All the posts about " starting solids" is starting to make me stabby , I don't even read them anymore . I don't care about your " informative" article as to why waiting until 6 months is helpful or why starting at 4 months is better . I'm a believer your baby will let you know when they are ready for it.
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
I think BLW is dangerous. The other night I was holding Harper while I ate my chicken salad. She tried to grabbed a piece of chicken and put it in her mouth, Does that mean she's ready to sit down and eat a piece of chicken ? Absolutely not . They cant judge when they are ready to eat food like that.
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
I think BLW is dangerous. The other night I was holding Harper while I ate my chicken salad. She tried to grabbed a piece of chicken and put it in her mouth, Does that mean she's ready to sit down and eat a piece of chicken ? Absolutely not . They cant judge when they are ready to eat food like that.
But it's not like you're going to just pass your baby a whole piece of chicken.
They let you know they're ready, and then you set it up for them to eat safely.
I hate when people call their child Baby _______ (fill in blank with name). You gave your child a name for a reason and unless Baby is their legal first name on their birth certificate please don't call them that.
DH's whole family called DS1 'Baby Declan' forever. It drove me nuts. They only stopped when the twins were born. He was almost 3.
Everyone keeps telling me I need to sleep train my baby. I even made a post about it on FB yesterday faking for tips, but my gut is telling me to do what I've been doing.
Yeah it's probably not the best thing for him to sleep in the mamaroo, but if that's the only way he's going to sleep more than an hour at a time I'm going to do it. No, I probably shouldn't be nursing him or rocking him to sleep every night, but if that's what he needs to go to sleep, I'm going to do that too! He's my kid, I'll do what I want!
So, my UO is I'm tired of everyone's opinion on what to do with my child!! (I'm not talking about M'14. Just ppl I know IRL) that's probably not very unpopular.
Me 28 DH 30
Married 08-11-07
TTC since 07/11
HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB
Seeing RE 1-28-13
RE 1-28-13
Both tubes blocked
LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
I am not sure if this is UO or not but.. I don't feel like registering for items your child will not need/use until they are over a year old is appropriate. Especially when you have hundreds and hundreds of items already on your registry.
I'm getting a little stabby about the whole rock/nurse your baby to sleep debate. I WOULD probably still be rocking/nursing my baby to sleep IF that still worked. But it doesn't work anymore. She now wakes absolutely every single time I put her down asleep and she cries. Doesn't matter if I put her down immediately, ten minutes later, twenty minutes later, gentler than a case Charmin toilet paper- she wakes. Over and over and over. So I'm not doing a mild Ferber for the fun of it or to torture my child. I'm doing it because she goes down for the night in a shorter amount of time and with less crying than the up down up down of rocking/nursing her to sleep. And the "obviously she needs something" comments... Yeah every time I pick her up she starts cooing and blowing raspberries. So she "needs" to play? At midnight? 3 am? I should play with her all night? Because she thinks thats what she needs? No. I really hope that didn't come out too harsh but people need to realize maybe there are people who want to rock/nurse to sleep but their baby just doesn't stay asleep when they put them down. No matter what. And if that was the case for them then maybe they'd be trying other things too.
@bennia we did three difficult nights of mild Ferber. We nursed her, made sure she had a clean diaper, right room temp, soft sleeper suitr, binky, and lovey. And we went in every time she cried for three minutes to rub her face, give her kisses, whisper reassurance, and put the binky back in (because she really likes the binky not to plug her up). Didn't turn on any lights didn't pick her up or anything. It took 30 minutes of this each night. And now she sometimes goes right down or we just need to go back in once or twice and she never cries anything like she did the first night. We still have issues with MOTN wakings because were in the same room and I've been trying all different things except ferbering in the MOTN.
I think it's strange when parents let their small babies spend the night with grandparents. Granted, I'm a bit extreme and won't let Sophie stay overnight for a VERY long time. But I couldn't imagine sending a baby who wasn't yet STTN to stay somewhere overnight for fun. :-/
Me too! My nephew and his wife went to Mexico for a few days. Their LO was born March 3rd! I couldn't imagine being out of the country just to be on vacation, especially with your first baby!
Me 28 DH 30
Married 08-11-07
TTC since 07/11
HSG 01-21-13 Left FTB
Seeing RE 1-28-13
RE 1-28-13
Both tubes blocked
LAP surgery 2-15-13 Both tubes removed Started IVF #1 June 2013 Meds: BCP, Lupron, Gonal-F, Ovidrel, Medrol, Doxycycline
I was like that with my first. Now I would be thrilled if someone took him overnight. He's already spent 6 weeks of his life in someone else's care, what's one more night?
