Husband Gaining Weight

Re: Husband Gaining Weight

• Rosie137 member

  August 2014

  Wut?

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• tangerinemachine member

  August 2014

  

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• Rosie137 member

  August 2014

  Oh I got an idea, you can love him anyway?
  
  Oh wait wait no, that's too simple. Give him an ultimatum, lose the weight or you're gone!

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• RondackHiker member

  August 2014

  It'd be pretty shitty to say, "hey, fatty! I don't find you sexually attractive anymore!" If you're willing to say some form of that, that's a big red flag. If he'd automatically think you're cheating, that's another red flag.
  
  Why can't you talk to him about wanting to be more active and eat more healthy as a family, so you're both healthy and setting a good example for the baby?

  
  

  
  

   

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• becausemom member

  August 2014

  Great, now I feel stabby.
  
  *exits thread*

  

  
  

  

  Because Daryl+Puppy =ALL the feels

  
  

  
  

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• karich member

  August 2014

  Didn't we all just gain a bunch of weight??
  
  I guess you should be thankful your husband isn't as shallow as you are.

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• AKAP2010 member

  August 2014

  I guess I'll answer this. My husband gained weight with my first pregnancy and our sons first year of life. He was the heaviest he had ever been... But I was NEVER unaroused by him! I can't even imagine saying that to him. By you saying that I'm wondering if your having other feelings about him that you don't want to admit (just my opinion).
  
  I have been overweight my whole life but having 2 kids in 2 1/2 years I'm the heaviest I've ever been but my husband still tells me I'm beautiful. While my husband is the skinniest he's been since highschool. We still have the same relationship we always have had. Your whole life you are going to change weight and appearance.

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• cattuccino member

  August 2014 edited August 2014

  Even if my husband did gain weight, I don't know how that would help you.
  
  I love and am aroused by far more than his outer appearance.
  
  I also don't understand what you're asking about with "the letter".

    

   

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• magentawarped member

  August 2014

  I have loved my husband through all his weight gains and losses, and he has loved me through mine. As a fat chick, I'm a little insulted, so...

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• magentawarped member

  August 2014

  JoyBaby5 said:

  This is asinine. I can't imagine ever saying this to my husband. I haven't lost all of my baby weight and he's maybe gained the same amount. We still are attracted to each other.
  Also, @magentawarped‌ you're crazy if you think you're a "fat chick!"

  Lol, thanks...mentally, I still live in my old, 50 lbs heavier body.

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• emar129 member

  August 2014

  @magentawarped‌ Psh whatever. You look fabulous.

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• Fullerj21 member

  August 2014

  OP think about the words you are using and how hurtful they could be to your husband. I would really think about this "issue" before saying anything to him. I know I would be devastated and so hurt if my H said anything close to what you said above.

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