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  • perfectlove09perfectlove09 member
    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?


    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
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  • bmnethbmneth member
    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?



    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.

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  • nashambernashamber member
    bmneth said:

    LinziLoo09 said:

    It's okay guys. It's probably just her "hormones". ;)


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    Cute. I wish I could blame all my behaviors on hormones. However I know the difference between just being a bitch and feeling like you're entitled to being a bitch because of "hormones"


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  • perfectlove09perfectlove09 member
    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?



    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.

    So that's the only thing in this entire post that was bothering you? Some ladies being annoyed that their husband is being whiny after working? If that's all that bugged you I don't think it was necessary to call everyone hormonal bitches.
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  • bmnethbmneth member
    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?



    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.

    So that's the only thing in this entire post that was bothering you? Some ladies being annoyed that their husband is being whiny after working? If that's all that bugged you I don't think it was necessary to call everyone hormonal bitches.
    I never said hormonal bitches. I stated that some people are blaming hormones when clearly their just being entitled bitches because they are pregnant. There are plenty more examples. However I don't feel like posting them.

    Clearly people are not allowed I have their own opinions on This forum. Thank god I have an actually supportive group I'm part of and we all just laughed and how stupid everyone is on here.

    I hope all you lovely "career women" have wonderful pregnancies and don't let your hormones get the best of you.
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  • perfectlove09perfectlove09 member
    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?



    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.

    So that's the only thing in this entire post that was bothering you? Some ladies being annoyed that their husband is being whiny after working? If that's all that bugged you I don't think it was necessary to call everyone hormonal bitches.
    I never said hormonal bitches. I stated that some people are blaming hormones when clearly their just being entitled bitches because they are pregnant. There are plenty more examples. However I don't feel like posting them.

    Clearly people are not allowed I have their own opinions on This forum. Thank god I have an actually supportive group I'm part of and we all just laughed and how stupid everyone is on here.

    I hope all you lovely "career women" have wonderful pregnancies and don't let your hormones get the best of you.
    So your pregnancy support group sits around and laughs at people on this board...that doesn't sound hormonal, crazy, or idiotic at all
    /:)
    If that's the kind of support you need to get through your pregnancy...then I'm glad we're here to provide you with some good laughs.

    I'm not sure why you put quotation marks around career woman. Are you emplying that we're lying? That none of us work? I work 55 hours a week...is that not a career? I could easily assume like you did about us that you and your support group are all none working women since you have so much time to sit around and laugh at our "entitlement".

    You're welcome to your opinion. But I'm still not sure why you even came in this post if you had nothing to share about the actual post...
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  • pregnantinstylepregnantinstyle member
    I feel like this thread has got out of hand!
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  • bmnethbmneth member
    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    perfectlove09 said:

    bmneth said:

    GradSchoolPrincess said:

    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?



    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do.

    Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant.

    Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.

    So that's the only thing in this entire post that was bothering you? Some ladies being annoyed that their husband is being whiny after working? If that's all that bugged you I don't think it was necessary to call everyone hormonal bitches.
    I never said hormonal bitches. I stated that some people are blaming hormones when clearly their just being entitled bitches because they are pregnant. There are plenty more examples. However I don't feel like posting them.

    Clearly people are not allowed I have their own opinions on This forum. Thank god I have an actually supportive group I'm part of and we all just laughed and how stupid everyone is on here.

    I hope all you lovely "career women" have wonderful pregnancies and don't let your hormones get the best of you.
    So your pregnancy support group sits around and laughs at people on this board...that doesn't sound hormonal, crazy, or idiotic at all
    /:)
    If that's the kind of support you need to get through your pregnancy...then I'm glad we're here to provide you with some good laughs.

    I'm not sure why you put quotation marks around career woman. Are you emplying that we're lying? That none of us work? I work 55 hours a week...is that not a career? I could easily assume like you did about us that you and your support group are all none working women since you have so much time to sit around and laugh at our "entitlement".

    You're welcome to your opinion. But I'm still not sure why you even came in this post if you had nothing to share about the actual post...
    No we actually talk about important stuff and if someone has an opinion we don't bash them. Nor do we just "sit around laughing about your entitlements" I posted a question to them about this stupid thread and they seem to all have the same view that blaming hormones is not how it works.
    rshamos said:

    I think @bmneth‌ 's husband has hacked her account and is pretending to be her...