Levi has had one overnighter, about two weeks ago. I'm up for more! Hope you have fun at the wedding! Being an adult couple doing adult activities is imperative for a healthy marriage in my opinion, we don't very often so given the once every? two -four months you bet we'll take advantage!
My husband and I are going up to Newport for a wedding in sept. Lo will be 5.5 months. Were leaving her for 3 nights 4 days with my mom and the nanny. I don't feel guilty. It's good for all of us.
My UO which I didn't know was a UO: I get grossed out if there is no flat sheet. With out the sheet you are just sleeping underneath your comforter which isn't washed very often. My husband used to never use a sheet before we were married, and it was my pet peeve!
While we're on the topic of music, here's what could be a UO: I generally don't like pop music. I mainly listen to a lot of soundtracks (particularly anime and game soundtracks, but also some movies and broadway). I also enjoy classical
My UO which I didn't know was a UO: I get grossed out if there is no flat sheet. With out the sheet you are just sleeping underneath your comforter which isn't washed very often. My husband used to never use a sheet before we were married, and it was my pet peeve!
I'm with @Ahutch428 There has to be a flat and fitted sheet. My comforter/blanket/duvet doesn't get washed very often unless its a seasonal change or LO spit up/pooped on it or its attracted too much cat hair. The sheets get washed/changed much more frequently. I don't want to sleep in a bed with a sweaty dirty comforter for months on end. (Slight exaggeration)
Also, I have nursed all my kids to sleep until at least 8 or 9 months or whenever they decided they didn't want to anymore. I rocked DD to sleep until around 11 months. DS1 started to snuggle with daddy around 9 months then around 11 months he just wanted to go to bed. LO is still going to bed nicely after nursing, so I'm not changing it until I have to, or until he shows signs of not needing it anymore.
Y'all must keep your houses way cooler than I do. I end up sleeping with only the sheet half the time. I don't even own a comforter - only a thin quilt.
Y'all must keep your houses way cooler than I do. I end up sleeping with only the sheet half the time. I don't even own a comforter - only a thin quilt.
Oh, I forgot to mention that. It's summer. Electricity is expensive so although we do run the A/C we don't keep it super cold. We frequently just use a sheet.
Didn't realize I would be one of the moms that won't spend a night away from LO for a long time but I am.
I don't care about what's on my bed just as long as I can sleep.
As far as baby sleep Ect- I don't care what anyone else does _ it doesn't affect how I should parent my child. Every child is different and every patent is different. As my pedi said. If someone had the right answers we'd all have babies that slept through the night and were never fussy. Obviously that's not happening which means there is no one right answer
I don't think homeschooling is good for kids at all. School isn't just about doing school work and learning, it is about socializing with others (good and bad), learning discipline of needing to be somewhere on time, being independent to get to your classes, find your locker, etc, having deadlines and turning assignments in, having consequences if you misbehave/hand in work late/are late to class, etc.
I just don't agree that kids can get all of that from their parent(s) homeschooling. Even if they can, a parent/child relationship is different from a teacher/student relationship. Even if a parent disciplines a child for misbehaving or not doing their homework, it may not have the same impact as they would in school. Not sure I am wording that correctly, but I don't think it would prepare them well enough for dealing with a boss in the future.
I was a very shy child growing up, but I faced challenges one at a time as I grew.. I can't imagine being homeschooled my whole life and then having to go out into the real world and facing all of those challenges at the same time. I'm not sure what is the motivating factor for parents to choose to homeschool their children, but I would guess bullying is a popular reason. I don't condone bullying, I don't necessarily think kids should have to go through it as a rite of passage, but it is a fact of life and bullying will always exist to some extent no matter how many campaigns are out there to end it. My old boss was in her 50's and she was a huge bully, as was a woman in my department. And mob mentality exists into adulthood too...I worked with some very nice people who would never do these things on their own, but around these other bullies, they would join in.....it was like bully or be bullied.
I will never say being bullied was good for me as a child, but it taught me how to stand up for myself, and not to let them win. I am sure it is a very big reason this woman didn't get to me at work because I wouldn't let her intimidate me.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
I'm so disappointed I didn't remember to post this until tonight. I think the essential oil craze is dumb, and I don't believe they do anything. Judging by my FB newsfeed, this is quite unpopular.
