I love H, but I always dated the muscular athlete. Like center of the football team big. I wasn't looking for a new boyfriend when I met him, so we just fell for one another without any expectations. We just work and make sense together. I realized my "type" was bull.
I don't know if I necessarily have a type, but I knew when I met DH he was not it. We were set up on a blind date and I was expecting the worst based on stereotypes of his profession. When I met him, he was "decent" looking to me, but didn't really do anything for me. Really nice guy and we talked for hours on the first date, but I wasn't instantly attracted to him. My plan was to casually date him for a few weeks and end it just being friends. The more I got to know him, the more I wanted to actually give him a chance. It's amazing how much we actually have in common. It took a little while for the physical attraction to come in, but now to me he is the most handsome, attractive guy in the world and I can't keep my hands off him! I didn't even really know what my type was. I guess I still can't define what my type is.
Not really, most of the guys I dated or had. Thing for tended to be the tall skinny kind of hipster-ish type. He is tall but he's much bigger than any other guy I've dated not fat, just muscular an overall large built. Personality wise he's my type, super dorky
I never really had a physical type. If you look at my exes they are a fairly wide range. Average height to tall, blonde hair to black, blue eyes to brown, very muscular to quite lean. Smart to... not so smart haha (for the record, H is smart). I think one thing all of my exes have in common with H is that they are all more social, outgoing and quite funny (although in different ways). I'm a homebody and can be quite lazy, socially, so I tend to like men who are spontaneous and social because they get me out of the house doing things and trying things I might not be motivated to do on my own.
I have always been drawn to nerds, lol. Even in high school, an intellectual connection was way more important to me than physical features. H is a good lookin' nerd though.
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