Pee during sex?

r&m07 · August 2014

This is the second time it's happened, and it's totally embarrassing! My DH and I were getting to the good part the other night and he stops and says, "hon, are you peeing?" I have no idea what he's talking about until he gets off the bed and I see a big wet spot on the linens. I didn't realize this was even possible! Has anyone else had this happen to them? What's the best thing to do?

possitivethoughts · August 2014

Are you sure you didnt "squirt" during orgasm? I am saying this be cause im a squirter And its perfectly normal. Sorry if its TMI.. But just so you wont freak out thinking you are peeing

feeshah · August 2014

Are you sure it's pee?

r&m07 · August 2014

@twolittledogs, I actually go before we start, just because I don't want to be grossed out.

r&m07 · August 2014

possitivethoughts I hadn't even gotten to the orgasm portion yet, so I have no idea what's going on inside!

mrsrroberson · August 2014

Never been a squirter, but ummm, did it smell like pee? :-/

r&m07 · August 2014

mrsrroberson, I didn't even check if it smelled like pee.

dapple88, thanks for the suggestion.

beachy6 · August 2014

It is Friday isn't it. No one told me.

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beachy6 · August 2014

Slaps said:

Sex? What is this you speak of? I asked my husband if he fancied a bit, he looked at me like I had offered him a plate of dog poo. Lol.

Although it wasn't an offer for sex, DH turned down my other offer in about the same way this morning. Phew! That was close

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Cryssteen · August 2014

MrsBriss said:

This is the second time it's happened, and it's totally embarrassing! My DH and I were getting to the good part the other night and he stops and says, "hon, are you peeing?" I have no idea what he's talking about until he gets off the bed and I see a big wet spot on the linens. I didn't realize this was even possible! Has anyone else had this happen to them? What's the best thing to do?
I thought you can't pee during sex?

Umm. Yes. Women can urinate during sex. Men cannot. There are different holes in women.

JRod13 · August 2014

Just pee right before. Then don't worry about it. There are a lot of things that go differently when you're pregnant, if you weren't a squirter before, you might be now. Also to echo pp, it could just be the amped up lubrication. Hell, even if it is pee, tell your H he's damn lucky he's getting any as there are a bunch of gents who aren't getting shit from the D14 ladies. Edited for a hideous grammatical error.

mrsrroberson · August 2014

I'm jelouse of all the slip & slide action... I'm wanting it all the time but going through a horrible dry spell down there... So over it!

beachy6 · August 2014

Never tried it?! Sorry, this has me cracking up! If and when you do you MUST give D14 a report. Inquiring minds...

Mvvs82 · August 2014

mrsrroberson said:

I'm jelouse of all the slip & slide action... I'm wanting it all the time but going through a horrible dry spell down there... So over it!

Same here! I've always been a horny toad up until recently. I am still in the mood but my vag is not cooperating! I said to my husband last night, "I feel like I have an old lady's vagina! WTF!"

mrsrroberson · August 2014

@Mvvs82‌ bahahahaha YESSS exactly! Couple nights ago I started crying and told him it was so frustrating!! I felt so lame!! Then he tried to help by lubbing it up himself ugh! I mean I don't mind but I mean c'mon I want my "juices" back!!!!

Mvvs82 · August 2014

Anna930 said:

Does anyone else watch Orange is the New Black? Season 2 had a great episode where many of the women did not realize that there are 2 separate holes. Absolutely hilarious... the anatomy lesson that is given. My hubby looked a little uncomfortable (he probably thought there was just 1 hole)

What, a pee hole and a butt hole?

JRod13 · August 2014

Mvvs82 said:

Anna930 said:

Does anyone else watch Orange is the New Black? Season 2 had a great episode where many of the women did not realize that there are 2 separate holes. Absolutely hilarious... the anatomy lesson that is given. My hubby looked a little uncomfortable (he probably thought there was just 1 hole)

What, a pee hole and a butt hole?

I think we're talking the pee hole and the actual vaginal opening. You know you don't pee out of there....right?

twoandthrough · August 2014

Mvvs82 said:

Anna930 said:

Does anyone else watch Orange is the New Black? Season 2 had a great episode where many of the women did not realize that there are 2 separate holes. Absolutely hilarious... the anatomy lesson that is given. My hubby looked a little uncomfortable (he probably thought there was just 1 hole)

What, a pee hole and a butt hole?

No, a pee hole (or urethra) and a lady hole (vagina).

Mvvs82 · August 2014

AJIrishMama said:

Anna930 said:

Does anyone else watch Orange is the New Black? Season 2 had a great episode where many of the women did not realize that there are 2 separate holes. Absolutely hilarious... the anatomy lesson that is given. My hubby looked a little uncomfortable (he probably thought there was just 1 hole)

What, a pee hole and a butt hole?
I think we're talking the pee hole and the actual vaginal opening. You know you don't pee out of there....right?
I'm just glad I'm not the only person who thought of OITNB after reading this thread lol

DUH people! Have a sense of humor! Lol!

:P

JRod13 · August 2014

Girl I was worried! I'm glad you know :P and yes, it's hard to tell tone over typing sometimes lol.

Mvvs82 · August 2014

I know, sorry! I got a bit impulsive typing! Should've put a smiley right after it! I'm not a loser, I swear! Lmao!

mrsrroberson · August 2014

dapple88 said:
This is a great FYI about sex and pregnancy!

#6 Had me like: Why would he do that!??

#9 Had me LMAO!!

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Such a Good one @dapple88‌!

ColeyCannoli · August 2014

dapple88 said:
Some women can release ejaculate fluid even before they orgasm. Ejaculate fluid comes from the same whole as pee. When you get turned on everything swells and when you're pregnant everything is kinda already a little more vascular, making it easier to pump out that fluid. PLUS you're probably that much more hydrated.