Re: UO
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
OMG, My H and I just had this discussion. I HATE the top sheet I think its pointless, DH disagrees.
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
OH YEA THIS TOO...
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
They let you know they're ready, and then you set it up for them to eat safely.
Yeah it's probably not the best thing for him to sleep in the mamaroo, but if that's the only way he's going to sleep more than an hour at a time I'm going to do it.
No, I probably shouldn't be nursing him or rocking him to sleep every night, but if that's what he needs to go to sleep, I'm going to do that too! He's my kid, I'll do what I want!
So, my UO is I'm tired of everyone's opinion on what to do with my child!!
(I'm not talking about M'14. Just ppl I know IRL) that's probably not very unpopular.
I don't feel like registering for items your child will not need/use until they are over a year old is appropriate. Especially when you have hundreds and hundreds of items already on your registry.
And the "obviously she needs something" comments... Yeah every time I pick her up she starts cooing and blowing raspberries. So she "needs" to play? At midnight? 3 am? I should play with her all night? Because she thinks thats what she needs? No.
I really hope that didn't come out too harsh but people need to realize maybe there are people who want to rock/nurse to sleep but their baby just doesn't stay asleep when they put them down. No matter what. And if that was the case for them then maybe they'd be trying other things too.
Married : ** 09/09/2011 ** BFP : 07-18-13 ** Baby #1 is a GIRL , Born 03/12/14 **
** BFP 2 : 01- 05-15 ** EDD 09-11-15 **
My nephew and his wife went to Mexico for a few days. Their LO was born March 3rd! I couldn't imagine being out of the country just to be on vacation, especially with your first baby!
Levi has had one overnighter, about two weeks ago. I'm up for more! Hope you have fun at the wedding! Being an adult couple doing adult activities is imperative for a healthy marriage in my opinion, we don't very often so given the once every? two -four months you bet we'll take advantage!
Me: 28 DH: 27
There has to be a flat and fitted sheet.
My comforter/blanket/duvet doesn't get washed very often unless its a seasonal change or LO spit up/pooped on it or its attracted too much cat hair.
The sheets get washed/changed much more frequently. I don't want to sleep in a bed with a sweaty dirty comforter for months on end.
(Slight exaggeration)
DH is in total agreement.
I rocked DD to sleep until around 11 months.
DS1 started to snuggle with daddy around 9 months then around 11 months he just wanted to go to bed.
LO is still going to bed nicely after nursing, so I'm not changing it until I have to, or until he shows signs of not needing it anymore.
My point exactly!! I don't know what TTGP is!! Lol
It's summer. Electricity is expensive so although we do run the A/C we don't keep it super cold. We frequently just use a sheet.
Didn't realize I would be one of the moms that won't spend a night away from LO for a long time but I am.
I don't care about what's on my bed just as long as I can sleep.
As far as baby sleep Ect- I don't care what anyone else does _ it doesn't affect how I should parent my child. Every child is different and every patent is different. As my pedi said. If someone had the right answers we'd all have babies that slept through the night and were never fussy. Obviously that's not happening which means there is no one right answer
I just don't agree that kids can get all of that from their parent(s) homeschooling. Even if they can, a parent/child relationship is different from a teacher/student relationship. Even if a parent disciplines a child for misbehaving or not doing their homework, it may not have the same impact as they would in school. Not sure I am wording that correctly, but I don't think it would prepare them well enough for dealing with a boss in the future.
I was a very shy child growing up, but I faced challenges one at a time as I grew.. I can't imagine being homeschooled my whole life and then having to go out into the real world and facing all of those challenges at the same time. I'm not sure what is the motivating factor for parents to choose to homeschool their children, but I would guess bullying is a popular reason. I don't condone bullying, I don't necessarily think kids should have to go through it as a rite of passage, but it is a fact of life and bullying will always exist to some extent no matter how many campaigns are out there to end it. My old boss was in her 50's and she was a huge bully, as was a woman in my department. And mob mentality exists into adulthood too...I worked with some very nice people who would never do these things on their own, but around these other bullies, they would join in.....it was like bully or be bullied.
I will never say being bullied was good for me as a child, but it taught me how to stand up for myself, and not to let them win. I am sure it is a very big reason this woman didn't get to me at work because I wouldn't let her intimidate me.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!