TTC After a Loss

~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 7/28/14 ~*~*~

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edited July 2014 in TTC After a Loss

August Mommas

This check-in is for mommas who lost a baby due in the month of August (any year), and any late loss mommas who gave birth and lost their precious angel in August.

New to the check in: Welcome. I'm so sorry you find yourself here but hope you find the love and support you need from the amazing women on TTCAL. Tell us a bit about yourself, where you are in the TTCAL process, and don't forget to include your August EDD or birth date.

Current members: Let me know if you have any updates to the information below, or if you get a BFP please send me a PM with along with your EDD!

For everyone: How are you lovely ladies doing this week? Where are you in the TTCAL process this week? Any appointments coming up?

If you don't have a special message below, it just means you weren't able to check in last week or haven't checked in for a while. So, let us know what's up with you TTC and otherwise so I can include it next week!

The List:

katib77: EDD 8/7/14

NoeliaV: EDD 8/23/14 

mara005: EDD 8/27/14

sfazar: EDD 8/4/14

lundlebean: EDD 8/5/14


@katib77

@NoeliaV

@sfazar

@lundlebean


General life/ttc updates?

QOTW: What is your current favorite TV show?



"Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
**All After a Loss Welcome**
BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
 

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Re: ~*~*~ August Angels Check-In 7/28/14 ~*~*~

  • AFM on life- I'm helping with the crafts at our church's vacation bible school this week. I got a photography job, taking pictures of local Burger Kings. Thrilling I know, but I get $100 a store so I will do it!

    AFM on TTC- FF moved my CHs this morning, so instead of being  5dpo I'm back to 3dpo, gah!! So our timing is still in the "good" category but I'm not happy with it.

    QOTW: I've been binge watching Pretty Little Liars, it's addicting.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


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  • Hi Mara,
    It was a super busy week as we volunteer to put on our town's festival. Take six days off work to do it. Weather was great and good crowds. Only down part was the last night walking through the crowd about to watch the fireworks an old acquaintance of dh got introduced to me and immediately asked if we had kids - and then kept on about how his parents want more grandkids. I said something (don't even remember what) and I heard her say to dh "Oh, she's one of those that doesn't want kids huh?" Thank goodness I was already drinking with more available because she really pissed me off. With others that asked I had been able to calmly say we tried for five years with infertility treatments but nothing had works so we were moving on with life - but the way this woman was pushing I just couldn't. She's lucky I didn't punch her!

    TTC since July 2009. Dx MFI & LPD. 
    IUI#1&2&3 (2011 & 2012) BFN
    IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
    IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
    IVF w/ICSI Oct. 2, 2012 - 13R, 11M, 7F, 1 frozen blast 4BB grade - - - FET Nov 15, 2013
    BFP! Beta 1:104 @ 10dp6dt, Beta 2:178 @ 12dp6dt,  beta 3:366 @ 14dp6dt
    Saw heartbeat twice before missed M/C at 8w3d on 12/27/13, missing my little angel boy
    JUNE 2014 IVF#2;  5R, 2M, 1F Three day transfer 6/7.  Beta 6/18 - BFN
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  • sfazarsfazar member
    Thank you for the checkin @mara005.  That's so impressive that you got a commercial photography gig!  Where will the photos be displayed?
             Sorry about your dates being shifted backward, but at least you weren't too far off in the timing.  It sounds like FF has been a bit wonky these days.

    @katib77-- Ughh--what a rotten thing to happen.  I wish I had been there to punch that horrid woman in the face.  I hope you had a great time at the festival--I really miss the fair in my mom's hometown--it was quintessential summer fun!  In my current state, booze aren't served at the fair/ festivals, and I feel like it's a big factor in the fun and antics.
           
    As for me, I should be at 9 dpo.  My mom is coming tomorrow for a visit, and I am looking forward to that even though I have a lot of work to do to get the house ready.  No appointments coming up. We'll see what happens this cycle.  

    Favorite TV show--I love cooking competition shows!  Top chef, kitchen nightmares, etc.
               

