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Sex drive

aliamessinaaliamessina member
in March 2015 Moms
I'm 9 wks and feeling miserable, bloated, exausted, nauseous and hormonal, my boyfriend wants to have sex alllllll the time and I'm never in the mood, he is putting a lot of pressure on me and I hate turning him down but I don't know what to do to make him happy
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  • orangesprinkles13orangesprinkles13 member
    Oral?? JK JK. My husband is the same way. I'm in no mood to be getting it on right now. There's not much you can do but explain that to him. I mean he's gonna have to except it right? Plus I told mine not to worry there will be a lot more of the deed in the 2nd trimester.
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  • ngolimentongolimento member
    edited August 2014
    Honestly, if your partner is pressuring you and making you feel bad, he's being a selfish jerk. You can try to put it into perspective by asking him if he's able to have sex in the middle of a bad flu, but it sounds like he may be lacking in the empathy dept.

    A real man sees his partner is hurting, and leaves her the fuck alone. Porn exists for a reason.
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  • Farrah626Farrah626 member
    I just turned DH down yet again last night. "You really don't want to?" Really...I don't want to. Sometimes it just comes with 1st tri territory! He'll get over it. And just think of how excited he'll be when you finally say yes! :)

    @orangesprinkles13‌ That made me laugh! Nausea will take care of that option, too! SO's can't catch a break haha
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  • LBeez13LBeez13 member
    I would just tell him to get over it.  Sex should be a mutual thing not something you are pressured into. He needs to be more understanding.
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  • melleasndrsmelleasndrs member
    I have the I don't care face on when it comes to sex these days. I don't care how much he whines about it I physically can't. I don't care if he's upset because most likely I'd be the one cleaning up my throw up of the bed. I just don't care for it.

    The other day he texted me "Remember it's a life or death matter to make whoopie."
    My response "No. It puts the Lotion in the skin."
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  • jwooton5jwooton5 member
    He needs to be 100% understanding on this.
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  • amberb612amberb612 member
    Just tell him your doctor put you on pelvic rest ;)
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  • brown101brown101 member
    My hubby thankfully isn't making me feel bad... BUT I do tell myself he's been dealing with so much I owe it to him to be in the mood at least once a week (which is a large decrease to the action we had been seeing ;) ) I talk myself into a date and have done a pretty good job of meeting my own timelines.  If he found out I was scheduling our sex he'd feel miserable... so that's just between you ladies and I.
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