I'm a self conscious right now. My husband watched a movie with tons of practically naked women in it when I wasn't home and I'm so angry at him for seeing all those hot women !!! Grrrrr!!! Wth is wrong with me? Lol
Ugh I feel you I'm not finding this whole pregnancy thing to be as beautiful as most women describe it. Too make it worse everyone my husband associates with are complete assholes. Yesterday, his mother mad fun of the shirt I was wearing stating, "I can't tell if you're walking or rolling" then one of his friends criticized me because my roots are showing and my finger nails do not not match my toe nails while the other always pokes his cheeks and gut out followed by the point and laugh. To say I am overly insecure and feeling unattractive is putting it lightly. My husband had to pull over on the hwy yesterday because I was sobbing uncontrollably
I'm with you. My husband asked his you get cousin (she's 16) what she thought if my bump yesterday, and she said, "I mean, it's there, it's just not a good shape yet." I got really offended. Why? Why should I care what a child thinks of my bump? (Which, btw, is a LOVELY SHAPE.)
Ladies, we are creators of life!!! Our bodies have never been more Divine than they are right now. We are participating in a sacred mystery.
If the boys/ men around us don't have to capacity to appreciate the transformation they are witnessing, don't pay them any mind. This isn't something they are given to do or understand.
Focus on your divinity and the new life you are creating. Let the small minded people worry about the small minded concerns like "weight gain" and "not perfect hair". We have bigger things on our minds.
Re: I'm a crazy woman!
If the boys/ men around us don't have to capacity to appreciate the transformation they are witnessing, don't pay them any mind. This isn't something they are given to do or understand.
Focus on your divinity and the new life you are creating. Let the small minded people worry about the small minded concerns like "weight gain" and "not perfect hair". We have bigger things on our minds.
*Steps down from enormous soapbox*