    He most defiantly has not hacked my account. Sorry it's impossible for a women to have strong opinions of her own. Such a horrible thing to have it seems.

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    @bmneth‌ - Hopefully your "support club" is able to explain the difference between "definitely" and "defiantly" to you. They certainly are not interchangeable words. #-o


    Goodness heaven forbid I mess up spelling a little.
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  • MikesfanMikesfan member
    Check out this post on 2nd Tri. 

    @bmneth‌ also felt the need to chime in and tell them we are entitled bitches.


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  • JulieSC81JulieSC81 member
    @bmneth‌ ...i hope you also plan to coddle your SO while you push a watermelon out of your vag. It might be scary for him you know. The rest of us will probably "whine and bitch" about the pain, er um, "hormones". :-w
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    Lol with lung capacity being smaller and getting side stitches when I walk I have to try so hard not to "waddle".
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  • bowlwomanbowlwoman member
    edited August 2014
    bmneth said:


    I never said hormonal bitches. I stated that some people are blaming hormones when clearly their just being entitled bitches because they are pregnant. There are plenty more examples. However I don't feel like posting them.

    Clearly people are not allowed I have their own opinions on This forum. Thank god I have an actually supportive group I'm part of and we all just laughed and how stupid everyone is on here.

    I hope all you lovely "career women" have wonderful pregnancies and don't let your hormones get the best of you.

    You used the wrong "they're." But I guess me pointing that out is just being an entitled, pregnant, hormonal, 40+-hour-a-week working editor who doesn't have anything better to do than point out grammar mistakes on an Internet forum.

    Grow up. We all have our own problems and our own relationship dynamics. If I want to bitch because my husband has been out of work for 8 months and I'm carrying the entire financial burden for the household and it makes me stressed, that's my right. Doesn't mean I don't love and respect my husband and sympathize with what he's going through career-wise. It means I'm stressed and want to vent. If you have a problem with that, go play with your other friends and leave this Internet sandbox alone.

    ETA: My TP-worthy comment was from DH on Friday when he complained about only getting 6 hours of sleep Thursday night because a friend came over and kept him up and then he had to play games with other friends on Friday afternoon and he was tired. Uh, I get that he needs downtime from taking over househusband duties and yeah, sending resumes is tiring, and I'm fine with having the friends over, but don't bitch when I've gotten the same amount of sleep AND worked 65 hours this week.
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  • bmnethbmneth member
    beckym1205 said:
    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?
    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do. Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Yet based on my observations of your posts, aparently something crawled up your backside and gave you the right to be one.
    I'm never a bitch to my husband but glad to see you think i am. 
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  • MaineMamaMaineMama member
    @bmneth , Please, Pretty please tell me you are really secretly Debbie Pearl in real live. PLEASE!!!

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  • bmnethbmneth member
    MaineMama said:
    @bmneth , Please, Pretty please tell me you are really secretly Debbie Pearl in real live. PLEASE!!!
    hate to disappoint but I'm not. and nor do i believe in her and her husbands views.
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  • kkins77kkins77 member
    I feel so bad for you ladies! I can't believe the crazy things people have said to you all! I haven't had anything really bad but when we found out I was having my 3rd boy my mom said she was sad for me because boys always leave their mothers. Well, nothing I can do about that!
    Also, it's so sad that someone would comment negatively on this thread. Isn't this supposed to be a community where we can come for support, sharing and venting?! It's hard enough to go through all of this without being attacked on community message boards!
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  • arynrasarynras member
    When I was still really sick and could barely keep anything down, my male cousin said "I bet if you would just eat healthy you would feel fine." Oh really? Because you've been pregnant before? And also, I clearly WANT my child to be malnourished.

    Obviously I would eat healthy if I could! Idiot.
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  • SuzieHomefakerSuzieHomefaker member
    JulieSC81 said:
    Back story: 1st pregnancy had no nausea and CRAVED all the healthy foods. This pregnancy...much different. I was so sick the first 14 weeks. i just feel blah! Soooooooo... I was complaining to SO that i can barely gag down vegetables to which he replied, "I know and im a little disappointed in you". Seriously. Because that makes me a terrible preggo? Throat punch comment of the summer. Winning!
    I read this to my husband and he said, "Whoa, wtf is wrong with people? She should have punched him." 

