So L is staying at my in-laws this Saturday because we are going to a wedding. This is only the fourth time he's stayed there but every time he does my MIL keeps him up past the time I tell her to put him to bed. For some reason she thinks his bed time should be 8:00. She makes occasional comments about how early she thinks his bed time is. To keep him on our schedule, I make sure he's in bed between 7-7:30. So even though I've always told her what time to put him down, when I get him the next days she always tells me she put him down at 8:00. I know it's one night and only a half an hour, but it irks me that she purposefully ignores my wishes.
Do you think I should say something more direct like "L's bedtime is 7:30, not 8:00. I know his sticking to a schedule may not be your top priority but it's important to me that he be put to bed on time".
Or should I just let it go?
BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/[email protected] 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/[email protected] 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15