Another idea, you said they work different shifts, yes? Well so do I and DH, I might talk to him for 10 minutes even I come home at night but usually he is asleep. Our time together is basically limited to the weekends and by then I have forgotten about all but the most exiting workplace nonsense. Plus with so little time I don't want to waste time with boring working details.
This is us, too. I rarely talk about work with my H. I frankly don't want to talk about work when I'm at home. #butItalkaboutTBconstantly
Re: NBR: time to poll the internet - is my coworker wrong?