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • @kaitb77 - OMG, I'm so sorry!  What an awful woman, many ((hugs))

    @sfazar - How are you feeling how this cycle? Does you mom live far away? Do you have any fun plans for her visit?  Also I LOVE cooking shows, have you seen cut throat kitchen?

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • sfazarsfazar member
    @mara005  I'm feeling pretty good this cycle, thanks for asking.  I'm not too tired at all, but I am kind of crampy right now.  My madre is coming from all the way across the country, so it will be a nice change of scene for her. I'm thinking we'll go to the beach. Plus she's excited to see my kitchen renovation progress. And I love antiquing with her!   I haven't seen Cutthroat Kitchen--will have to try that!!

    The other completely ridiculous show that has fascinated me and DH lately is married at first sight. 

    Thanks again for the checkin.  I hope your week goes well, and yours too, @katib77

    Me (34); DH (35)

    BFP 11/25/13; Heard strong heartbeats for 3 weeks; Natural MC (1/15/14)

    BFP 11/11/14 EDD 07/21/15 hoping for our rainbow!

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  • @mara005 Thank you for the check-in.  Have fun with crafts and your photography!
    @katib77 I'll hold, you punch.  Gah!  That woman sucks.
    @sfazar  Have fun with Mom!  Good luck this cycle.

    AFM:  Honestly, I feel like everything is going wrong this cycle and I'm afraid I'm going to end up cancelled partly because I cried at RE when I thought I O'd too early.  I have an appt. really early tomorrow morning and hopefully they just monitor me better and this cycle is okay.  I hate having no control.
    DH has the next 9 days off and I have at least 7 of them off as well.  We are putting up the pool tomorrow and getting new cable installed, then, if my cycle is not cancelled, we're going to CA's Great America on Thursday.

    QOTW:  My favorite show right now is Grey's Anatomy, but the show I keep up with that is actually on right now is Big Brother.  I have no shame.
    Siggy Warning BFP/Loss Mentioned
    Me: 30, DH 30 Started TTC 7/2009
    9/2010 SA=Normal 9/10 HSG Dx Both tubes dilated; Rx bilateral salpingectomy & IVF; 9/2010-12/2012 Financial break
    1/2013 Bilateral Salpingectomy 5/2013 Recent SA shows borderline morphology
    5/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #1 6/25/13 ER=11R 9M 9F  6/28/13 3dt of 2 embies (8B & 6A-); no frosties: BFN
    10/2013 IVF w/ ICSI #2 11/12/13 ER= 9R 6M 6F  11/15/13 3dt of 2 embies (8A & 8A) 3 frosties (2 day-5, 1 day-6)
    11/22/13 (7dp3dt) +hpt  11/26/13 (11dp3dt) BFP Beta=141 11/28/13 Beta 2= 372 EDD 8/5/2014
    3/20/14 Fetal Demise 20 wks F/L 17 wks D&E attempted 3/21/14 & 3/22/14 Born Still 3/23/14  I love you B.T.
    "Sometimes you try your hardestbut things don't work out the way you want them to." –Nani (Lilo & Stitch)
    “All I can say is, it's a sort of kinship, as though there is a family tree of grief. On this branch, the lost children, on this the suicided parents, here the beloved mentally ill siblings. When something terrible happens, you discover all of the sudden that you have a new set of relatives, people with whom you can speak in the shorthand of cousins.” ― Elizabeth McCracken
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    8/2014 FET 8/7/14 Transferred 1 5-day blast (4AA): BFN
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    TTCAL September Siggy Challenge:  Animals in Clothing

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    **All AL/AIF Welcome**
  • Hi, y'all! I am just back from a vacation where there wasn't any internet :-S lol
    And now I'm just mobile so I can't chart stalk anyone! Ah, well.
    @katib77‌ what a cow. I'm sorry she's so awful.
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    BFP: 12/20/13 EDD: 08/23/14 (discovered m/c at 8w5d)
    BFP: 09/22/14 EDD: 06/06/15 (hoping for our rainbow)
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