    I hadn't told him the title of the thread. LOL
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  • SuzieHomefakerSuzieHomefaker member
    littleboyermoose said:
    I am having my sex reveal tomorrow and I created an "odds" board with old wives tales on it. One category was "mood" and the choices were happy (boy) or moody (girl). I have felt like I have kept it together pretty well and have overall been pretty happy (with very minor bouts of sadness) throughout my pregnancy, so I circled happy. When my sister saw it she raised her eyebrows and said, "I don't know if I agree with that. You are just an exaggerated version of yourself." What does that even mean? And then she turned to her girlfiend and laughed not realizing that I was pretty hurt.
    All of these comments are TPW, but this one jumps out at me as something that would *really* hurt my feelings. Like, I can imagine being in that moment and feeling like I'd just been punched in the gut. People are really insensitive and rude and thoughtless, and most often it's our family members who are the worst offenders. 

    I'm sorry your sister hurt your feelings. 
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  • SuzieHomefakerSuzieHomefaker member
    bmneth said:
    Oooo and do you feel sorry for our husbands?
    If they have to put up with all the whinny shit. Damn straight I do. Being pregnant doesn't not entitle you to being a bitch to them or get pissy when they work long days and say they're tired and such.
    Um....did you read the title of this post before you clicked on it? Were you expecting something else? If you're so annoyed by our "bitchyness" then why are you even reading the comments? We are posting about dumb things that people say to pregnant women...it has nothing to do with hormones. It has everything to do with certain people in society thinking they are allowed to remove their filter when speaking to a woman who happens to be pregnant. Sorta like what you're doing now, nice job giving us another example to add.
    Saying you're pissed at your husband because he says he's tired after work is not someone just removing a filter because you're pregnant.
    So that's the only thing in this entire post that was bothering you? Some ladies being annoyed that their husband is being whiny after working? If that's all that bugged you I don't think it was necessary to call everyone hormonal bitches.
    I never said hormonal bitches. I stated that some people are blaming hormones when clearly their just being entitled bitches because they are pregnant. There are plenty more examples. However I don't feel like posting them. Clearly people are not allowed I have their own opinions on This forum. Thank god I have an actually supportive group I'm part of and we all just laughed and how stupid everyone is on here. I hope all you lovely "career women" have wonderful pregnancies and don't let your hormones get the best of you.
    Buh-bye now. 
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  • majoraimersmajoraimers member
    Played in a kickball tournament yesterday, a fellow played told a player on the other team I'm pregnant. After the game the team captain asked if I should be playing 'in my condition?' I told him I was in charge of making safety decisions for my body and baby. He pressed me and said it should be a by-law in the rules. I told him he was out of his depth and back off. People are idiots, being sedentary during pregnancy is more dangerous than moving a and being active.
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  • SuzieHomefakerSuzieHomefaker member
    majoraimers said:
    Played in a kickball tournament yesterday, a fellow played told a player on the other team I'm pregnant. After the game the team captain asked if I should be playing 'in my condition?' I told him I was in charge of making safety decisions for my body and baby. He pressed me and said it should be a by-law in the rules. I told him he was out of his depth and back off. People are idiots, being sedentary during pregnancy is more dangerous than moving a and being active.
    Are you in ATL by any chance?
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  • maamy1231maamy1231 member
    At work this morning and the only thing one customer says to me is, "Looks like you're having a bad hair day." REALLY?? Who says that to anyone??
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  • thelittleone1thelittleone1 member
    Because I'm young (20) my coworker likes to give me sympathetic looks and say "it's okay we all make mistakes. I hope you and your husband the best you are going to need it" X(
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  • KatiegmiamiKatiegmiami member
    TP #1 - co-worker tells me that I'm really big with this pregnancy - and can't believe I'm not further along than 5 months.   

    TP #2 - DD (6yo) told me last weekend that she wishes she didn't have a mom - not a nice thing to say to someone extremely hormonal and sensitive. I ugly cried for hours...into the next day. : (   I know she didn't mean it and is "pressing her boundaries" - but it really sucked to hear that. 
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