@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.
Ha. You're funny. That's 90% of the post on there.
What's funny is that anyone who can read can go there and see how wrong you are.
There's several threads where people have been rude and down right mean to posters because they stated an opinion or asked for advice that no one thought they needed advice on.
I totally suck at GIFs but this would be a perfect moment for the "I wish I could bake a cake with rainbows and smiles and everyone would eat and be happy" crying girl in mean girls. Lol.
@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.
Ha. You're funny. That's 90% of the post on there.
What's funny is that anyone who can read can go there and see how wrong you are.
There's several threads where people have been rude and down right mean to posters because they stated an opinion or asked for advice that no one thought they needed advice on.
I can see how 'several' would add up to 90%. And often times if someone asks for advice and it isn't given, it's because we are not doctors and should not be dispensing that advice anyways.
But since you apparently think we're all just housewives, you already knew that we aren't doctors.
Is cause you are extra bitchy from your pregnancy hormones.
Funny hormone story. My nutso stepmom called me and was like you are all nauseated because you are making the baby's immune system. I was silent and then said "well. The science reason is because my hormones are doubling." She was silent and then said "whatever."
so that's it, I coulda sworn I was just always a bitch.
I don't think I could have answered a statement like that without some kind of snark. science ftw!
This is excatly why people hate the d14 board. Nothing but entitled bitches. Heaven forbid someone has an opinion that doesn't agree with the group. They get their heads chewed off about it.
D14 is seriously a joke.
Who are you? Seriously, every time someone goes off about how they know ALL of us on D14 are mean britches it is always someone I've never even seen on the board before.
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Also, like @summersunshine916 I too, entered this group with a good flaming. You know what I did then? I put on some big girl panties and got to know them. This group is HIGHLY supportive, very caring and absolutely hilarious. This is the internet. No one is entitled to rainbows and unicorns up their bootays. And frankly, after being here a few months, I don't want them anymore! And like PP's have said, if you really don't like the vibe here, no one is asking you to.
I think maybe she is sulking because in the "sprinkle" thread she was called out for her answer, which was late and the op had already been banned.
So maybe she is miffed with us for that!
Yikes my bad.
I have a strong suspicion this is the same chick from the sprinkle thread. Especially if she is joining after the OP was banned. Not too hard to create a new account that quickly. Ladies - dont feed the troll.
Also, like @summersunshine916 I too, entered this group with a good flaming. You know what I did then? I put on some big girl panties and got to know them. This group is HIGHLY supportive, very caring and absolutely hilarious. This is the internet. No one is entitled to rainbows and unicorns up their bootays. And frankly, after being here a few months, I don't want them anymore! And like PP's have said, if you really don't like the vibe here, no one is asking you to.
Thanks! For some reason it wasn't that hard. You guys... Must not be... that big of meanies. *gasp!*
There are less than a handful of people on the bump that can say they were bullied or were the center of meanness. I am one of them, and with that I can say this......
If you think honest answers to stupid questions, which do not blow smoke up your ass is bulling or mean, it's not, it's common sense.
Th second part was bmb are your best resources, and most connections. Come Dec when you can't figure out why LO won't stop crying, they will be your saving grace.
There are less than a handful of people on the bump that can say they were bullied or were the center of meanness. I am one of them, and with that I can say this......
If you think honest answers to stupid questions, which do not blow smoke up your ass is bulling or mean, it's not, it's common sense.
@MallardDucky You handled that situation like a real class act! I probably would have been all
Does anyone else feel like their birth month club if full of grown women acting like high school bullies? Or is it just me? I didn't sign up for snide and snotty comments from other women when replying to a post....
I recognize you from D14. I hadn't explored these boards until recently, so I am still observing the dynamic. It's not that different from boards on other sites, though it may be for a DDC/BMB. You may enjoy a different dynamic on another site. I have no experience with Baby Center. It never appealed to me, but Cafemom, FF (though it varies based on the board), Mothering have their fair share of boards that possess a dynamic you may not like. Justmommies is probably more like BC. Aside from the debate forum, most heated discussions tend to be quelled early on because people start boohooing about feelbads being hurt. I've been on those boards for many years, and they have their pros, but I don't particularly care for the woe is me! attitude that is very common. At least with FF and especially CM (user created groups) there is less moderation.
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I find it amusing that you posted on 2nd trimester board as though no one from Dec 14 would ever read this board lol. I don't know why you would want to alienate your entire birth month club. There's always gonna be people you don't like on boards but it's pretty stupid to assume it depends on what month they're due. Did you think the other birth month groups were gonna agree with you? I've never read the dec 14 boards but I think I'm gonna go check out this "sprinkle thread" for a good laugh
Re: birth month club
Not cool, OP.
But since you apparently think we're all just housewives, you already knew that we aren't doctors.
Beautiful! Thank you deary.
And like PP's have said, if you really don't like the vibe here, no one is asking you to.
You guys... Must not be... that big of meanies.
*gasp!*
At all, actually :P
... Or maybe I'm just a big fat meanie now too.
Eh, whatevs!
If you think honest answers to stupid questions, which do not blow smoke up your ass is bulling or mean, it's not, it's common sense.
Th second part was bmb are your best resources, and most connections. Come Dec when you can't figure out why LO won't stop crying, they will be your saving grace.
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