are so passionate about the difference ?

    Ahh - sorry then I misinterpreted what this line meant. "states that have not had this type of stuff accepting do get offended easy after fighting so hard for the rights of it. "
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  • tarajoshcollinstarajoshcollins member
    Okay at first yes I was not agreeing with you ladies because to me it's a simple mix up and doesn't bother many people that I know. And then I continued to be stubborn. After reading everything again I said sorry remembering that the groups are from all over the world and many states are very passionate about this stuff. And yes I felt bad after arguing because I realized that not all states have had rights handed to them.
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  • hethr519hethr519 member
    Im really bothered by this message board. A very emotionally unsafe environment. Nothing like it was with my last 5 years ago. So sad.
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  • crunchymamaof2 crunchymamaof2 member
    hethr519 said:
    Im really bothered by this message board. A very emotionally unsafe environment. Nothing like it was with my last 5 years ago. So sad.

    What the actual fuck? You better close your browser and quick! Because it's so dangerous here and all.

    Seriously. Do people really not think before they type? Or is this just another example of the me focused society we live in where everyone has to be coddled and given rainbow enemas?
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  • ThedreamofbabieaThedreamofbabiea member
    CrazyCornball said:
    Thedreamofbabiea said:
    I honestly think the whole gender=\=sex thing is just ridiculous. Your unborn child could care less what you are referring to sex or gender everyone knows the girl was referring to her babies genitals. Obviously a UO here but really why get so butt hurt. When people start throwing gender reveal parties ect are you going to ask that they change their invitations to say sex reveal parties. I feel it's a lot of wasted energy on a pointless debate.
    It's not a debate, though. It is what it is. People will remain ignorant until someone educates them.
    I also don't like gender reveal parties, I've never been invited to one, so I haven't had to cringe at any invitations. 

    Okay but when your baby is born will you be buying only gender natural clothes until your child has the chance to indicate what it's gender is? I am in now way saying that it is the same thing but I feel that when referring to your unborn children or children unable to determine and make a decision like that themselves that we are to buy or give them nothing of a specific gender- girls in no pink boys in dresses? Because you don't want to offend them by indicating that you chose their gender?
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