I say just go with the flow, I would pretty much guarantee you aren't peeing. Maybe throw a towel down before you get into it but other than that, enjoy! You're body is working just fine.

Hate to tell ya but if it's coming from your urethra, it is urine.

OP, I wouldn't worry about it. Sex is weird and full of fluids anyway. Plus I'm betting you are just getting really wet considering how much extra fluid a pregnant woman has.

rshamos · August 2014

I say just have sex in the shower. Then hose off when you are done. Who cares then, right?

youngcollegemom · August 2014

Soooo jealous of all y'all action... I haven't had sex since we made this baby... so ready for him to get out of the hospital ... we both are ready!!!

courtd2 · August 2014

I have peed during sex a couple times before I was pregnant. It only ever happened in the morning when I was half asleep and had a semi-full bladder. Not cool. We don't have morning sex anymore lol

taylojade57 · August 2014

stormygrace said:

youngcollegemom said:
Soooo jealous of all y'all action... I haven't had sex since we made this baby... so ready for him to get out of the hospital ... we both are ready!!!
I agree...but not cuz neither of us don't want to. It sucks having a SO on deployment.

@stormygrace‌ Right?!? I need my husband yesterday! How much longer is your DH gone?

soulcupcake · August 2014

What a funny thread. OP, I was thinking you may have squirted rather than urinated.

ColeyCannoli · August 2014

dapple88 said:

Some women can release ejaculate fluid even before they orgasm. Ejaculate fluid comes from the same whole as pee. When you get turned on everything swells and when you're pregnant everything is kinda already a little more vascular, making it easier to pump out that fluid. PLUS you're probably that much more hydrated. I say just go with the flow, I would pretty much guarantee you aren't peeing. Maybe throw a towel down before you get into it but other than that, enjoy! You're body is working just fine.
Hate to tell ya but if it's coming from your urethra, it is urine. OP, I wouldn't worry about it. Sex is weird and full of fluids anyway. Plus I'm betting you are just getting really wet considering how much extra fluid a pregnant woman has.
If it's coming from the bladder it's pee but there are also ducts called paraurethral ducts/skene's gland inside the urethra that make and can release an ejaculate fluid. All women have them but not all women will release the ejaculate fluid.

Well, I learned a thing. Plus I had another conversation with a stranger that I'd never thought I'd have. Thanks D14! :P

Cryssteen · August 2014

MrsBriss said:

Cryssteen said:

MrsBriss said:

r&m07 said:
This is the second time it's happened, and it's totally embarrassing! My DH and I were getting to the good part the other night and he stops and says, "hon, are you peeing?" I have no idea what he's talking about until he gets off the bed and I see a big wet spot on the linens. I didn't realize this was even possible! Has anyone else had this happen to them? What's the best thing to do?
I thought you can't pee during sex?

Umm. Yes. Women can urinate during sex. Men cannot. There are different holes in women.

Sorry! Never tried it! I know men and women have different holes. I just thought that ya couldn't.

What I meant by "different holes" is that women have two differnt holes. The pee hole is not related to the vagina hole.

BabyRN2009 · August 2014

Sooo, speaking of 3 holes...

I am an L&D nurse. After an epidural it is standard with most Dr's to place a foley catheter in the bladder as the patient will be unable to get out of bed to empty their bladder. You would be surprised how many patients and SO's genuinely ask me "if that's in there, how will the baby get out?" I have to explain it's a different hole entirely. Wish I were kidding...

mrsrroberson · August 2014

@RaeChay‌ Nice!! Lol

Sweetsix06 · August 2014

I knew the visual was coming! No pun intended =D>

ColeyCannoli · August 2014

RaeChay said:

dapple88 said:

ColeyCannoli said:

dapple88 said:
Some women can release ejaculate fluid even before they orgasm. Ejaculate fluid comes from the same whole as pee. When you get turned on everything swells and when you're pregnant everything is kinda already a little more vascular, making it easier to pump out that fluid. PLUS you're probably that much more hydrated.

I say just go with the flow, I would pretty much guarantee you aren't peeing. Maybe throw a towel down before you get into it but other than that, enjoy! You're body is working just fine.
Hate to tell ya but if it's coming from your urethra, it is urine.

OP, I wouldn't worry about it. Sex is weird and full of fluids anyway. Plus I'm betting you are just getting really wet considering how much extra fluid a pregnant woman has.
If it's coming from the bladder it's pee but there are also ducts called paraurethral ducts/skene's gland inside the urethra that make and can release an ejaculate fluid. All women have them but not all women will release the ejaculate fluid.

So I would like to submit a diagram (run away now if you are an unreasonable 12 year old who cannot handle her own anatomy well enough to partake in science). What I am getting from this is that skene's glands are not located in but rather near the urethra. From what little research I could do, it continues to appear as if this whole "squirting"/female ejaculation thing is rather controversial. But if it does exist, it appears as if the skene's gland is the one held accountable. Apparently this may exist in some women but not in others.I would still really love to see some kind of academic material about it's actually existing, rather than someone swearing that it happened to them/their friend/etc once (if anyone is so inclined to defend the glory of the female ejaculate). Also there seems to be some "haha j/k" going on in regards to whether or not people know where certain holes exist in the vagina.....so for your intellectual enrichment, I present to you your anatomy:

I saw the same thing but I noticed that it says it empties into the urethra - so that would make it "come out the same hole." How? Why? I dunno. Doesnt seem like a topic many acedemics are up to researching and when they have, they've found no clear evidence. We certainly have not covered this in class yet :P

meanie3 · August 2014

dapple88 said:

Should you be ejaculating like a porn star or just peeing on your partner?

I died!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!

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