birth month club

emilyrmaila · August 2014

Does anyone else feel like their birth month club if full of grown women acting like high school bullies? Or is it just me? I didn't sign up for snide and snotty comments from other women when replying to a post....

emilyrmaila · August 2014

Baby center is a whole other site....

emilyrmaila · August 2014

I'm not asking for smoke being blown up my ass or what I want to hear. None of my personal posts have had this issue but seeing it happen on others all to frequently and sorry but it's plain childish

thegoodpotato · August 2014

No, I don't. I feel like both of my BMBs are great.... and bashing another board is not generally looked upon very well. You realize the people from your BMB are probably going to see this, right? Being stabbed in the back, if they've been supporting you this whole time, isn't going to make them have warm and happy thoughts about you.

I've found my BMBs to be extremely supportive... but, if you ask a stupid question, you're generally going to get a stupid answer. Also, if you ask a question that's been asked a billion times before, you're probably going to get an eye roll AND a stupid answer.

JaymeeLH · August 2014

Wow that's pretty awkward bashing all of us when you're brand new to D14...

Maebb · August 2014

People have already said it, but did you think you'd be invisible to your BMB here?

Twiggymommy · August 2014

Welcome to the bump.

The girls here are extremely helpful and supportive of real problems/questions but if you ask a stupid question you're gonna be met with a lot of snark. It it what it is you can love it or leave it but complaining will do nothing.

Like pp said... Other sites are full of rainbows and unicorns.

ninee88 · August 2014

I realize that you just started interacting with the D14 board, but what you may not realize is that this incredible group of women have supported each other through losses, in law drama, medical scares, and just helping each other stay sane during this roller coaster that is pregnancy.

I don't post terribly often, but I read most everything on that board. You are in no position to criticize having only been around for a few days.

WashingtonQueen · August 2014

emilyrmaila said:
Does anyone else feel like their birth month club if full of grown women acting like high school bullies? Or is it just me? I didn't sign up for snide and snotty comments from other women when replying to a post....

QFP

OP, this was a really bad idea.

path75 · August 2014

I thought all these people have left already. I find Dec14 very supportive. Especially due to the multiple losses our bumpies have experienced over the past couple of weeks. You obviously don't lurk before you post.

LinziLoo09 · August 2014

Hey! Aren't you in my BMB?? Wait, so you're saying that I'm....mean?!?! That just hurts OP. You know, talking trash behind a board's back doesn't exactly make you snide and snot free...

leoandethansmom · August 2014

Hey look, OP found a secret board that none of her fellow D14er's can find! oh wait....

I think I'll just start with the shirtless men gif now and move on.

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allfalldown14 · August 2014

ETA: My shirtless Hugh Jackman is broken. Damn.

EagainTA: Fixed it. You're welcome.

bunbun21 · August 2014

I haven't been posting long either, a couple of weeks at best but I love the D14 ladies! They call it like they see it and I have had so much support and quick responses from the ladies helping this FTM.

JaymeeLH · August 2014

I like how she posted and ran, you should probably just never show your face on D14 again

leoandethansmom · August 2014

@bunbun21 I love your sn, my son calls his butt his bun buns so every time I see you post I think of him and it makes me happy!

allonsyalonso · August 2014

I would love to see the evidence of where we've been mean or acted like high school bullies. Especially in the time that she's been posting on D14.

Considering the things that some of our ladies are going through right now, I'd say we're nothing if not down right supportive.

But I guess this was supposed to be an invisible post for those from D14 so what do I know?

Mikesfan · August 2014

Callout fail.

Hazel622 · August 2014

You have started a lot of discussions, during your short time on D14, and received a lot of support and positive feedback. Now, you are talking shit about a group of women who were kind to you and welcomed you? Not cool.

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leoandethansmom · August 2014

@slaps don't bring up the dreaded sprinkle thread again! That was an overwhelming night full of crazy.

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lionyloo32 · August 2014

Sprinkle thread ..... https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12407453/leave-me-alone-post-deleted/p1 She was called out on Pg 16. "She Gone" was hillarious!!

gimmeyronionrings · August 2014

Well, that was weak @emilyrmaila‌. Don't let the door hit ya'!

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lionyloo32 · August 2014

Anytime @slaps

megbmeg · August 2014

Thanks, OP for a good laugh! D14 has definitely had rough patches but for heaven's sake, these ladies are awesome and supportive and funny. On any board some comments are going to rub you the wrong way, but it's no big deal.

I hope you're out shopping for some big girl panties, so you can come back and apologize for your major brain fart, or give us an epic GBCB!

BankerBSN · August 2014

I seriously giggle every time a poster goes complaining to one board about another. And I am not at all surprised that OP feels this way. I totally saw this coming from her.

WashingtonQueen · August 2014

katehgee said:

Wow, OP. Just wow.

This gif just made my day.

The Nsync reunion performance was WAY too short.

bmneth · August 2014

This is excatly why people hate the d14 board. Nothing but entitled bitches. Heaven forbid someone has an opinion that doesn't agree with the group. They get their heads chewed off about it.

D14 is seriously a joke.

ebilbao · August 2014

@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.

bmneth · August 2014

ebilbao said:
@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.

Ha. You're funny. That's 90% of the post on there.

JaymeeLH · August 2014

bmneth said:

This is excatly why people hate the d14 board. Nothing but entitled bitches. Heaven forbid someone has an opinion that doesn't agree with the group. They get their heads chewed off about it. D14 is seriously a joke.

I mean you can all go ahead and hate us all you want, it's ridiculous that she would come to an even more public forum to complain about us. And like @ebilbao said, we're actually not that mean, stupid isn't really tolerated or coddled but it shouldn't be anyway

ebilbao · August 2014

@JaymeeLH‌

Mikesfan · August 2014

@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.

Considering your other meltdown today, I am "defiantly" not surprised you feel this way.

Edit: quote fail.

allonsyalonso · August 2014

bmneth said:

ebilbao said:
@bmneth At least on D14 we don't name call. As long as posters present their ideas a respectful and thoughtful way, there may be a bit of debate or snark, but no one is ever outright mean.

Ha. You're funny. That's 90% of the post on there.

What's funny is that anyone who can read can go there and see how wrong you are.

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