March 2015 Moms

So confused

First of all, I am sorry to all the women experiencing a miscarriage loss.
My story is very confusing and I am at a total loss for any kind of emotion right now. July 17 I went to the hospital with cramping, I should have been around 5 weeks at this point. They sent me the next day for an ultra sound and there was no heart beat, I had no other symptoms of a miscarriage, but the doctor I was seeing from emerg immediately said I miscarried and that was the end of that. They sent me again one week later for an ultra sound and I saw and heard the heart beat at 117 bpm. The baby measured 6 weeks 2 days. My docter (maternity doc) went over the ultra sound an said everything was perfect. They sent me for a routine check up exactly two weeks later (yesterday) and the baby measured 8 weeks 4 days (2 days bigger then it should have been) and again no heart beat. All of my hcg levels up to this point have been perfect. I still have no cramping and no bleeding and I still have enlarged breasts, EXTREMLY tired an bloating from hell. They are sending me for more hcg levels and another ultra sound in 4 days. Has this ever happened to anyone? Does anyone have a similar story? Any help would be wonderful!!
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Re: So confused

  • I don't have any advice, I'm sorry. But I'll be thinking of you through this. I hope for a happy ending

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  • With my first pregnancy I saw a HB at 6w2d and no HB at 8 weeks. It was a missed miscarriage. The baby stopped growing somewhere in between. I'll say a prayer that you see a HB in a few days!
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  • All three scans were internal and external. I completely understand and accept the natural miscarriage and the surgical assistance. I just do not understand why the baby is still growing (really well) then no heart beat. Plus getting totally different answers from doctors. According to the scan yesterday the baby is right on track and then some so that's what's so confusing. Is there a chance the little buggers heart beat could be hiding? I am not getting hopes up or down by any means. My heart goes out to every woman/couple that has to deal with this.
  • I have no advice, just wanted to say I'm sorry you're going through this and are in limbo.
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  • I'm sorry- I hope you get some answers soon.
  • No advice, but so sorry you're going through this.
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  • I'm sorry you are dealing with this and hope it turns out for the best!

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  • I'm so sorry this sounds very hard. It might be that the baby passed just before the ultrasound. I'm sending you many positive vibes to help you get through this...
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  • Thank you everyone that has replied. It's very unfair for anyone to have to go thru a situation like this or similar. But in the end whether it be a positive or negative outcome we are taking this as a blessing. Again thank you all I'll keep you posted :)
  • I have no advice for you but wanted to let you know my thoughts and prayers go out for you. FX everything is ok.
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  • Just now seeing this and just wanted to send creepy stranger hugs. What an emotional roller coaster :( I hope a miracle happens at your next u/s, but if not we are here for you.
  • No experience, but I am so sorry you are going through this.
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  • I'm sorry you are going through this.  I don't have any experience, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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  • so sorry, T's P's and hugs!

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  • I am so sorry you have to deal with this. I just wanted to echo what some previous posters said, that it is likely the baby was growing but the HB may have stopped just before your scan. It does sound like a missed miscarriage. I truly hope that is not the outcome for you. 
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  • I'm sorry you are stuck waiting. Hopefully when you go in again you will have your answer once and for all
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    I'm so sorry you are going through this and are in limbo. Sending t&p.
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  • No advice, but I'm sorry you're going through this. FX that you get good news at your next appointment.
  • Sorry you're going through this. Fx for good news at your next apt!!!


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  • I don't have any advice, but so sorry you are going through this :(
  • Sorry you are going through this. Positive vibes heading your way!
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  • I have no advice but wanted to send thoughts and prayers your way. I'm so sorry you are going through this. *hugs*
  • I do not have any advice. I just want to say I'm sorry that you are going through this. Good vibes are being sent your way.
  • I'm so sorry for the back and forth you have to be feeling! I'll be thinking about you! Please update us once you go back. I'm praying for a heartbeat for you!!
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  • I'm sorry I don't have any advice for you. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Prayers to you!
  • Sorry you are in limbo. Fingers crossed, next scan is better.

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  • I am so sorry you're in this tough place. Definitely sending lots of positive thoughts and vibes.

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  • I'm so sorry your are in limbo. I don't have advice but sending you lots of thoughts and prayers.

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  • Sorry you are going through this. Hugs and thoughts and prayers.
  • So sorry you are going through this. Try to relax and take care of yourself.
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  • Praying that you see and hear a heartbeat at the next ultrasound. I have my appt tmrw to confirm miscarriage and still, with vanishing symptoms I still have hope that I'm onefof those women who bleed a lot and still have a
    healthy little bean. Again praying for a healthier outcome for u.
  • I am so shocked at the out pouring support! All of you have beautiful words sent my way. Thank you all so much! Wednesday can't come fast enough, I will let everyone know what happens!! Xo
  • Hoping for good news on Wednesday.


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  • So sorry you are in limbo. Hoping a hb was missed and Wednesday brings you good news. <3
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  • No advice, but I'm sorry that you're going through this!
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  • Called the docters today, my hcg levels are still very high. Got more levels done this afternoon and I'll get results tomorrow morning. Then ultra sound tomorrow afternoon. Wish me luck! Xoxo thanks everyone
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